Should I go to his mother’s funeral?
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Anonymous
| We’ve only been on 2 dates. Haven’t met friends or family yet. His mom died unexpectedly. |
Anonymous
| Yes, I would. Even if it does not go anywhere, it's the supportive thing to do. |
Anonymous
| Go. He’ll remember the people who were there for him. |
Anonymous
| I vote no because you didn't even know her. You go to a funeral to pay your respects. Not to tag along as someone's companion. It's not a wedding people. |
Anonymous
Your presence at a funeral is meaningless to the deceased. You go to support the loved ones left behind. |
Anonymous
| I would go but not with him as one PP suggested. Sit in the back, don't be clingy but do let him know you were there. |
Anonymous
| I wouldn’t. Don’t play wife to someone you’ve been out with twice. |
Anonymous
| Go, but be COMPLETELY unobtrusive. Don't say anthing to anyone other than "we're friends." |
Anonymous
How is going to his mother’s funeral playing wife? |
Anonymous
Funerals are for the living, dont you know that? If this guy is such a snowflake and can't handle life, then by all means go with him. |
Anonymous
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Has he asked you to go? If so, go for sure.
If not, I agree - show up sit in the back, pay your respects and leave. Don't tell anyone you are dating him. |
Anonymous
There’s something seriously wrong with you. |
Anonymous
He told me when the funeral is. He didn’t ask me to go, |
Anonymous
He just lost his mother... he can’t handle navigating the awkwardness of inviting you to the funeral. I agree with all who’ve said to go and sit in the back. FWIW, anytime you can show up at a funeral you should. Even if you just wanted to be friends, it’s nice to go. Don’t overthink this one! |
Anonymous
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Yes to sitting in the back. You don't need to stay for the luncheon (if there is one) or go to the gravesite.
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