Do any of your boyfriends/ husbands like you a normal weight vs skinny?

[Anonymous]

Here's a percentile calculator for for adults:

https://dqydj.com/bmi-percentile-calculator-men-women-united-states/

The 19.3 poster isn't underweight per se, but I would definitely consider "skinny". Most people posting their normal weight really do have healthy weights and I think they look best. But I looked up BMIs and a 24.9 for woman is the 30th percentile, so still you are probably skinny compared to the average American, though we're a pretty fat country. Personally, as a bisexual woman, I think women look best at 23-26 BMIs while also working out. They're curvy and soft, yet they're strong and I don't find them fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow this thread has some crazies....
To answer the actual questions - Yes, my DH does not like skinny, and neither did any of my exes. They also liked that I am not diet crazy and can actually enjoy eating with no guilt, thinking anything is "bad" or other weird attitudes towards food.

Agree that a lot of it is the mentality that accompanies (obsessiveness about food/exercise etc)

[Anonymous]

I find I get the most looks, stares, and male attention at about a size 8. I think 140 at 5'5 I get appreciative glances everywhere I go. And I am also an apple shape, so it's not that I turn into an hour glass and have a tiny waist with giant boobs and butt- but of course everything grows proportionally.

I do think women have been fed a lie by the media about what men like.

[Anonymous]

Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

You know *many* couples where both partners have a BMI of *50 or 60*? Where do you live, on the set of My 600lb Life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

You know *many* couples where both partners have a BMI of *50 or 60*? Where do you live, on the set of My 600lb Life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

You know *many* couples where both partners have a BMI of *50 or 60*? Where do you live, on the set of My 600lb Life?

In a red state lets just leave it at that. They are all professionals and have a Covid pod together. About 5 couples. Each of them have at least a 50 BMI.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

You know *many* couples where both partners have a BMI of *50 or 60*? Where do you live, on the set of My 600lb Life?

In a red state lets just leave it at that. They are all professionals and have a Covid pod together. About 5 couples. Each of them have at least a 50 BMI.

NP. How.... interesting. I dont think it applies to this thread though

[Anonymous]

Yes. I am 5'6" with an athletic build and have ranged from 126 to 145 for most of my adult life (except pregnancy). I think I look best at the lower end, but when I reach about 138 lbs. and feel like I need to start watching it is when my husband starts making "d@mn, baby you look good" comments.

[Anonymous]

Maybe someone had already written this, but skinny can be a normal weight. The challenge is to broaden what is considered normal and aim for health.

[Anonymous]

My husband met me back in 2005 when I was somewhere between 115-120 (I'm 5'3"). I was a runner and went to TRX classes religiously. Now I don't work out much (small kids, demanding job...), have lost all that muscle, and last weighed in around 108 lbs. He claims to prefer my "softer" (i.e. skinnyfat) body now. I was happier with the other body though and am very much hoping to get back to that form. (No, I do not diet or watch calories.)

[Anonymous]

I've never been skinny but I'm currently at the high end of my normal range. I know my husband hopes I can lose 10-15 pounds but it gets tougher as you get older. He certainly hasn't lost any of his physical interest in me. Thank Heavens!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do men with a BMI of 50 or 60 prefer women with BMI of 50 or 60? Or do they both settle for each other because no one else wants to be with them? I know many couples like this.

You know *many* couples where both partners have a BMI of *50 or 60*? Where do you live, on the set of My 600lb Life?

In a red state lets just leave it at that. They are all professionals and have a Covid pod together. About 5 couples. Each of them have at least a 50 BMI.

This is really crazy.

[Anonymous]

Fat girls are gross AF. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I am 5'6" with an athletic build and have ranged from 126 to 145 for most of my adult life (except pregnancy). I think I look best at the lower end, but when I reach about 138 lbs. and feel like I need to start watching it is when my husband starts making "d@mn, baby you look good" comments.

Sounds like your DH is attracted to 15 year old boys.