Husband won’t get vasectomy

Anonymous
I really don’t want another IUD and my husband won’t get a vasectomy. Just feeling sorry for myself.
Anonymous

Then don’t get another IUD.



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I really don’t want another IUD and my husband won’t get a vasectomy. Just feeling sorry for myself.


I hear ya, mine wouldn't get one either.

Why don't you want another IUD? Have you had problems with it? I loved mine. Although that said, I did switch to the pill for my last few years before menopause, it helped mitigate symptoms. Kept my weight in check, no hot flashes, I didn't dry up like the Sahara..... But once I went off the pill, all of the fun started.
Anonymous
Then he gets no sex. Period.
Anonymous
That sucks. What is his reasoning?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Then he gets no sex. Period.


What if he uses a condom?
Anonymous
What a wimp.

- man who is snipped
Anonymous
Do not get another IUD.
Anonymous
If you have a husband who refuses to get a vasectomy you are married to an asshole. I don’t care about any other qualities but he is o ly thinking of himself. OP refuse to have sex.
Anonymous
Another vote for no sex until he takes responsibility for birth control. F that selfishness.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you have a husband who refuses to get a vasectomy you are married to an asshole. I don’t care about any other qualities but he is o ly thinking of himself. OP refuse to have sex.


My husband's ex insisted he get one. Turns out she was cheating on him. He's not an asshole. He can use a condom and she can use protection or get her tubes tied.
Anonymous
I wouldn’t get one if I were a guy. Nor should he insist you get permanent birth control. Use condoms.
Anonymous
my friend's husband wouldn't get one (never the right time, it's biking season or it's this or that season). They now have an unplanned 3 month old baby #3. He's now snipped. He was grumbling about her decision to keep the baby (rather than abort) and I was like uh---this is your fault buddy.
Anonymous
He's a dumbass and a wimp/ A V is nothing and the sexual freedom that comes after is life changing.
Anonymous
You take responsibility for your body.
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