I really don’t want another IUD and my husband won’t get a vasectomy. Just feeling sorry for myself. |
Then don’t get another IUD. |
I hear ya, mine wouldn't get one either. Why don't you want another IUD? Have you had problems with it? I loved mine. Although that said, I did switch to the pill for my last few years before menopause, it helped mitigate symptoms. Kept my weight in check, no hot flashes, I didn't dry up like the Sahara..... But once I went off the pill, all of the fun started. |
Then he gets no sex. Period. |
That sucks. What is his reasoning? |
What if he uses a condom? |
What a wimp.
- man who is snipped |
Do not get another IUD. |
If you have a husband who refuses to get a vasectomy you are married to an asshole. I don’t care about any other qualities but he is o ly thinking of himself. OP refuse to have sex. |
Another vote for no sex until he takes responsibility for birth control. F that selfishness. |
My husband's ex insisted he get one. Turns out she was cheating on him. He's not an asshole. He can use a condom and she can use protection or get her tubes tied. |
I wouldn’t get one if I were a guy. Nor should he insist you get permanent birth control. Use condoms. |
my friend's husband wouldn't get one (never the right time, it's biking season or it's this or that season). They now have an unplanned 3 month old baby #3. He's now snipped. He was grumbling about her decision to keep the baby (rather than abort) and I was like uh---this is your fault buddy. |
He's a dumbass and a wimp/ A V is nothing and the sexual freedom that comes after is life changing. |
You take responsibility for your body.
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