Hotel Charge on Husband's CC

[Anonymous]

Do you have access to his phone bills?

Something similar happened to me. DH's cell phone was under my name so I just downloaded phone records for a few months, did some reverse phone lookup (via white pages premium), et voila his AP's number was listed daily.

I asked him about something to see if he would lie. He did.

[Anonymous]

OP, you know the answer to this. You don’t get a hotel room without telling your spouse unless something is going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he started driving home only to realize he was too buzzed and got a room for the night?

A quick Google map search shows that the hotels in Clinton, MD are significantly cheaper than in the surrounding area. Is he a tightwad?

Or yeah, he could be having an affair. Channel your innermost Harriet and start investigating.

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If he was too buzzed to drive home, he should have called OP to explain. Since he didn’t, the only plausible explanation is that he was with someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have access to his phone bills?

Something similar happened to me. DH's cell phone was under my name so I just downloaded phone records for a few months, did some reverse phone lookup (via white pages premium), et voila his AP's number was listed daily.

I asked him about something to see if he would lie. He did.

And then what happened?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the answer is clear as day.

He lied to you and spent the night with a woman in that hotel.

Men usually do not fork out $$ for a place to just rest their heads.
They are more than willing to invest if they can get themselves someone to entertain them.

So sorry.

Exactly. Men would pull over a sleep in the car. Besides, what would be the point of coming home at 3AM if he had a hotel for the night and all was innocent?

OP and others know the answer. He is cheating. What more do you need to know?

[Anonymous]

Youre husband is incompetant! The first rule of banging a side puece is not to use credit cards. Use cash only or book through hotels.com using a throwaway card. Too many snoopy bitches like you around to be careless.

[Anonymous]

Married woman here. I'm pretty sure all types of women exist in Clinton, Md. Anyway, I think it's a HUGE red flag that he stayed in the hotel without telling you. I would seek out more evidence without confronting him.

[Anonymous]

If u confront he will just lie and do a better job of covering up in the future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who thinks it's normal or okay for your DH to be out all night anyway? I'd be amazed if he WERENT hooking up! Smh.

That's why, even subconsciously, she opened his credit card bill this time, having never done so before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Youre husband is incompetant! The first rule of banging a side puece is not to use credit cards. Use cash only or book through hotels.com using a throwaway card. Too many snoopy bitches like you around to be careless.

Thanks for sharing. Had not heard of this before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Youre husband is incompetant! The first rule of banging a side puece is not to use credit cards. Use cash only or book through hotels.com using a throwaway card. Too many snoopy bitches like you around to be careless.

Thanks for sharing. Had not heard of this before.

A side puece? Me neither.

[Anonymous]

What's your question?

[Anonymous]

OP just needs to figure sh!t out. Using this board to help her admit it..

[Anonymous]

To me it sounds like he was too cheap to stay at the national harbor so he went a couple of exits down to Clinton.
& if he’s from Largo (or is it just his mom)?

Then he’s familiar with the area and knew to go that hotel.
I agree it’s was a hookup with someone he was comfortable enough to get a hotel with and then come home in the early morning.

You live in dc and he’s coming from Baltimore?
Clinton wouldn’t make any sense because he could’ve easily came straight to dc by the time it took him to drive to 1. largo 2. Sure as h*ll Clinton.

I am fron Princ George’s County and Largo to Clinton is the same drive and Largo to Dc or Dc to Clinton.
“I got tired is not an excuse for not coming home that evening......period

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no affair-worthy joint in Clinton. Sounds like he might have slept it off so he could drive?

She said her husbands mom lives in Largo... so he might be from the area and that’s probably someone he knew for a while now.