Boyfriend carousel. Why can't Jennifer Lopez keep a man?

[Anonymous]

It's her new mom bob haircut.

[Anonymous]

A lot of celebs get used to having lots of yes people around and never having to compromise. That doesn't bode well for long term relationships that require a lot of sacrifice and compromise and putting someone else first at times.

That said, it seems like she has learned her lesson that marriage is not for her so good for her. It was pretty obvious hooking up with a man in his 20s she wasn't interested in settling down. She likes companionship but after a few years if you aren't really committed to investing in the relationship it will die off.

I definitely don't see it as can't keep a man, just having other priorities. Come on, we all know if J Lo wanted to settle down with a man she could, just like if Jen Aniston wanted kids she could have had them (either through surrogacy or adoption if not on her own). Not all women want the traditional path of marriage and motherhood.

[Anonymous]

J.Lo is a powerful celebrity. She is also a huge risk taker. Just like with men, people with her personality are going to find it hard to stick with one thing or one person. They just are not built for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will never understand her marriage to Mark Anthony. He is not attractive at all. So skinny and little.

Totally disagree. There is something sexy about him. I mean, he was married to a former Miss Universe, so I am obviously not the only one who thinks so.

[Anonymous]

I want her back with Puffy or Ben. I miss the OG Bennifer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I will never understand her marriage to Mark Anthony. He is not attractive at all. So skinny and little.

Totally disagree. There is something sexy about him. I mean, he was married to a former Miss Universe, so I am obviously not the only one who thinks so.

I remember reading that he and JLo married two weeks after his divorce from Miss Universe became final. What a shock that the next marriage didn't work out.

[Anonymous]

Jennifer Lopez is the hottest/sexiest/most beautiful woman on the planet!!

After all she was once "People's Most Beautiful Woman."

And at 47 she looks so good that no one else in that age range can even compare.

Most 47 year olds are past their prime. It's usually all downhill from where she's at.
She ages in reverse and looks better and better with each passing decade.
It's unnatural to age like her. And unfair.

People will say that she is rich so she has access to the best plastic surgery out there.

But so does Madonna, Mariah Carey + Cate Blanchet but they don't look young anymore a 'la JLo.

And when one looks that good plus can sing, dance, act and design clothes well it's no surprise that if a guy does anything wrong she has 100+ guys lined up at the door the next morning.

Also, I think many guys cannot handle her huge successes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will never understand her marriage to Mark Anthony. He is not attractive at all. So skinny and little.

I agree!! He looks like the Crypt Keeper. Yuck. And I completely agree with PP who said this thread's opening premise is sexist.

I wish she and P Diddy would get back together!

[Anonymous]

^^

They almost could have since Diddy & Cassie broke up at the exact same time.

But now they are back together though who knows for how long.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A lot of celebs get used to having lots of yes people around and never having to compromise. That doesn't bode well for long term relationships that require a lot of sacrifice and compromise and putting someone else first at times.

That said, it seems like she has learned her lesson that marriage is not for her so good for her. It was pretty obvious hooking up with a man in his 20s she wasn't interested in settling down. She likes companionship but after a few years if you aren't really committed to investing in the relationship it will die off.

I definitely don't see it as can't keep a man, just having other priorities. Come on, we all know if J Lo wanted to settle down with a man she could, just like if Jen Aniston wanted kids she could have had them (either through surrogacy or adoption if not on her own). Not all women want the traditional path of marriage and motherhood.

Why the hell wouldn't you want a partner to be able to say no to you sometimes? He or she is just so wimpy otherwise. I'd never want to be with someone like that. Long or short term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will never understand her marriage to Mark Anthony. He is not attractive at all. So skinny and little.

Watch him sing my baby you at madison sq garden... he is full of raw emotion and pure sex appeal. Her and mark were perfect. Idk why she have it up for a gay boytoy she dresses in thousand dollar pants like mark wore. She totally transformed her gay boytoy into mark. I personally think she cant commit to anyone. She has her venus in gemini meaning she moves man to man like air and difficult to commit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will never understand her marriage to Mark Anthony. He is not attractive at all. So skinny and little.

I saw a guy who looked just like him in person the other day and suddenly got the appeal. I almost walked into a light pole.

Anyway, I'm still rooting for her and Puffy to get back together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez is the hottest/sexiest/most beautiful woman on the planet!!

After all she was once "People's Most Beautiful Woman."

And at 47 she looks so good that no one else in that age range can even compare.

Most 47 year olds are past their prime. It's usually all downhill from where she's at.
She ages in reverse and looks better and better with each passing decade.
It's unnatural to age like her. And unfair.

People will say that she is rich so she has access to the best plastic surgery out there.

But so does Madonna, Mariah Carey + Cate Blanchet but they don't look young anymore a 'la JLo.

And when one looks that good plus can sing, dance, act and design clothes well it's no surprise that if a guy does anything wrong she has 100+ guys lined up at the door the next morning.

Also, I think many guys cannot handle her huge successes.

No she is 47...sex drive is dead or dying, she is old and she is going to want someone close to her "status". Maybe she can find a closets guy, but they are very rare now days in Hollywood. Seriously it most likely has to do with sex drive and her age.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she subscribes to Mrs White's philosophy on finding partners:

[Anonymous]

Why can't an almost 50 yr old woman be attached to multiple men without it being about dick? Not all women crave monogamy. She's hardly a slut. She has had many LTRs.