Boyfriend carousel. Why can't Jennifer Lopez keep a man?

[Anonymous]

Looks like she does this for pr reasons.

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Anonymous wrote:she doesnt want to compromise, beauty fades and you get old.then you would sit on all the money you have and be miserable all alone. she thinks she is the most prettiest amazing woman in the world and is very cocky. im not saying she is not pretty but she lets it go to her head. as far as i see. Jlo wants what Jlo wants and if she doesnt get it, she runs... its time to make someone happy besides yourself Jlo. Getting too old for all those different penises,

What? AROD cheated on her. So did Ben Affleck. She just attracts dbags.

[Anonymous]

nah man sometimes in life you have to accept these things act to suit . with her attitude she will always get cheated on because something about her turns them off. she is good to have as status not as a wife. she will always be cheated on and that could be because she have a strong personality. but if she wants a husband she need to be more humble and kind and understanding. she strike me as very cold. one day i was shopping in the Americana Mall in manhasett and she was there shopping. someone said hello to her and was so excited there was a little girl with the person and she was so bright eyed for a sweet reply and jlo just turned her nose up and was snotty she said hi but was very cold. the look on the kids face dropped

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:she doesnt want to compromise, beauty fades and you get old.then you would sit on all the money you have and be miserable all alone. she thinks she is the most prettiest amazing woman in the world and is very cocky. im not saying she is not pretty but she lets it go to her head. as far as i see. Jlo wants what Jlo wants and if she doesnt get it, she runs... its time to make someone happy besides yourself Jlo. Getting too old for all those different penises,

What? AROD cheated on her. So did Ben Affleck. She just attracts dbags.

She *chooses* dirtbags. At least she didn’t marry this one. And she doesn’t need to stay in any relationship that doesn’t work, so good for her. She likes Liz Taylor, in love with love. Needs to choose more wisely but she’s doing just fine on her own.

[Anonymous]

^^she’s like

[Anonymous]

Who cares? Why should she have to settle down? She has a shitload of money and adorable kids

[Anonymous]

Wow the sexism of this thread is offensive. The title! My gosh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's happy on her own and doesn't want to "keep" a man who doesn't add something substantial to her life.

This is what I'm like. But I haven't been married or engaged like six times and constantly in a relationship. If she was happy on her own, she'd be...on her own.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's happy on her own and doesn't want to "keep" a man who doesn't add something substantial to her life.

If she is happy on her own then why does she keep on having boyfriends?

GIRL JUST STOP IT ALREADY!

Because sometime you just need a solid partner for those winter months - Netflix and chill, ski holidays, cuddling by the fire. Don't be jealous.

Cuffing season is real. And like many women our age, I am also divorced and enjoy having boyfriends until I am done with them. I dont want to marry or commit to one person again, legally or emotionally.


This should be phrased "why can't a man keep Jennifer Lopez".

[Anonymous]

I think she has referenced , "being in love with love." Which can be a nice way of saying, she does not have good judgment in men and perhaps in general...that she basically lives in her own grandiose world. And acknowledged that she tended to fall for big gestures, viewing intense jealousy and possessivess as love, etc. I actually don't think she has a great amount of self awareness and depth quite honestly. Superficially, she says the right sh#t but her most important partner is herself. She does not have the skills or desire or both for long term deep intimacy. I am guessing an attachment issue in her early childhood, despite her always presenting these breakups as amicable and friendly, etc. That's not real...I don't think we know her at all.

[Anonymous]

I think she is likely deeply narcissistic. She strikes me as enormously concerned with her image, thin skinned, unable to be criticized and probably demanding in her personal life and self inflated, as rumors of her in private have said for much of her earlier career. I doubt she is a patient, loving person who is loyal when it gets hard...I highly doubt it. She runs for the hills...this was a terrible choice, he is probably worse than her. I wish her well. It's all a learning process. I wish she would get into therapy, no joke.

[Anonymous]

She’s certainly gotten to have a lot of hot guys. Not a bad life at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’s certainly gotten to have a lot of hot guys. Not a bad life at all.

Except a part of her seems to want an everlasting love fantasy. That seems like the problem...

[Anonymous]

Why can’t Jennifer Aniston “keep” a man? Maybe when you’re that hot, wealthy, and successful, you want what you want and don’t feel a need to compromise.

Iimagine when you’re someone like jlo, you’ve worked your tail off for what you have, it’s probably hard to relate to and trust normal people, and the ones in her league like arod are mostly a-holes who don’t want to be in a monogamous relationship, or marry a 25 year old. Celebrities are notorious for being unable to sustain long term relationships because they are rich, don’t need the marriage for financial stability, are attractive, and often apart due to work and around other highly attractive people.

Their world is a privileged but fickle one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why can’t Jennifer Aniston “keep” a man? Maybe when you’re that hot, wealthy, and successful, you want what you want and don’t feel a need to compromise.

Iimagine when you’re someone like jlo, you’ve worked your tail off for what you have, it’s probably hard to relate to and trust normal people, and the ones in her league like arod are mostly a-holes who don’t want to be in a monogamous relationship, or marry a 25 year old. Celebrities are notorious for being unable to sustain long term relationships because they are rich, don’t need the marriage for financial stability, are attractive, and often apart due to work and around other highly attractive people.

Their world is a privileged but fickle one.

Or a sad one depending on your perspective. Yes, wealth feeds the beast. At least for awhile, you can use money and your fame to cover over, avoid and basically run from your problems, including your personality and relationship issues. Until you can't anymore. She seems to keep making the same mistakes, which is profoundly sad. Many celebrities obviously divorce, or make mistakes. But a good portion also seem to hit a bottom of sorts and learn. She just does not seem to easily learn for some reason. Though maybe here she did, in that she at least did not just go through with the wedding. That could be progress.