Pretending to Not Remember Someone

[Anonymous]

You want to put 40 people (and spouses?) in a house?

[Anonymous]

I pretend not to remember teenage bfs when I feel embarrassed about the “romance”. She doesn’t want your DH, OP.

[Anonymous]

Of course it's possible she still yearns for him. There gazillions of movies and TV shows premised on old couples reuniting.

I have a gf who bumped into her HS bf after her divorce. They had not spoken in 20 years. He went through a divorce 5 years earlier. Long story short- they are now married. It's such a great story.

[Anonymous]

OP, you sound unhealthily insecure. Who in the world would care about a possible middle school romance and who remembered what. Normal, healthy, mature people would not let this raise in their brains.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

[Anonymous]

I can't remember everyone I've slept with, much less every gf I've had. How do you all do that?

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

[Anonymous]

Maybe she has memory impairment due to a medical condition?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want to put 40 people (and spouses?) in a house?

Why would you be inside, during the summer, while attending a cook out at a river house? Isn't the point of hosting a cookout at a river house to be outside....enjoying the river?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

Can you do Math? A normal 8th grader turns 14 during the school year unless they are redshirted bc they have special needs. Btw no one says retard anymore. You must be ancient and a mentally deficient person who had sex early since you are triggered by my comment.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

Can you do Math? A normal 8th grader turns 14 during the school year unless they are redshirted bc they have special needs. Btw no one says retard anymore. You must be ancient and a mentally deficient person who had sex early since you are triggered by my comment.

Np-I wouldn’t be surprised if angry pp is the crazy mom from upthread who got super defensive about redshirting. She said she redshirted her kids and it’s a mark of privilege or specialness or something lol. She reminds me of this parent at my kids’ wealthy private. Her child is literally the only one in my kids’ classes who’s redshirted and she’s super defensive about it. This kid is doing terribly academically, has no friends (probably bc he’s too old!), but super entitled. It’s sad but I wouldn’t be surprised if he ended up dead or homeless after burning through his parents’ money in the future. Sorry to go OT!

[Anonymous]

The only reason I might pretend not to remember someone in a situation like this is if I was somehow humiliated or embarrassed by him, or if I did something embarrassing that I don't want to face.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:LOL. OMG OP you actually think someone who was a middle school girlfriend is still holding a flame for your DH? Thank you. I needed this laugh today.

Well, as a guy who contacted al of his exes after my divorce I can promise you that people do in fact remember who they were once in love or lust with. Even if it was when they were a teenager.

Reaching out to exes after a divorce is very common.

Really? You would contact someone you were in a "relationship" with when you were 12? That's just pathetic.

I was 15 at the end of 8th grade. Lost my virginity that summer. I remember his name, the way he was gentle and everything about it. Occasionally I look him up on FB. I'm 38.

You were 15yo in 8th grade???

I graduated from high school when I was 16... why were you 15yo in 8th grade??

If somebody stayed back a year, they might be 15 at the end of 8th grade (8th grade is normally when you are 13, and turn 14 sometime during the year. So if she stayed back a year, she was 14, and turned 15 by the end of the year). Your senior year most students are about 17, and turn 18 sometime during the year ... or if their birthday is late, you graduate at 17. So most kids are 17 or 18 when they graduate. If you started early or skipped a year, you'd be 16 at the beginning of the year, and possibly turn 17 by the end of the school year.

That's how.

So basically she was stupid or slow..an 8th grader having sex is just sad and a slow one having sex? Even sadder.

Do you even have kids? Depending on the schools locale, students attend kindergarten the year they turn 5 or 6 as of the last day of a certain month. This month varies from June 30 to November 1, again, by locale. That means across the US you have about a 1.5 year disparity in age per grade level. It's not a had concept to grasp. Unless you are a retard. Are you a retard?

Can you do Math? A normal 8th grader turns 14 during the school year unless they are redshirted bc they have special needs. Btw no one says retard anymore. You must be ancient and a mentally deficient person who had sex early since you are triggered by my comment.

Np-I wouldn’t be surprised if angry pp is the crazy mom from upthread who got super defensive about redshirting. She said she redshirted her kids and it’s a mark of privilege or specialness or something lol. She reminds me of this parent at my kids’ wealthy private. Her child is literally the only one in my kids’ classes who’s redshirted and she’s super defensive about it. This kid is doing terribly academically, has no friends (probably bc he’s too old!), but super entitled. It’s sad but I wouldn’t be surprised if he ended up dead or homeless after burning through his parents’ money in the future. Sorry to go OT!

It absolutely is a mark of privilege in DC where childcare costs are about $3000 a month. Families that redshirt -so their child is older, larger and more developed than the kids he's competing against in the classroom and on the playing field-have committed at least $36,000 to this advantage.

That this notion is foreign to you tells me you don't have a kid in any of the areas top privates. It's standard practice there.