Minority women who struggle with dating...

[Anonymous]

^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

[Anonymous]

Very interesting. Asia women marry really well. And they're never single for long. I've never actually met a chronically single Asian woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

Some of us don't want to be married to white people. Not all of us ar impressed by whiteness. Not al of us will marry anyone just to get married. I'm okay with being single the rest of my life I do not want a white husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

Some of us don't want to be married to white people. Not all of us ar impressed by whiteness. Not al of us will marry anyone just to get married. I'm okay with being single the rest of my life I do not want a white husband.

That's exactly what people are talking about. I can't imagine choosing to never get married over marrying a white person. Besides the fact white people are extremely diverse. What about a Scandinavian? A French man? A man from Australia? They are all the same to you?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

frankly, its probably they are regarded as attractive AND they are open to dating outside their race.

[Anonymous]

https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

Some of us don't want to be married to white people. Not all of us ar impressed by whiteness. Not al of us will marry anyone just to get married. I'm okay with being single the rest of my life I do not want a white husband.

Wow. I can't imagine being this racist.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know at least 4 minority women in my professional circle who I am so baffled are still single. 2 are Indian, 1 Pakistani and 1 Nigerian. They are all so stunningly beautiful with yoga and barre toned bodies, illustrious fancy careers and great fashion sense. Do minority women who are successful struggle more with dating?

(Shhh... It's because they're not blonde and/or white.)

No, it's actually probably because they're not willing to date white men, yet are too American to date men of their own cultures. I bet your acquaintances are all second generation women.

The vast majority of successful men in this country are white and those who aren't white are immigrant men. American men of color simply don't do well in large numbers and if they form the majority of a woman's options, she will end up either alone or married to something that should be discarded.

Virtually all first generation Nigerian women I know -- myself included -- are happily married at young ages. But we are all married either to fellow first generation Nigerian men or to white men. I married a Jewish man at 26. My sister married an ultra white bread Kansas-raised white man at 29. My cousins are all married to Nigerian men. The only divorced woman in my circle is the second generation Nigerian who married an African American man. He was actually well educated, but was unfaithful and more into clubbing than building a family. Most African American men simply don't have good family values because they weren't raised with them.

Interesting. My African American girlfriend married a Nigerian guy who cheated on her while she was pregnant with their second child. Maybe it's just he African blood that runs through both African American and African men. Using your logic, they both don't have good family values because they weren't raised with them. Or, and let's not forget Barak Hussein Obama, Sr and his multiple wives to love them and leave them. He was African too, right?

You claim to know so much about Africans yet you don't know that they typically don't take American women seriously?

That may or may not be true according to you. If you read my post, the Nigerian guy married my American friend. I married an Ethiopian, and another friend married an Egyptian. All three men hail from the continent of Africa. We are all American women, but you're right. I don't know much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that the African Americans in the thread are upset with what the African PP said about African American men...but none of you have actually tried to deny that African American men are poor choices for a woman looking for a good man.

How could you refute it? The proof's in the pudding.

You make a lot of assumptions with no facts. Besides, you're not looking for dialogue and conversation. You're looking to spew your racists agenda. Nobody has time for that, or you. Bye.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

I think that is changing in the millennia generation. When having this discussion with my niece and nephew, I encouraged my niece, while also giving my nephew disapproval.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

frankly, its probably they are regarded as attractive AND they are open to dating outside their race.

Okay, Asian woman, you can believe you are more attractive if you want.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

I think that is changing in the millennia generation. When having this discussion with my niece and nephew, I encouraged my niece, while also giving my nephew disapproval.

what? you want your niece to hook up with white guys but don't want your nephew to hook up with white women?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

Some of us don't want to be married to white people. Not all of us ar impressed by whiteness. Not al of us will marry anyone just to get married. I'm okay with being single the rest of my life I do not want a white husband.

PP statistician here. Oh, I know. Your attitude is in the majority among African American women. I can't say I understand it, but I'm a white man so I don't think we're that bad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

frankly, its probably they are regarded as attractive AND they are open to dating outside their race.

Okay, Asian woman, you can believe you are more attractive if you want.

not an asian women and I don't find them physically attractive (I like having them as friends though) but asian women on average don't get fat like the average white woman does. And their skin stays softer and smoother for longer (which even hot white women lose at 28).

So yes I can definitely see why my fellow guys think asian women are 'more' attractive. it's relative - for the 'league' that they can pull, it could very well be that in that tier, asian women are the prettiest. Think of all your jewish male friends who are with asian women. A lot of it is because similarly attractive jewish women wouldn't give those guys the time of day in college and in their early/mid 20's.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^I worked on a research project on interracial dating using OK Cupid and Match data. The results, which were released to the media and highly publicized, actually revealed that Asian women are more likely than women of other races to seek out men outside their race, primarily white men. This was measured by looking at how often Asian women initiated interactions and also followed up. They showed far more preference for white men than white men showed for them, and also showed more preference for Hispanic men than Hispanic men showed for them.

All in all, Asian women's success in the dating field is a consequence of smart dating, as opposed to men finding them more attractive. White men are both the most successful men in America and the most numerous men in America. Asian women are playing the numbers very wisely, unlike African American women who continue to act as if dating a white man is a capital offense. It is staggering how many perpetually single African American women I know who are approached by white men, but would rather die single waiting for African American men. They are simply not being rational about their own interests.

Here's an interesting and true stat: If even 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women, that is enough to get every single African American woman under age 44 married. And I can say from research and personal observation that far more than 5 percent of white men are interested in African American women.

frankly, its probably they are regarded as attractive AND they are open to dating outside their race.

Okay, Asian woman, you can believe you are more attractive if you want.

Oh yay, more assumptions.