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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?[/quote]

I'm not the OP but I am the PP (40s married guy with 24 yr old side chick) who posted above
Discretion is key. no electronic trace of anything. Use cash as much as possible .. restaurant, bars etc.
Have a burner untraceable phone. side chick does not know my primary number and it would be hard for her to cause damage if she decides to go crazy ... 
Hotels.com gift card on a dummy account (not my primary account) so the hotel charges go towards the gift card. Usually have to provide a CC at check in but in 99% cases there is no charge to the card. Thankfully my wife doesn't pay attention to online credit card accounts so she would not notice any temp holds on the card at check in. She does look @ all the paper statements that come in so I need to be extra careful .. I also have a CC set up from a smaller bank ..paperless statements that she more or less does not know exists.[/quote]

Do the right thing and divorce.[/quote]

I will never break up my family, bring financial ruin to the millions accumulated that I hope to pass on to my kids. If my wife finds out and chooses to do so I will not fight it. [/quote]

So what do you mean that I won’t fight it if my wife wants divorce?  Is that meant as a sign of respect for her or more like you want your freedom?  It’s a strange statement given that if she wants a divorce, there’s nothing you can do about it.  Would you be generous and give her more in the split at least?[/quote]

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