DH called our nanny hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, don't be insecure. You mentioned you found her quite pretty so you're DH probably does as well.

I would just let it go. If you have not noticed any red flags I would just move on. Though I would get a new nanny because I am crazy.

So for the new nanny because OP is insecure? That’s messed up. A 28 year old hot woman isn’t looking for a 40 year old dad. Nope. Nannies don’t want your old husbands.

They may if your husband is rich and attractive.

Stupid comment

[Anonymous]

I'd get rid of the husband, not the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d be careful. The recent story of Christopher Plummer’s death reminds me men go for younger women. Captain von Trapp ditches the Baroness who is wealthy, stylish and sophisticated for Maria who is just kind of annoying.

This is so weird I almost reported it. The baroness hated the children.

Yeah, but most Dads in the Captain's position would throw the kids right into the lake if the woman is hot enough. That's the point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d be careful. The recent story of Christopher Plummer’s death reminds me men go for younger women. Captain von Trapp ditches the Baroness who is wealthy, stylish and sophisticated for Maria who is just kind of annoying.

This is so weird I almost reported it. The baroness hated the children.

Can you report yourself for lack of sense of humor?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, don't be insecure. You mentioned you found her quite pretty so you're DH probably does as well.

I would just let it go. If you have not noticed any red flags I would just move on. Though I would get a new nanny because I am crazy.

So for the new nanny because OP is insecure? That’s messed up. A 28 year old hot woman isn’t looking for a 40 year old dad. Nope. Nannies don’t want your old husbands.

They may if your husband is rich and attractive.

Some nannies believe if you have enough money to hire (the nanny), then you are rich - at least compared to her.

[Anonymous]

OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The question isn't whether your nanny is hot, it's whether your DH is hot. If not, you have nothing to worry about.

literally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

Is he hot?

[Anonymous]

We need more information, OP. Were you hot before you had the kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

No. What is there to bring up? He told his friend which is normal. Friend told wife which is also fine. Wife should've been less sloppy, but you're overreacting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We need more information, OP. Were you hot before you had the kids?

Wow, jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

Yes. He needs a filter. Talking about someone other than his wife in a sexual way to others is inappropriate/bad judgment. Sure, he can find her attractive (after all, she is), but calling her “hot” ups the creep factor. That’s just not a way a married man should be talking about his nanny, nor is it the way an employer should be talking about his employee.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

No. What is there to bring up? He told his friend which is normal. Friend told wife which is also fine. Wife should've been less sloppy, but you're overreacting.

True dat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??

Yes. He needs a filter. Talking about someone other than his wife in a sexual way to others is inappropriate/bad judgment. Sure, he can find her attractive (after all, she is), but calling her “hot” ups the creep factor. That’s just not a way a married man should be talking about his nanny, nor is it the way an employer should be talking about his employee.

I’m a woman and this is exactly why men don’t talk to us
Let it go

[Anonymous]

If you acted upset/hurt to the friend, she's relayed it to her DH who will maybe relay it to yours.

I don't think it is a big deal depending on your DH. I wouldn't love the comment- and the fact that your friend knew, but people joke around with their friends.