What would you think of a single, childless, professional man pushing 50?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he reads DCUM and realizes none of you broads are worth marrying and squeezing out more disturbed special snowflake kids and dealing with your in laws after reading all y'all's posts is not worth it.

-Single childless 40-something male

Pretty much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That he has commitment/ relationship issues.

+1. I have a colleague like this, but pushing 40. He dates a few women a year, but feels no desire to commit. As long as he can easily find someone willing to have sex with him, he is happy and feels no need for a deep relationship.

The ideal lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would think that he's not likely to ever get married - or if he does, it will be to a much younger woman

Lucky him!

And I would think that he's a lovely person who probably has intimacy issues and is a hard-core bachelor, very set in his ways. In other words, not someone to date.

Lucky him, again! While old, washed up ladies find reasons not to date him, he's slaying the younger chicks left and right.

Just another reason to never get married, fellas.

[Anonymous]

I knew 2 guys like this. Both had personality problems, both not bad for 50. Both were very lonely, and wanted a companion but younger. When they dated the younger ones, it was a money thing and they didn't like that either. The ones their own age they weren't attracted to.

No kids, grand kids holidays probably the pits. I can see down the road health problems and no partner to help them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would think that he's not likely to ever get married - or if he does, it will be to a much younger woman

Lucky him!

And I would think that he's a lovely person who probably has intimacy issues and is a hard-core bachelor, very set in his ways. In other words, not someone to date.

Lucky him, again! While old, washed up ladies find reasons not to date him, he's slaying the younger chicks left and right.

Just another reason to never get married, fellas.

Oh honey, just keep yourself safe! Run away fast, little pp!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can't quite put my finger on what's wrong with him. The consensus is that he isn't gay, although I've witnessed gay men flirting with him on two separate occasions. The consensus is that he's attractive, fun and kind. The consensus is that he's dated really awesome women (but it never lasts longer than 4-6 months).

All the guys I've met like that are extremely selfish and you are seeing the outer self. After 4-6 mo harder to hide.

I wouldn't have sex with him unless there was a commitment, see how long he sticks around.

Otherwise, I'd wonder how many std's he's had or has since he has been "dating" for that long.

*Steer clear would be my advice. Damaged goods.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would think that he's not likely to ever get married - or if he does, it will be to a much younger woman

Lucky him!

And I would think that he's a lovely person who probably has intimacy issues and is a hard-core bachelor, very set in his ways. In other words, not someone to date.

Lucky him, again! While old, washed up ladies find reasons not to date him, he's slaying the younger chicks left and right.

Just another reason to never get married, fellas.

Oh honey, just keep yourself safe! Run away fast, little pp!

Yeah a lot of them have ED at that age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would think that he's not likely to ever get married - or if he does, it will be to a much younger woman

Lucky him!

And I would think that he's a lovely person who probably has intimacy issues and is a hard-core bachelor, very set in his ways. In other words, not someone to date.

Lucky him, again! While old, washed up ladies find reasons not to date him, he's slaying the younger chicks left and right.

Just another reason to never get married, fellas.

Oh honey, just keep yourself safe! Run away fast, little pp!

Yeah a lot of them have ED at that age.

And a lot of women that age have facial hair, dry vaginas and no sex drive anyway…...

[Anonymous]

He's every woman's nightmare - he's obviously "getting the milk for free."

And he's every straight, married man's hero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

[Anonymous]

I met my DH when he was 41. He was in a 6 year relationship with an abusive woman during his 30s and needed a bit of time to recover and get his self esteem back after breaking up with her. Nothing wrong with him all. Great DH and dad.

[Anonymous]

I have a few college-era crushes that are now in this position. I sometimes wonder what went wrong--I know in one case, he was basically carrying a torch for a woman who wouldn't commit to him for over a decade. Another case: the guy is kind of nuts. Another one's a musician. Not that the end-all be-all for all people is marriage and children--it is not. I have several female friends like this too. Only one of them is really, really bitter about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

It was a made up story. A few angry men on this site, can't get a decent woman. Most 50 year old guys aren't even having sex with women their age, it's tough for both sexes 50 and over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

Not PP, but you sound delusional. A "hot" guy having sex with men on the side is not a prize to any woman I know. Period. I don't care how wealthy. Her husband would rather fuck a dude. That aint winning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a few college-era crushes that are now in this position. I sometimes wonder what went wrong--I know in one case, he was basically carrying a torch for a woman who wouldn't commit to him for over a decade. Another case: the guy is kind of nuts. Another one's a musician. Not that the end-all be-all for all people is marriage and children--it is not. I have several female friends like this too. Only one of them is really, really bitter about it.

I know a lady who is really bitter. Hates her job, men, being single. Yet we all told her to stop wasting her years with losers long ago.