Boyfriend carousel. Why can't Jennifer Lopez keep a man?

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Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

You are using wrong wording.. man is not a dog to keep.. it is a two way street and some men don't stick, they lack glue.

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Strong women have a very difficult time finding a man strong enough to keep up with them and not feel unmanly being with a dominant woman who runs the show.

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Uh, it's not that she can't keep a man. With all that money, power, fame, plus kids, her BS tolerance is ZERO. Heck no I'd settle either.

Marc Anthony is not handsome, but his voice is absolutely amazing. I love his music and voice. I think more concerning is his obvious drug use.

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Anonymous wrote:Why? Because she doesn't need one. Most men want to be with a woman who can't live without them. She's not it. Me neither. That's why I'm single.

Then why is she ALWAYS in a relationship? Why has she been engaged a half dozen times? If she didn't need a man, she wouldn't constantly be with one, and she certainly wouldn't be with a string of losers, cheaters and drug abusers.

Women who don't need men and don't put up with their bullshit don't spend their entire adult lives with men who aren't good enough for them. She clearly can't be alone and she clearly DOES put up with bullshit. You really think a tough independent woman who doesn't put up with bullshit would let ARod within twenty feet of her?!

I'm like you. I'm single too. Jennifer Lopez has literally never been single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uh, it's not that she can't keep a man. With all that money, power, fame, plus kids, her BS tolerance is ZERO. Heck no I'd settle either.

Marc Anthony is not handsome, but his voice is absolutely amazing. I love his music and voice. I think more concerning is his obvious drug use.

I may be wrong here but i say this as someone in a very good 26 year marriage and a therapist...Here's the glitch...and it's a hard one. Every relationship, particularly marriage long term...yes, even good ones, has some form of BS. Over the years...there will be BS. This should be in the vows... From both parties there will be moments of bs. It might be only for a time, or mild and even only in passing moments...(hopefully not deep betrayal but yea that too sometimes). but it will be there. Yes, i agree she will not have it, she cannot bear it. That's why she's three times divorced and this one ended too. Maybe she also picks men where the bs is really too much. But that's her too...it's who she picks. It's not an easy problem to solve either.

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Maybe she gets bored and doesn't want to keep them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uh, it's not that she can't keep a man. With all that money, power, fame, plus kids, her BS tolerance is ZERO. Heck no I'd settle either.

Marc Anthony is not handsome, but his voice is absolutely amazing. I love his music and voice. I think more concerning is his obvious drug use.

She's too attached to the power couple thing, needs to let that go. Very unlikely to find a good one with that focus.

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Anonymous wrote:Why? Because she doesn't need one. Most men want to be with a woman who can't live without them. She's not it. Me neither. That's why I'm single.

Then why is she ALWAYS in a relationship? Why has she been engaged a half dozen times? If she didn't need a man, she wouldn't constantly be with one, and she certainly wouldn't be with a string of losers, cheaters and drug abusers.

Women who don't need men and don't put up with their bullshit don't spend their entire adult lives with men who aren't good enough for them. She clearly can't be alone and she clearly DOES put up with bullshit. You really think a tough independent woman who doesn't put up with bullshit would let ARod within twenty feet of her?!

I'm like you. I'm single too. Jennifer Lopez has literally never been single.

She's not that's why. Still needs a man to validate her, I've known very accomplished women who are still very insecure. Sadly, J. L. has been around the block way too many times.
Arod isn't a lottery win by any means, she doesn't pick well either.

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Anonymous wrote:she doesnt want to compromise, beauty fades and you get old.then you would sit on all the money you have and be miserable all alone. she thinks she is the most prettiest amazing woman in the world and is very cocky. im not saying she is not pretty but she lets it go to her head. as far as i see. Jlo wants what Jlo wants and if she doesnt get it, she runs... its time to make someone happy besides yourself Jlo. Getting too old for all those different penises,

What? AROD cheated on her. So did Ben Affleck. She just attracts dbags.

She *chooses* dirtbags. At least she didn’t marry this one. And she doesn’t need to stay in any relationship that doesn’t work, so good for her. She likes Liz Taylor, in love with love. Needs to choose more wisely but she’s doing just fine on her own.

Pretty much this.

Yes pp is right. The only thing is, the decent men who are stable would not want her at this point. She would need to change, but with her history it would be a turn off to decent men. Which leaves all the DBs.

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Ben Affleck is coming back!

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From what I can see seems like she ended it. AROD having a hard time and JL...not so much.

I think she loves the first few years of a relationship and doesn't want to put in the hard work. She puts a lot of energy into her career. Seems like she's doing all right. I'm sure she'll have another long term boyfriend in the next 2 years, date him for 5 or so years, and start again....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ben Affleck is coming back!

+1

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why? Because she doesn't need one. Most men want to be with a woman who can't live without them. She's not it. Me neither. That's why I'm single.

Then why is she ALWAYS in a relationship? Why has she been engaged a half dozen times? If she didn't need a man, she wouldn't constantly be with one, and she certainly wouldn't be with a string of losers, cheaters and drug abusers.

Women who don't need men and don't put up with their bullshit don't spend their entire adult lives with men who aren't good enough for them. She clearly can't be alone and she clearly DOES put up with bullshit. You really think a tough independent woman who doesn't put up with bullshit would let ARod within twenty feet of her?!

I'm like you. I'm single too. Jennifer Lopez has literally never been single.

She's not that's why. Still needs a man to validate her, I've known very accomplished women who are still very insecure. Sadly, J. L. has been around the block way too many times.
Arod isn't a lottery win by any means, she doesn't pick well either.

I agree, I think she is deeply insecure and still needs male or partner validation to a surprising degree (at least in the beginning). She does that thing insecure women do,, which is contortions into what the partner wants her to be. So he was hugely into a certain hot hard body and then we see her devoting herself to the gym. Career wise she is accomplished, but I think personally she struggles and I never bought the myth of her strong woman persona. I think she feels strong when she acts and leaves but she has trouble being alone obviously and that does not suggest strength at all, no matter how she tries to spin it. She does the same cycle over and over.
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[Anonymous]

He cheated on her with a stripper before their wedding. Plus he’s a hot mess. She’s not taking that POs back after Arod.

[Anonymous]

She wants a power player and power equal but then I think she has trouble sharing and negotiating the power.