I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

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Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

Typical DCUM always calling troll because it's unfathomable a younger woman may find an older man attractive.

Mid 30s F here, a 50 year old is *disgusting* to me, so I'm with troll/fantasy.

Also - where are this girl's friends?! I'm married (and faithful!) but truly if I or any of my friends were sleeping with some creepy old married man as the side piece, my friends would smack me back down to earth so fast. I feel very sad for this woman that she is either so ashamed that she hasn't told anyone, or that her friends haven't talked some sense into her. How depressing to waste all that time with someone you can't take to social gatherings, who doesn't know your world/family/friends, who literally has to pay cash to have mediocre old man sex in a sleazy hotel. No future in that, and honestly gross, gross, gross.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

Typical DCUM always calling troll because it's unfathomable a younger woman may find an older man attractive.

Mid 30s F here, a 50 year old is *disgusting* to me, so I'm with troll/fantasy.

Also - where are this girl's friends?! I'm married (and faithful!) but truly if I or any of my friends were sleeping with some creepy old married man as the side piece, my friends would smack me back down to earth so fast. I feel very sad for this woman that she is either so ashamed that she hasn't told anyone, or that her friends haven't talked some sense into her. How depressing to waste all that time with someone you can't take to social gatherings, who doesn't know your world/family/friends, who literally has to pay cash to have mediocre old man sex in a sleazy hotel. No future in that, and honestly gross, gross, gross.

I had a few young friend banging old men.

FF 25 years...

one said to me, "do you think I have daddy issues"... haha, yea your dad abandoned you, your mom has had 5 serious boyfriends/father figures in your life.
another said to me, is it incest if my mom's husband who is not my father had sex with me and I was over 18?

I really don't care about the OP, but I would love to grab hold of 5t and curvy and get her the therapy she need.

Crazy in the head good in bed strikes again.

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."

Yep, that's bowling ball territory in a few years

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

That’s a good point. I don’t know anyone who sold out like this in their 20s or 30s. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I don’t think it’s that common. Why waste time on a losing game when you can invest in being a winner.

OP said affair partner is short and fat so maybe she settled.

I said short and shapely (by no means fat)

Enjoy this while it lasts I guess (she certainly should!) because this is the fast track to super dumpy real quick.

Fast track meaning 5 feet tall and already "curvy."

Yep, that's bowling ball territory in a few years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ask away (and be nice)....

Is this a person under 18? Are you a child groomer?

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Anonymous wrote:Man here and I'm curious about the logistics. Do you charge the hotels on her card so you dont' get caught? Do you go out at all like to dinner, or just hang in the hotel room the whole time?

What excuse do you use to account for the time you're with her?

I have a credit card she doesn’t know about that does paperless billing (and I pay all the bills). Due to the type of jobs we have, we would often travel together. During travel, we would eat all meals together. In town, we would just work “remotely” at a local hotel.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

It’s true. Look at all the other stuff people post on this site. Why do you come here? Don’t be judgey

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Anonymous wrote:Women don’t believe these stories because we were all young and hot once and not wasting our time at hotels with old married dudes. At a minimum an old married dude would have to be taking me somewhere nice.

Women with good emotional health can’t relate. Unfortunately there are some damaged people out there who make easy targets for people like OP to take advantage of. It’s truly sad.

Op Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.

You sound racist.

How am I racist? I’m having consensual sex with a woman who was born elsewhere. She pursued me. She can stop this at any time (and may have already). She has no interest in marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:So basically, OP found a short fat prostitute who would pretend to have orgasms from his toadstool penis.

Cool story, bro.

She’s short and not fat. She is fun and open sexually (pretty much anything goes), she is meticulous with hygiene and grooming and she has mulitiple orgasms (no reason to pretend). What’s there not to like...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

Typical DCUM always calling troll because it's unfathomable a younger woman may find an older man attractive.

Mid 30s F here, a 50 year old is *disgusting* to me, so I'm with troll/fantasy.

Also - where are this girl's friends?! I'm married (and faithful!) but truly if I or any of my friends were sleeping with some creepy old married man as the side piece, my friends would smack me back down to earth so fast. I feel very sad for this woman that she is either so ashamed that she hasn't told anyone, or that her friends haven't talked some sense into her. How depressing to waste all that time with someone you can't take to social gatherings, who doesn't know your world/family/friends, who literally has to pay cash to have mediocre old man sex in a sleazy hotel. No future in that, and honestly gross, gross, gross.

She doesn’t have many friends (and due to culture, is very family-centric). I’m not a troll. To each their own. I haven’t sat her down and analyzed why she does it.

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Anonymous wrote:Ask away (and be nice)....

Is this a person under 18? Are you a child groomer?

I would never do that. She was in her 30’s when this started.

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Anonymous wrote:You do know lying and cheating are signs of mental health problems, right? Your wife deserves to know. It is horrible to treat her that way and you will regret it. Women who sleep with married men and who support their lying are also damaged goods. Your kids are also going to be damaged and hate you.

His wife deserves to know what? She already knows she has no libido and doesn't want sex with him. THAT IS ALL SHE NEEDS TO KNOW. Where he gets sex is not any of her business,

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Anonymous wrote:You do know lying and cheating are signs of mental health problems, right? Your wife deserves to know. It is horrible to treat her that way and you will regret it. Women who sleep with married men and who support their lying are also damaged goods. Your kids are also going to be damaged and hate you.

Oh please, stop with the drama. Women like you are just insecure knowing that your husband is likely cheating on you. There’s no mental health issues, nothing wrong with how my parents raised me, I just enjoy having occasional fun sex and my wife doesn’t fulfill that need/desire.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You do know lying and cheating are signs of mental health problems, right? Your wife deserves to know. It is horrible to treat her that way and you will regret it. Women who sleep with married men and who support their lying are also damaged goods. Your kids are also going to be damaged and hate you.

Oh please, stop with the drama. Women like you are just insecure knowing that your husband is likely cheating on you. There’s no mental health issues, nothing wrong with how my parents raised me, I just enjoy having occasional fun sex and my wife doesn’t fulfill that need/desire.

Lying and betrayal and straddling two worlds definitely is a sign of past dysfunction. Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

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Anonymous wrote:Op Here: We were 50 and 33 when we started. She has no interest in ever getting married (to anyone). My HHI was about $300k at the time we met. Many men find her attractive (5’ tall but very shapely) but yes, it is somewhat subjective. It started out emotional and about a year later transitioned to physical.

Meh. My 49-year old husband makes $500k and bangs me good.

5” is a midget, btw.

Wow, that was uncalled for.

- signed a 5' woman