Do any of your boyfriends/ husbands like you a normal weight vs skinny?

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The two PPs bickering back and forth are embarrassing. You're adults, probably mothers, and you're acting like middle school mean girls. Please, take a minute and just look at your posts and ask yourselves if this is the type of stupid stuff you want your own kids doing.

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Anonymous wrote:^These women didn't look anything like crossfit athletes. It was video compilations and they were all extremely soft and jiggly and had zero visible muscle. I mean they were definitely "thicc", that's for sure- some would say borderline chubby. It really struck out to me because when I was growing up it was all about the super skinny look

I think it is regional and cultural. Yeah, my husband does not want me to look like a pre-pubescent teenager. I was thin when we met and have been thin the majority of our marriage but lately have gained due to depression meds and covid WFM but he has never been more attracted to me.

I wouldn't say she looks like a "pre-pubescent teenager." Look at her boobs! They're massive. Yes, they're probably fake but I've heard that fake breasts have come a long way and it's hard to tell nowadays.

Massive?? What pic are you looking at? I think you Comme Ted on the wrong one.

They also look obviously fake, which is not a desired look lately

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Anonymous wrote:^These women didn't look anything like crossfit athletes. It was video compilations and they were all extremely soft and jiggly and had zero visible muscle. I mean they were definitely "thicc", that's for sure- some would say borderline chubby. It really struck out to me because when I was growing up it was all about the super skinny look

I think it is regional and cultural. Yeah, my husband does not want me to look like a pre-pubescent teenager. I was thin when we met and have been thin the majority of our marriage but lately have gained due to depression meds and covid WFM but he has never been more attracted to me.

I wouldn't say she looks like a "pre-pubescent teenager." Look at her boobs! They're massive. Yes, they're probably fake but I've heard that fake breasts have come a long way and it's hard to tell nowadays.

Massive?? What pic are you looking at? I think you Comme Ted on the wrong one.

They also look obviously fake, which is not a desired look lately

Now obviously fake behinds and hips are in though.

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Anonymous wrote:^Skinny women age WAY faster and look WAY older. Why do you think people pay lots of money for facial fat or filler injections?

Also, don't kid yourself. Weight loss is a billion dollar industry. NOBODY wants to be on the fat end of curvy. Only people who age or have had fat loss want injections.

Wow. Said like someone who has never lived in Los Angeles or a city where people make money from beauty. Fillers are EVERYWHERE.

But keep your gaunt face and those crows feet. At least you'll be thin, so there's that.

I don't have any wrinkles/crows feet/or lines and I am thin. I'll keep my health and you can keep your heart stopping obesity.

I'm quite slim. But I keep an extra ten pounds or so so that I dont go into that "gaunt old lady aging prematurely" mode.

As Jane Fonda said, "When you get older, you have to choose between your ass and your face."

Everyone knows it, but you. So again... enjoy those lines and wrinkles.

Wow what a snarky bit@ch you are!

I highly doubt you are "quite thin" when you say you are an extra 10lbs over 😆

Why are fat chicks on here so mean?

Did you know that everyone- literally EVERYONE ages? Even kids. We age. Here is the kicker: You will too.

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Anonymous wrote:NP. I haven't read all the replies yet, but my DH likes me a little on the curvy side. He's very turned off by 6 pack abs on a woman. But he does like it when I work out with weights more often (e.g., glute and hamstring exercises). I'm probably a BMI of 23-24.

Yep. DH once told me touching a woman shouldn’t fee like touching a man. DH is not attracted to really sculpted muscles on women.

That's such a weird thing to tell your wife. Like telling your husband you don't like 10-inch d****s. As if it had at any point been an option.

They don’t want to feel like they’re with a man.

They never had a chance with women with that extremely rare body type and by putting it down they make themselves and their wives feel better.

That's not how dicks work.

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Anonymous wrote:I have an athletic build, curvy with a big ass. I've ranged from a size 4 at my smallest to an 8 at my largest. I have never been called skinny, but I've also never been called fat. "Toned", when I'm in good shape, "thick" when I've let myself go a little and have some softness on top of the muscle.
The men I've been with have all said my body is perfect. But then again, why would I ever sleep with a man who thought anything else?

Men will tell you anything to have sex with you.

#BelieveMen

And the main thing men want out of marriage is sex. Isn't that the point that gets made here, over and over and over again?

If he wants sex with you, and he's getting it, he's happy. Men are simple. Believe them when they tell you they are simple.

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Anonymous wrote:^Skinny women age WAY faster and look WAY older. Why do you think people pay lots of money for facial fat or filler injections?

Also, don't kid yourself. Weight loss is a billion dollar industry. NOBODY wants to be on the fat end of curvy. Only people who age or have had fat loss want injections.

Wow. Said like someone who has never lived in Los Angeles or a city where people make money from beauty. Fillers are EVERYWHERE.

But keep your gaunt face and those crows feet. At least you'll be thin, so there's that.

I don't have any wrinkles/crows feet/or lines and I am thin. I'll keep my health and you can keep your heart stopping obesity.

I'm quite slim. But I keep an extra ten pounds or so so that I dont go into that "gaunt old lady aging prematurely" mode.

As Jane Fonda said, "When you get older, you have to choose between your ass and your face."

Everyone knows it, but you. So again... enjoy those lines and wrinkles.

Wow what a snarky bit@ch you are!

I highly doubt you are "quite thin" when you say you are an extra 10lbs over 😆

Why are fat chicks on here so mean?

LOL. I'm not a "fat chick", but it seems to me that the only thing you have going for you, in your mind, is being skinny, and that's why you're so enraged that that's not the look anymore.

Anyway, if you're having to rely on your weight that bad for attention, you probably have a DEEPLY busted/ugly face, so you dont have to worry about wrinkles anyway. Let those crow feet spread, baby! Enjoy!

Bingo!

Sad. Have a blueberry.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband can not keep his hands off of me when I’m 10-15lbs over the weight I prefer (still normal healthy BMI just bigger than what I like aesthetically). I also get checked out and hit on by other men more.

There are exceptions to this but, in general, most red blooded men are noticing your bigger boobs/butt over anything else when you are a normal weight vs skinny.

Bingo. And a little belly fat that goes with that is OK as long as you still have a waist line that curves inward. Beyond that, you need to lose it.

Even the songs praising curvy women, like Baby Got Back or Brick House talk about big boobs and butts but also talk about thin waist. 36-24-36 are in the lyrics. A thin waist is healthy and attractive. Big waist unhealthy and not attractive. So fat women should not mistake “curvy” for big boobs, butt, and no waist.

"Only if you're 5'3" is the lyric. He was mocking those measurements, essentially.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband can not keep his hands off of me when I’m 10-15lbs over the weight I prefer (still normal healthy BMI just bigger than what I like aesthetically). I also get checked out and hit on by other men more.

There are exceptions to this but, in general, most red blooded men are noticing your bigger boobs/butt over anything else when you are a normal weight vs skinny.

Bingo. And a little belly fat that goes with that is OK as long as you still have a waist line that curves inward. Beyond that, you need to lose it.

Even the songs praising curvy women, like Baby Got Back or Brick House talk about big boobs and butts but also talk about thin waist. 36-24-36 are in the lyrics. A thin waist is healthy and attractive. Big waist unhealthy and not attractive. So fat women should not mistake “curvy” for big boobs, butt, and no waist.

"Only if you're 5'3" is the lyric. He was mocking those measurements, essentially.

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Like ‘em large and in charge!

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Anonymous wrote:I have an athletic build, curvy with a big ass. I've ranged from a size 4 at my smallest to an 8 at my largest. I have never been called skinny, but I've also never been called fat. "Toned", when I'm in good shape, "thick" when I've let myself go a little and have some softness on top of the muscle.
The men I've been with have all said my body is perfect. But then again, why would I ever sleep with a man who thought anything else?

Men will tell you anything to have sex with you.

Okay, fine, then I have an athletic build, etc. etc., the men I've been with seem to like my body, but it's obviously repulsive and no man I've ever had a relationship with has ever actually been attracted to me.
Are we happy now?
Good grief, this board is toxic.

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Anonymous wrote:I have an athletic build, curvy with a big ass. I've ranged from a size 4 at my smallest to an 8 at my largest. I have never been called skinny, but I've also never been called fat. "Toned", when I'm in good shape, "thick" when I've let myself go a little and have some softness on top of the muscle.
The men I've been with have all said my body is perfect. But then again, why would I ever sleep with a man who thought anything else?

Men will tell you anything to have sex with you.

Okay, fine, then I have an athletic build, etc. etc., the men I've been with seem to like my body, but it's obviously repulsive and no man I've ever had a relationship with has ever actually been attracted to me.
Are we happy now?
Good grief, this board is toxic.

Hey. Just go to bed lady, wake up tomorrow with clearer eyes. You have a lot going on. It's not all about your body and you got some some nasty responses but also many kind ones.