Boyfriend carousel. Why can't Jennifer Lopez keep a man?

[Anonymous]

jLo is so hot. ARod is an idiot.

[Anonymous]

I really thought that her + ARod were the real deal.

They seemed so happy together and their families blended so well together too.

J Lo chooses gorgeous, celebrity men who can get any woman they so desire.
Typically these A-list men cannot be satisfied w/only one woman.....even the most timeless + ageless beauty of them all.

She needs to date a regular Joe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She wants a power player and power equal but then I think she has trouble sharing and negotiating the power.

This. She wants desperately to be a power couple but also wants the guy to make his world revolve around her. Arod is busy himself with all the work things he's involved with, hence power couple.

The problem is she wants things that are not compatible. It's like wanting to date a CEO of a large company that also works only 40 hours a week and has a ton of free time. Won't happen.

[Anonymous]

She can't even stay single or alone long enough to spend time with her kids. Off she goes on trips again with a different guy.
No respect for her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

Perhaps she doesn’t feel like it? They settle in and get grumpy.

[Anonymous]

I’d think it’s the following:

- she is gorgeous, so talented and very rich. She has no reason to compromise and settle in a mediocre relationship. She is one of the few women around who is at absolute liberty to engage with any man she finds attractive as long as she pleases and not a day or two more. Regular women have finances and lives to think about in a way that she is shielded from due to her massive wealth and resources. Instead of trudging along in a lifeless marriage, she’s off and trying to find a new man she has a connection with. The result is, I imagine, a series of very emotionally and sexually fulfilling shorter term romances.

- she probably wants an equally successful and powerful man and that’s hard to come by due to sheer statistics. There aren’t that many successful and single men out there whose profiles would hatch her. And even when she does meet and date the few that exist, two hugely successful and famous people rarely can make it work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d think it’s the following:

- she is gorgeous, so talented and very rich. She has no reason to compromise and settle in a mediocre relationship. She is one of the few women around who is at absolute liberty to engage with any man she finds attractive as long as she pleases and not a day or two more. Regular women have finances and lives to think about in a way that she is shielded from due to her massive wealth and resources. Instead of trudging along in a lifeless marriage, she’s off and trying to find a new man she has a connection with. The result is, I imagine, a series of very emotionally and sexually fulfilling shorter term romances.

- she probably wants an equally successful and powerful man and that’s hard to come by due to sheer statistics. There aren’t that many successful and single men out there whose profiles would hatch her. And even when she does meet and date the few that exist, two hugely successful and famous people rarely can make it work.

Ummm, wasn’t she with A-Rod? Sounds like you are describing him above.

[Anonymous]

Jennifer Lopez can't keep a man because deep down, she really is not a great person. I feel sorry for her kids who grow up without their real father in the home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

Maybe she’s keeping them only as long as she wants to. Some of us do that. We don’t want you forever ever necessarily. Maybe long enough to have the babies we want. Or as long as the D consistently delivers. She can afford to treat her men like disposable fashion because she’s rich and still desirable. Why not kick em to the curb and get a new one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

Maybe she’s keeping them only as long as she wants to. Some of us do that. We don’t want you forever ever necessarily. Maybe long enough to have the babies we want. Or as long as the D consistently delivers. She can afford to treat her men like disposable fashion because she’s rich and still desirable. Why not kick em to the curb and get a new one?

This. Why does she need to “keep” a man? Unlike most women, she can throw ‘me back to the streets when they start f’ing up.

[Anonymous]

^throw ‘em back to the streets.

[Anonymous]

This is going to end like Madonna, or am I wrong? Throwing legs up in the air in photos past 60? Weird younger dudes... hopefully not as bad plastic surgery....no long term husband to grow old with...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is going to end like Madonna, or am I wrong? Throwing legs up in the air in photos past 60? Weird younger dudes... hopefully not as bad plastic surgery....no long term husband to grow old with...

At least Madonna had one long-time marriage. I predict JLo gets married and divorced at least once more before she’s Madonna’s age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

Maybe she’s keeping them only as long as she wants to. Some of us do that. We don’t want you forever ever necessarily. Maybe long enough to have the babies we want. Or as long as the D consistently delivers. She can afford to treat her men like disposable fashion because she’s rich and still desirable. Why not kick em to the curb and get a new one?

Right...that's why she keeps getting engaged, because she doesn't want them around forever...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Clearly by now it is obvious the issue is with her.

So why can't she keep a man?

Maybe she’s keeping them only as long as she wants to. Some of us do that. We don’t want you forever ever necessarily. Maybe long enough to have the babies we want. Or as long as the D consistently delivers. She can afford to treat her men like disposable fashion because she’s rich and still desirable. Why not kick em to the curb and get a new one?

Right...that's why she keeps getting engaged, because she doesn't want them around forever...

Wow, you’ve got her number! I’d bet she needs your help on all fronts, make sure she has several blank notebooks to dutifully capture all the wisdom.