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Anonymous
What did she say that wasn’t true? It’s her opinion. she said something. You might not like it, but she said it. Your daughter didn’t get into VISI. Move on. |
Anonymous
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What a dumb thing to say - we have never applied to Visi, visited Visi, or had any interest in Visi. I hope the girls who go there love it and have an awesome experience.
With that said, if you ever watched the Visi coach (and not through biased eyes of a Visi parent), you would know it is laugh out loud funny for her to be criticizing someone else's behavior. I wasn't at this game, so maybe she was actually under control, but come on... |
Anonymous
You weren’t there? And your making comments about it. Okay. Just wanted to confirm that. Good thing you didn’t apply to VISI. It’s a school for smart people |
Anonymous
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Yes, you sound incredibly smart with your comments.
And so kind too! Congratulations! You seem like a wonderful person. |
Anonymous
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Also, it should be "you're making comments."
OK smart people! Just too easy... |
Anonymous
Hi pot. Have a good weekend. -kettle |
Anonymous
| I absolutely love this thread! Full parity is achieved when female coaches of girls’ teams can act just as boorishly as male coaches of boys’ teams! Next up for the female coaches, fist fight at Caddy’s! |
Anonymous
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“Oh please, if that is not the pot calling the kettle black, I don't know what is. The lack of self awareness is amazing. And to post that publicly on instagram about a fellow coach - what a role model. Suggestion - deal with it in a professional way next time. Not some self congratulatory, smug manner.”
+1 You just can’t do that on social media and set that kind of tone for your players. It’s wrong. Keep it on the field. Don’t elevate your insecurity to Instagram. |
Anonymous
| Can we just all have a little class? Both sides the obnoxious behaviors on sidelines, screaming at refs, parents on sidelines being obnoxious and rude on both sides. Coaches and parents need to set an example. The toxic culture of DC is everything people say it is. From this site and more, act like role models, show respect toward others and remember you are not better than others. Lacrosse is a sport!!! |
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[quote=Anonymous]Can we just all have a little class? Both sides the obnoxious behaviors on sidelines, screaming at refs, parents on sidelines being obnoxious and rude on both sides. Coaches and parents need to set an example. The toxic culture of DC is everything people say it is. From this site and more, act like role models, show respect toward others and remember you are not better than others. Lacrosse is a sport!!![/quote]
Any behavior is better then the behavior displayed by the SR coach. That’s what all of this was in reference too. Coaches are welcome to state their own opinion. But in this case, it is fact. Their season is done. Let’s move on already. GO SSSA! |
Anonymous
+1. Why on earth would the Visi coach post on insta like that? She had the moral high ground. The SR Coach was obnoxious AND Visi got the win. Why take to social media and put yourself in the wrong? Shows a real lack of self-restraint and is the opposite of the behavior I would want my daughter to emulate. Is there truly no one out there with self discipline anymore? Act like you have been there before. No win is worth being a jerk. |
Anonymous
I have no dog in this fight. And wasn’t there. But totally agree that posting on Instagram is childish. Not good role modeling. |
Anonymous
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And no one has explained what happened and whether it was within the norm in this area (not saying it is right). Coaches and parents yell all the time. So what actually happened?! |
Anonymous
Especially in the current era where parents and educators have to teach kids that social media is dangerous when used for the wrong reasons - like bullying (or shaming in this case) or over-sharing. All are inappropriate and hurtful. We need to do better, be more thoughtful before we post. Be gentler with peoples’ feelings, use empathy. This thread, this forum is another perfect example of that. |
Anonymous
SR Coach was very aggressive with refs - at one point loudly calling attention to a Visi offsides. That one didn’t bother me so much because Visi was, in fact, offsides but it was handled strangely. I am sure Visi was doubly irritated because calls seemed to go SR way from then on. The most noticeable incident was a Visi parent was heckling/objecting to (depending on who you were rooting for) the SR Coach over those type of aggressive antics - she was pacing and yelling up and down the sideline - and said something to the effect of “you are no Cathy.” This was said across the field, so very loudly. I wasn’t sure what that meant. Maybe a reference to Cathy Reese? Anyway, the SR coach roared back “That’s right. I’m Kristen McDaniels.” It felt a little like she lost it. Wouldn’t want my kids viewing that from a coach/role model. Visi fans probably have many more examples of egregious SR coaching and SR parents will tell you she was within her rights, trying to draw attention to penalties committed over and over by Visi. An aside, SR had way more student fans at away game who showed great team spirit (and the girls were well behaved from what i saw). Bottom line: Neither school totally behaved the way I would have wanted to see. It is high school lacrosse, not life or death. I prefer old-school, quiet intensity so both teams turned me off, quite frankly. |