DH called our nanny hot

[Anonymous]

You are all absolutely crazy.

of course he finds her hot. He was dumb enough to say it out loud to a loser who was even dumber to tell the wife.

Any nanny you get under the age of 40 that isn't fat he will want to sleep with. It's just human nature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you should have had kids when you were 25! Then you would not be 40 and so insecure.

You're probably fat and ugly.

[Anonymous]

Oof. If DH found out nanny attractive, 1) he wouldn’t have used the word “hot” which I find degrading, and 2) he wouldn’t have discussed it with a buddy. He would have discussed it with me. I dunno, I find this gross behavior.

I just hope OP he makes you feel beautiful too, because every woman deserves to feel that way. That said, your insecurities are ultimately your own. Work on that and tell your husband he messed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s a great bit in one of Ali Wong’s Netflix specials on why she hired an old nanny. It’s damn funny...and practical advice! Don’t hire a hot nanny.

That didn't work for Maria Shriver.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I have always been really open about whether we think someone is pretty, handsome, hot, etc. Like it is truly a matter of FACT.
It diffuses the potential insecurity. Works for us. There will always be hotter, younger, prettier, funnier, etc. It doesn't mean we are less.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you let yourself go, op?

This

[Anonymous]

Hire a hot yard worker for the summer.

[Anonymous]

Misogynists gonna misogyny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The question isn't whether your nanny is hot, it's whether your DH is hot. If not, you have nothing to worry about.

Nope. The husband doesn't need to be hot as long as he has enough money.

True. Young, hot, working relatively low wage job she likely wants to quit as soon as she has education/skills for something else, very close to your family...prime affair material.

But some men sleep with ugly nannies too. There is no way to know.

[Anonymous]

Why is a hot young woman working as a nany?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hire a hot yard worker for the summer.

+1. Fair’s fair! Personal trainer, maybe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I are 40 and have two twin boys who are 2. We have a nanny who is honestly fantastic and quite pretty, she's 28.

One of my friends (DH's best friends wife) came over right as the nanny was leaving and briefly said hello to her. Her and I continued to chat and she made a comment "she's as hot as Chris (fake name for DH) described her."

I looked pretty shocked when she said that. She apologized extensively and mentioned my husband Chris has told her husband that we have a really hot nanny. She continued to assure me nothing fishy was up it was just the guys talking.


I feel really hurt. Obviously it's because I'm insecure because she's clearly attractive and 10 years younger than me. Should I bring it up to him?

And what would you accomplish by doing that? He can't control his brain. I suppose you can make him shut up his mouth, but not his head. 40 is not too old. Have you given up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is a hot young woman working as a nany?

To land someone else's rich husband, duh. While she saves money for "college"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is a hot young woman working as a nany?

To land someone else's rich husband, duh. While she saves money for "college"

In some areas they strip... Here they nanny.

[Anonymous]

Up your game Old Maid...