Minority women who struggle with dating...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know at least 4 minority women in my professional circle who I am so baffled are still single. 2 are Indian, 1 Pakistani and 1 Nigerian. They are all so stunningly beautiful with yoga and barre toned bodies, illustrious fancy careers and great fashion sense. Do minority women who are successful struggle more with dating?

The struggle is real. Not sure if it’s worse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it is them being picky!

Or they have crazy mothers.

[Anonymous]

DC is crawling with beautiful, successful women of color. The men know that and instead of settling down, they’d rather enjoy the smorgasbord

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

This is why women should not deal with loser men. Save access to your body for someone who has earned it. Guys like you are perfect to milk out of your small little check and then ghost before we get around to talking about your small little member. But that's only if desperate or extremely bored. You are good test subjects before moving on to bigger fish with bigger pockets.

The only thing she (and her type) are milking enthusiastically is my "small little" phallus. The joke is on them. I get a two-three rounds in over a night or couple of days and then next. Meanwhile, they rack up mileage holding out for 'the one'.

Your comment makes sense if the under 25 set, not the over 33 set.

You’re so gross.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know at least 4 minority women in my professional circle who I am so baffled are still single. 2 are Indian, 1 Pakistani and 1 Nigerian. They are all so stunningly beautiful with yoga and barre toned bodies, illustrious fancy careers and great fashion sense. Do minority women who are successful struggle more with dating?

The struggle is real. Not sure if it’s worse.

I would say don't stay in one group. Have all kinds of friends and date the same way.

When you put a lot of restrictions you are more likely to stay single. Doesn't matter what you look like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

Minority women have every right to have standards and preferences. Some people do not state their preference but will only swipe positively on skinny, blond, white women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

You sound like this religious, older lady that I worked with. She thought that I might I should find the 50 year old guy who lived in his mother's basement down the street as a potential mate.

As an African American woman, I get ridiculous statements about how I should consider the basement dweller/former prison inmate/unemployed/chronic weed smoking/multiple baby-mamma having guys as potential mates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

You sound like this religious, older lady that I worked with. She thought that I might I should find the 50 year old guy who lived in his mother's basement down the street as a potential mate.

As an African American woman, I get ridiculous statements about how I should consider the basement dweller/former prison inmate/unemployed/chronic weed smoking/multiple baby-mamma having guys as potential mates.

I don't know why any woman over 50 would want to date or get married. Too many other hobbies and fun things to do.

[Anonymous]

I think they are holding out for a rich guy. I see this all the time with my Indian in laws. My SIL is 35 and has NEVER had a boyfriend. I find the whole thing incredibly depressing. How can you spend your 20s and 30s without intimacy? The guys that like her are not good enough. They have to be from her cast, have a master's degree etc. The other SIL must MUST marry a doctor as she's a doctor herself. The weirdest thing is that my in laws ( husband's parents) didn't go to college themselves! My father is a doctor and he could care less about the occupation of my husband or his parents education level. I also have an Iranian and Bangladeshi friends who are the same way. Perhaps they really just really don't want to get married at all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

Minority women have every right to have standards and preferences. Some people do not state their preference but will only swipe positively on skinny, blond, white women.

Sure. But both those types of people have no right to complain if their "preferences" result in a failure to find a life partner.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think everyone has friends that we are shocked, *shocked* have not found love.

I was scanning an on line dating site for Seniors last week. An advert from a woman, rather attractive, age 60, stylish, who prominently displayed the following sentence in her profile - “If you live more than 10 miles from (her town), make under $100,000 and under 5’10” do not contact me.” I though “oh ok” lol.

You sound like this religious, older lady that I worked with. She thought that I might I should find the 50 year old guy who lived in his mother's basement down the street as a potential mate.

As an African American woman, I get ridiculous statements about how I should consider the basement dweller/former prison inmate/unemployed/chronic weed smoking/multiple baby-mamma having guys as potential mates.

I don't know why any woman over 50 would want to date or get married. Too many other hobbies and fun things to do.

Some of use like the companionship and intimacy that comes with dating. And we can still enjoy the all the fun things that life has to offer.

[Anonymous]

There are many dating options in DC; didn't get married until 40 by choice....had options, but I am an attractive white female. I immigrated to the US from Europe in my teens. I do think it's harder for minority women to date in general. Minority women tend to be more accomplished than their male counterparts, so no interested in marrying within their own community. Many US males have a mental block and only want to date white women, jmo.

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Anonymous wrote:^^ PS, if AA men approach you a lot, it's not because you could hope to keep one. It's more likely their rejection that sparks your castrating words. A woman scorned ......

The only women who care about "keeping" AA men are AA women. AA men aren't prizes, sorry, and they come cheaply too. As long as you are not black, AA men will salivate after you like dogs. I can't keep them away from me at bars even though I have zero interest in them.

+100

Sadly.

Is AA African American or Asian American?!?