I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

[Anonymous]

Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where would you meet to be intimate?

Hotels mostly

What brand?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you know you're an as$hole? Do you care if you traumatize your wife? Do you care if your kids hate you if they find out (because they will)?

I said be nice...

Ok but she didn’t say a f...ing asshole. She is being nice. LOL.

Seriously, she’s right though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

How to the hell is anyone at age 29 in a sexless relationship??

The trolling is plain awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

[Anonymous]

What are your name, address, and phone number?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:300k is well off it's not poor. My gorgeous friend who looks like a model had an affair for several years with a man who isn't rich, but did well. He made enough to buy her a house.

Nobody is buying a mistress a house making that and the wife not noticing...even all the way out in Gaithersburg that’s at least $500-600k.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would you marry someone with no libido?

It grew progressively worse and I do love everything else about her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

How to the hell is anyone at age 29 in a sexless relationship??

The trolling is plain awful.

Just be glad you haven't dealt with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op Here: Same old story...love my wife, sexless marriage. She doesn’t know, but I actually don’t think she would care as she has no libido (never really has). I don’t feel guilty or feel like the devil. I don’t need to pop viagra (yet). Stopped seeing her due to Covid and it doesn’t seem like she is interested in continuing (at least that’s what she says now). I do have kids and yes, I started this thread out of boredom but it a true....

This is so f-ing fake. A teenage creative writing project.

No - just a dumb middle aged woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

Similar story. We work in same office...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you know you're an as$hole? Do you care if you traumatize your wife? Do you care if your kids hate you if they find out (because they will)?

I said be nice...

Ok but she didn’t say a f...ing asshole. She is being nice. LOL.

Seriously, she’s right though.

Probably. But it’s just sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

That’s 27 year difference not 17...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

That’s 27 year difference not 17...

Haaaaa...

Dumb*ss troll lady can’t even do math.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi OP. I'm attractive and had an affair with a man 17 years older than me when I was 29 and he was 56. We had worked together for years so I just saw him as a peer, not an older man. Same story, both in sexless relationships and craved some excitement. Mine only lasted about 6 months though and took place at work after everyone would leave for the day.

How did yours start? How did you meet?

That’s 27 year difference not 17...

Math is hard