I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

This! What 20 year old wants to have an affair with a 40+yo man. At that age, you just want to hang out with your friends and have a good time. Who wants to hang out with an old man?

Glorified prostitutes who are trading sex and company for money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

Typical DCUM always calling troll because it's unfathomable a younger woman may find an older man attractive.

you are just another jealous ugly fat middle aged SAHM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I'm not the OP but I am the PP (40s married guy with 24 yr old side chick) who posted above
Discretion is key. no electronic trace of anything. Use cash as much as possible .. restaurant, bars etc.
Have a burner untraceable phone. side chick does not know my primary number and it would be hard for her to cause damage if she decides to go crazy ...
Hotels.com gift card on a dummy account (not my primary account) so the hotel charges go towards the gift card. Usually have to provide a CC at check in but in 99% cases there is no charge to the card. Thankfully my wife doesn't pay attention to online credit card accounts so she would not notice any temp holds on the card at check in. She does look @ all the paper statements that come in so I need to be extra careful .. I also have a CC set up from a smaller bank ..paperless statements that she more or less does not know exists.

Do the right thing and divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

This! What 20 year old wants to have an affair with a 40+yo man. At that age, you just want to hang out with your friends and have a good time. Who wants to hang out with an old man?

Glorified prostitutes who are trading sex and company for money.

I've never spent more than $100 on dates with my 24yr old side chick. she gets impressed with the local mid priced ethnic eateries that serve cheap wine. why bother with the $250 prix-fix menu @ fancy restaurants that my wife and I used to go to for years (mostly ending the date night with no sex lol)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I'm not the OP but I am the PP (40s married guy with 24 yr old side chick) who posted above
Discretion is key. no electronic trace of anything. Use cash as much as possible .. restaurant, bars etc.
Have a burner untraceable phone. side chick does not know my primary number and it would be hard for her to cause damage if she decides to go crazy ...
Hotels.com gift card on a dummy account (not my primary account) so the hotel charges go towards the gift card. Usually have to provide a CC at check in but in 99% cases there is no charge to the card. Thankfully my wife doesn't pay attention to online credit card accounts so she would not notice any temp holds on the card at check in. She does look @ all the paper statements that come in so I need to be extra careful .. I also have a CC set up from a smaller bank ..paperless statements that she more or less does not know exists.

Do the right thing and divorce.

I will never break up my family, bring financial ruin to the millions accumulated that I hope to pass on to my kids. If my wife finds out and chooses to do so I will not fight it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I'm not the OP but I am the PP (40s married guy with 24 yr old side chick) who posted above
Discretion is key. no electronic trace of anything. Use cash as much as possible .. restaurant, bars etc.
Have a burner untraceable phone. side chick does not know my primary number and it would be hard for her to cause damage if she decides to go crazy ...
Hotels.com gift card on a dummy account (not my primary account) so the hotel charges go towards the gift card. Usually have to provide a CC at check in but in 99% cases there is no charge to the card. Thankfully my wife doesn't pay attention to online credit card accounts so she would not notice any temp holds on the card at check in. She does look @ all the paper statements that come in so I need to be extra careful .. I also have a CC set up from a smaller bank ..paperless statements that she more or less does not know exists.

Do the right thing and divorce.

I will never break up my family, bring financial ruin to the millions accumulated that I hope to pass on to my kids. If my wife finds out and chooses to do so I will not fight it.

like i said in my first post in this thread .. the moslems had figured it out. four wives for rich guys. keep the family together, keep the wealth and resources in the family

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

Women with good emotional health can’t relate. Unfortunately there are some damaged people out there who make easy targets for people like OP to take advantage of. It’s truly sad.

Op Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.

Old daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

5 feet is midget territory.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

Women with good emotional health can’t relate. Unfortunately there are some damaged people out there who make easy targets for people like OP to take advantage of. It’s truly sad.

Op Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.

You sound racist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

5 feet is midget territory.

He probably thinks his penis looks bigger by comparison.

[Anonymous]

So basically, OP found a short fat prostitute who would pretend to have orgasms from his toadstool penis.

Cool story, bro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

This! What 20 year old wants to have an affair with a 40+yo man. At that age, you just want to hang out with your friends and have a good time. Who wants to hang out with an old man?

Glorified prostitutes who are trading sex and company for money.

I've never spent more than $100 on dates with my 24yr old side chick. she gets impressed with the local mid priced ethnic eateries that serve cheap wine. why bother with the $250 prix-fix menu @ fancy restaurants that my wife and I used to go to for years (mostly ending the date night with no sex lol)

So...she's low class.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I'm not the OP but I am the PP (40s married guy with 24 yr old side chick) who posted above
Discretion is key. no electronic trace of anything. Use cash as much as possible .. restaurant, bars etc.
Have a burner untraceable phone. side chick does not know my primary number and it would be hard for her to cause damage if she decides to go crazy ...
Hotels.com gift card on a dummy account (not my primary account) so the hotel charges go towards the gift card. Usually have to provide a CC at check in but in 99% cases there is no charge to the card. Thankfully my wife doesn't pay attention to online credit card accounts so she would not notice any temp holds on the card at check in. She does look @ all the paper statements that come in so I need to be extra careful .. I also have a CC set up from a smaller bank ..paperless statements that she more or less does not know exists.

Do the right thing and divorce.

I will never break up my family, bring financial ruin to the millions accumulated that I hope to pass on to my kids. If my wife finds out and chooses to do so I will not fight it.

So what do you mean that I won’t fight it if my wife wants divorce? Is that meant as a sign of respect for her or more like you want your freedom? It’s a strange statement given that if she wants a divorce, there’s nothing you can do about it. Would you be generous and give her more in the split at least?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."