I had a 5 year affair with a gorgeous woman who’s 17 years younger (and I’m not rich) - AMA

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

They obviously are.

OP describes his affair partner as Shakira with exotic features. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes his affair partner as being impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine, while his wife expects and receives much more. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes guys he knows that buy a cheap bottle of wine for their affair partner; they call the affair partner a three dollar f- and chuck. Was that written by a woman?

If we are to believe that those statements were written by one or more women, then we would have to concede that the affair stories posted in this thread are not true, and that OP and the other posters are not in fact men who are getting it on with gullible women. I do hope you are correct and that is the case. Thank you for proving such hope.

Men may say that their AP are "petite" and "curvy", but they are not the ones describing these women as "midgets" and "fat". That would be women.

Women are the biggest judges of other women.

I don't condone affairs, at all. But, the some of you women on here are super viscious to OP's AP, whom you don't even know. I can only assume it's because these female posters are bitter. I guess if I was bitter about some other woman, I'd be judgie on here, too, calling the woman names.

She’s knowing banged a married man. She’s fair game!

Yeah. I was cheated on. The woman stalked me and wished me ill. So- yeah—I think any woman that knowingly enters someone’s marriage is a total POS and certainly no innocent. And my ex was a complete lying a-hole too. We were far from sexless. The pain they inflicted on everyone around them caused years of therapy. I still have trust issues. Cheaters are awful people.

[Anonymous]

^DP. Sorry. Cheaters are very juvenile, emotionally stunted adults.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^DP. Sorry. Cheaters are very juvenile, emotionally stunted adults.

Agree. Sorry that happened to you PP. That person was supposed to love and respect you. There are still good people in the world. Being rid of the bad ones is actually a blessing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

Your reading comprehension sucks. I remarked that Shakira is 4'11" as is Dolly Parton. I'm not the affair guy and I didn't mention her ethnicity (but I do love her belly dancing).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

They obviously are.

OP describes his affair partner as Shakira with exotic features. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes his affair partner as being impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine, while his wife expects and receives much more. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes guys he knows that buy a cheap bottle of wine for their affair partner; they call the affair partner a three dollar f- and chuck. Was that written by a woman?

If we are to believe that those statements were written by one or more women, then we would have to concede that the affair stories posted in this thread are not true, and that OP and the other posters are not in fact men who are getting it on with gullible women. I do hope you are correct and that is the case. Thank you for proving such hope.

Again, I'm the one who mentioned Shakira in the context of her being short. That's all. You really can't read.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Original OP Here: This chat is off the rails. There are no a half dozen or more men posting as OP. Thanks for your time and attention, I’m outta here (have to work on a strategy to get petite curvy woman back into bed).....

Haha, glad you had fun. Welcome to the mad world of DCUM and all the angry, bitter, sexless house wives that rule the place. I did a similar post (really hijacked another) where I answered questions for 40 pages. It always goes way off the rails.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

They obviously are.

OP describes his affair partner as Shakira with exotic features. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes his affair partner as being impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine, while his wife expects and receives much more. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes guys he knows that buy a cheap bottle of wine for their affair partner; they call the affair partner a three dollar f- and chuck. Was that written by a woman?

If we are to believe that those statements were written by one or more women, then we would have to concede that the affair stories posted in this thread are not true, and that OP and the other posters are not in fact men who are getting it on with gullible women. I do hope you are correct and that is the case. Thank you for proving such hope.

Again, I'm the one who mentioned Shakira in the context of her being short. That's all. You really can't read.

Here ya go:

3/24/2021 22:27 “OP Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.”

3/26/2021 9:09. [Response by OP] “Yes, think Shakira body and exotic middle eastern looks.”

Also,

3/24/2021 23:36. “I’ve never spent more than $100 on dates with my 24 year old side chick. She gets impressed with the local mid priced ethnic eateries that serve cheap wine. Why bother with the $250 pre-fix menu @ fancy restaurants that my wife and I used to go to for years (mostly ending the date with no sex lol).”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you guys honestly think this OP is real??? It's probably a fantasy. What grown ass old man goes to an online anonymous forum and says this? I mean, really, NOTHING better to do?

Typical DCUM always calling troll because it's unfathomable a younger woman may find an older man attractive.

Mid 30s F here, a 50 year old is *disgusting* to me, so I'm with troll/fantasy.

Also - where are this girl's friends?! I'm married (and faithful!) but truly if I or any of my friends were sleeping with some creepy old married man as the side piece, my friends would smack me back down to earth so fast. I feel very sad for this woman that she is either so ashamed that she hasn't told anyone, or that her friends haven't talked some sense into her. How depressing to waste all that time with someone you can't take to social gatherings, who doesn't know your world/family/friends, who literally has to pay cash to have mediocre old man sex in a sleazy hotel. No future in that, and honestly gross, gross, gross.

so easy to claim, in theory, that you and your friends will talk sense and stop you from doing this, but reality demonstrates that's a crock of sh*t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

x a million. this site is basically their sanctuary

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:300k is well off it's not poor. My gorgeous friend who looks like a model had an affair for several years with a man who isn't rich, but did well. He made enough to buy her a house.

Had a friend who's husband took out a loan to buy his AP a house. Lost his job, wife found out about everything. They had t sell their home to survive. Be care out there folks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

They obviously are.

OP describes his affair partner as Shakira with exotic features. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes his affair partner as being impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine, while his wife expects and receives much more. Was that written by a woman?

A man describes guys he knows that buy a cheap bottle of wine for their affair partner; they call the affair partner a three dollar f- and chuck. Was that written by a woman?

If we are to believe that those statements were written by one or more women, then we would have to concede that the affair stories posted in this thread are not true, and that OP and the other posters are not in fact men who are getting it on with gullible women. I do hope you are correct and that is the case. Thank you for proving such hope.

Again, I'm the one who mentioned Shakira in the context of her being short. That's all. You really can't read.

Here ya go:

3/24/2021 22:27 “OP Here: She initiated and pursued me. I really showed no interest in her initially because I didn’t think she was attainable and she is very culturally different.”

3/26/2021 9:09. [Response by OP] “Yes, think Shakira body and exotic middle eastern looks.”

Also,

3/24/2021 23:36. “I’ve never spent more than $100 on dates with my 24 year old side chick. She gets impressed with the local mid priced ethnic eateries that serve cheap wine. Why bother with the $250 pre-fix menu @ fancy restaurants that my wife and I used to go to for years (mostly ending the date with no sex lol).”

See men? You too can find younger women with low self-esteem to give you sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

x a million. this site is basically their sanctuary

The posts referred to above were written by men, not by women. This site is called DC Urban Moms; no surprise women are on this site. If you look down on this site as being a sanctuary for women, or “bitter women” as you say, then why post here? I assume you are not a woman because you said “their sanctuary.” You are not without options; why not post someplace that is more amenable for you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ OP thank you for agreeing with my post.

- The person who posted about the pathology of secret affairs.

Well, you tried it.

I’m not cheated on, but I don’t know how common it is for the cheater cheater pumpkin eater to hate/scorn the other woman. I mean maybe but it comes across as wishful thinking and not a broadly acknowledged truism.

The cheating men in this thread referred to the other women as midget (short in stature), Shakira (ethnic), impressed by cheap ethnic eateries and cheap wine (gullible/low class), and three dollar f- and chuck (self explanatory). Not wishful thinking; this is what the cheating men themselves wrote in this thread.

DP.. I assumed those were written by bitter women.

x a million. this site is basically their sanctuary

The posts referred to above were written by men, not by women. This site is called DC Urban Moms; no surprise women are on this site. If you look down on this site as being a sanctuary for women, or “bitter women” as you say, then why post here? I assume you are not a woman because you said “their sanctuary.” You are not without options; why not post someplace that is more amenable for you?

If men didn't post here, you harpies would have nothing to talk about. You certainly don't enjoy each other's company. The place would fall apart in no time.

[Anonymous]

^^ You show ‘em tough guy! Lol!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op Here: Same old story...love my wife, sexless marriage. She doesn’t know, but I actually don’t think she would care as she has no libido (never really has). I don’t feel guilty or feel like the devil. I don’t need to pop viagra (yet). Stopped seeing her due to Covid and it doesn’t seem like she is interested in continuing (at least that’s what she says now). I do have kids and yes, I started this thread out of boredom but it a true....

This is so f-ing fake. A teenage creative writing project.

Not a teenage one. The writing is longhand. Teens don't know how to write without abbreviating everything in text speak.