
This, or at least end up making noise or drawing attention. All giving others time to react/take action. If all 6 occupants of the house had been awake, the result would have been quite different. |
This discussion is worse than anything I’ve seen on Reddit and possibly even You Tube, which is saying a lot. Pages and pages with the focus and obsession on the doors . .and people really wanting to believe this could never happen to them because they are so much smarter than anyone else…. you can’t make this stuff up.
Also there are many examples of rape and murder in dorms.. those are not iron clad safe havens lol. Most crime is mostly just being at the wrong place at the wrong time .. when some psycho sees you out somewhere, stalks you, and come hell or high water, they will find you and do what they want. If they can’t break into your house bc of a deadbolt, trust the they will find some opportunity or moment. |
Plus 1. He wiukd have found a way in- to think otherwise is naive. |
No, most violent crimes are committed by people the victim knows, often intimately. Murders like this account for an insignificant percentage of killings. The person most likely to murder a woman is her boyfriend or husband. Cases like this get media attention because they're so unusual and rare. |
+1 I know people who, once they had a stalker, installed security - including coded alarms (connected to local PD) on every door and window, cameras on each angle of the house (and inside too), motion sensor beams inside the house, on top of all bolts on each door, and hired house sitters if they ever (rarely) leave for any period of time. The neighbors and anyone with a need to know basis are on notice, as well. It changes your life. They try not to have a false sense of safety, because sick perpetrators do not have any (any) boundaries, which is why they are stalkers, to begin with. |
55 pages and I'd be curious to know how many of these posts are placing the blame squarely where it belongs (with the suspect) and how many are faulting the residents of the house. |
I don't think there is a person contributing to these posts who thinks that anyone deserves to be blamed other than Brian Kohberger. Hoping that our loved ones will take safety precautions is not assigning blame. |
But I think stalkers are feeling like they have more of a "right" with social media and other sites being available. What stalkers do not have (among other things) first and foremost, are boundaries - which changes the equation from a normal human to a dangerous person. BK targeted one or two of the girls from the restaurant at which they worked, most likely. I believe they never exchanged more than professional pleasantries with him, but he likely over heard their conversations while at work. He may have gleaned information about them that way. People should be able to talk (for example) and lead a normal life, without worrying about some mentally ill incel coming after them - or in this case, killing them. |
Unbelievablly obtuse response. |
Point is, I doubt these girls knew they had a stalker. Nothing obtuse about that. |
There was mention in the press very early on that one of the girls did in fact know someone was stalking her and had reported it - |
Thank you for that information. Doesn't justify the stalking, of course. |
The blame doesn't belong to the suspect until they are convicted. |
Technically, Yes, you are correct. However, let’s be honest here, we “know” HE did it! |
Wait - is he Jewish?? This can’t be. Maybe he really is innocent, if so? There’s never been a Jewish serial killer. |