Pretending to Not Remember Someone

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

Can you do Math? A normal 8th grader turns 14 during the school year unless they are redshirted bc they have special needs. Btw no one says retard anymore. You must be ancient and a mentally deficient person who had sex early since you are triggered by my comment.

Np-I wouldn’t be surprised if angry pp is the crazy mom from upthread who got super defensive about redshirting. She said she redshirted her kids and it’s a mark of privilege or specialness or something lol. She reminds me of this parent at my kids’ wealthy private. Her child is literally the only one in my kids’ classes who’s redshirted and she’s super defensive about it. This kid is doing terribly academically, has no friends (probably bc he’s too old!), but super entitled. It’s sad but I wouldn’t be surprised if he ended up dead or homeless after burning through his parents’ money in the future. Sorry to go OT!

It absolutely is a mark of privilege in DC where childcare costs are about $3000 a month. Families that redshirt -so their child is older, larger and more developed than the kids he's competing against in the classroom and on the playing field-have committed at least $36,000 to this advantage.

That this notion is foreign to you tells me you don't have a kid in any of the areas top privates. It's standard practice there.

Lol sounds like PP called it right

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

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OP, it doesn't mean that at all. I grew up in another country and a few years ago I reconnected with a group of friends from elementary school age (we attended the same school for 4 years and were in the same class). There is one particular girl I don't remember at all - not even a glimpse. I know logically that I knew her - there are photos, in some of which I'm often standing next to her and other friends, whom I do remember... but in my brain it's like she never existed. I don't know why I don't remember her, she is a delightful person, my PARENTS even remember her... the human brain is weird.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

Hi crazy redshirting mom! I thought your kids were slow but it looks like you are too.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

Can you do Math? A normal 8th grader turns 14 during the school year unless they are redshirted bc they have special needs. Btw no one says retard anymore. You must be ancient and a mentally deficient person who had sex early since you are triggered by my comment.

Np-I wouldn’t be surprised if angry pp is the crazy mom from upthread who got super defensive about redshirting. She said she redshirted her kids and it’s a mark of privilege or specialness or something lol. She reminds me of this parent at my kids’ wealthy private. Her child is literally the only one in my kids’ classes who’s redshirted and she’s super defensive about it. This kid is doing terribly academically, has no friends (probably bc he’s too old!), but super entitled. It’s sad but I wouldn’t be surprised if he ended up dead or homeless after burning through his parents’ money in the future. Sorry to go OT!

It absolutely is a mark of privilege in DC where childcare costs are about $3000 a month. Families that redshirt -so their child is older, larger and more developed than the kids he's competing against in the classroom and on the playing field-have committed at least $36,000 to this advantage.

That this notion is foreign to you tells me you don't have a kid in any of the areas top privates. It's standard practice there.

Lol sounds like PP called it right

+1, the crazy redshirter needs to stop parading her insecurities on an anonymous board and get some damn help for her kids since they’re obviously failing at life despite having an extra year to become more developed.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

Hi crazy redshirting mom! I thought your kids were slow but it looks like you are too.

She’s also awfully hung up on money. She’s probably some poor trash who’s making a bit of money now and redshirted bc her kids have sn, but she tells herself it’s bc that’s what a wealthy person would do.

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There is a remote chance that she actually doesn’t remember him.

Middle school was almost thirty yrs. ago.

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Anonymous wrote:There is a remote chance that she actually doesn’t remember him.

Middle school was almost thirty yrs. ago.

+1

I vaguely remember one guy I "dated" in middle school. Can barely picture his face, can't remember his name. He moved away not long after that. Who knows what he would look like now 30 years ago.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

+1. I deal with this attitude with the parents of the public school kids on my sons travel team. They are just poor. The jealously overwhelms them with hate. Ignore.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

+1. I deal with this attitude with the parents of the public school kids on my sons travel team. They are just poor. The jealously overwhelms them with hate. Ignore.

Stop sockpuppeting crazy redshirter lady! And go back to the trailer you grew up in once in a while. Your folks and the whole town think you’re getting snobby.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

+1. I deal with this attitude with the parents of the public school kids on my sons travel team. They are just poor. The jealously overwhelms them with hate. Ignore.

Stop sockpuppeting crazy redshirter lady! And go back to the trailer you grew up in once in a while. Your folks and the whole town think you’re getting snobby.

The only person here pretending to be multiple people is you. Jeff sees your ip and knows this. We know it because you can't hide how ignorant and uneducated you are. It sticks out in every post like a stale fart.

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at my kids’ wealthy private.

Said no parent ever of their child attending private school.

This reads like some poor plumber's wife with an eight grade education.

+1. I deal with this attitude with the parents of the public school kids on my sons travel team. They are just poor. The jealously overwhelms them with hate. Ignore.

Stop sockpuppeting crazy redshirter lady! And go back to the trailer you grew up in once in a while. Your folks and the whole town think you’re getting snobby.

The only person here pretending to be multiple people is you. Jeff sees your ip and knows this. We know it because you can't hide how ignorant and uneducated you are. It sticks out in every post like a stale fart.

Doubling down on the crazy. Take your meds and accept that you and your kids will always be deficient.

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Some people are just unforgettable, no matter how much you try. I mean - what can you do? Best is hope the memories are fond and not foul.

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Another vote for she's still got a crush and is nervous to return to her hometown because of your DH. Keep an eye on them!

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I was listening to 70s on 7 ( Sirius XM station ) and I kid you not “Beach Baby” from First Class was playing. Even at thirteen I thought the song was sad.

Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah
We couldn't wait for graduation day
We took the car and drove to San Jose
That's where you told me that you'd wear my ring
I guess you don't remember anything

I remember most of my crushes and girlfriends from MS, HS, and college. I did get married at 24. The ones I forget I probably only crushed on for a few weeks.

But I just can’t wrap my head around what it takes to forget someone I had an extensive relationship with for eighteen months.