What would you think of a single, childless, professional man pushing 50?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

PP here. Sweetie, you and all the other desperate beards of the world can enjoy sucking random men's feces off your husband's cocks. If what you describe is true, then my friend's wife is even more stupid than I thought. Either way, it is not my problem. He is a great business contact who has sent me a number of clients over the years and is fun company at times. I couldn't care less what diseases he catches with his anus or how his marriage ends up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't automatically count him out. I have a relative who fits the description you gave, and I believe the reason he's never married is that for so long he had this idea that the 'perfect' woman for him was out there, somewhere, and so he never settled down with someone who met 8 out of the 10 things he was looking for. Now he's 50 and the women he meets tend to be divorced women with baggage or much younger women...and I don't think he's into either. He's a great guy, though, and would have made a wonderful father. I think he probably has a lot of women wondering the same things about him that OP is wondering about the man she knows.

This is true I have a relative like this too. Also though he was pretty late to mature and be less self centered but around 48 he finally found the gal, let his defenses down and convinced a gal to marry him.
Date the guy and find out for yourself - that's what dating is for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

PP here. Sweetie, you and all the other desperate beards of the world can enjoy sucking random men's feces off your husband's cocks. If what you describe is true, then my friend's wife is even more stupid than I thought. Either way, it is not my problem. He is a great business contact who has sent me a number of clients over the years and is fun company at times. I couldn't care less what diseases he catches with his anus or how his marriage ends up.

I know a lot of gay men and none of them would be marrying a woman. Ever. Not in the DC area anyway where there's a thriving gay community - there's just no reason for it. And they're gay for s reason - they are not attracted to women. Duh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: What would you think of a single, childless, professional man pushing 50?

That he's a bad ass.

[Anonymous]

Loser alert.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
No kids, grand kids holidays probably the pits. I can see down the road health problems and no partner to help them.

Getting married doesn't guarantee someone will be around to change your bedpan when you get older.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's every woman's nightmare - he's obviously "getting the milk for free."

And he's every straight, married man's hero.

100% accurate

[Anonymous]

He's emotionally unavailable or undateable for some reason, or he's just not the marrying kind. It's not really a big mystery. Sounds like if he wanted to be married he would be.

[Anonymous]

Weirdo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't automatically count him out. I have a relative who fits the description you gave, and I believe the reason he's never married is that for so long he had this idea that the 'perfect' woman for him was out there, somewhere, and so he never settled down with someone who met 8 out of the 10 things he was looking for. Now he's 50 and the women he meets tend to be divorced women with baggage or much younger women...and I don't think he's into either. He's a great guy, though, and would have made a wonderful father. I think he probably has a lot of women wondering the same things about him that OP is wondering about the man she knows.

This is true I have a relative like this too. Also though he was pretty late to mature and be less self centered but around 48 he finally found the gal, let his defenses down and convinced a gal to marry him.
Date the guy and find out for yourself - that's what dating is for.

I know men like this including a relative but they are in their 50ties. They like being single. Date a lot of women. Don't want kids. Have a lot of money and can do whatever they want. Understandable why they don't get married. They don't want to. Why should they?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's every woman's nightmare - he's obviously "getting the milk for free."

And he's every straight, married man's hero.

100% accurate

Every woman's worst nightmare is correct. As in, avoid, avoid! this loser has several issues that need to be checked out ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
No kids, grand kids holidays probably the pits. I can see down the road health problems and no partner to help them.

Getting married doesn't guarantee someone will be around to change your bedpan when you get older.

Neither does having kids and grandkids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
No kids, grand kids holidays probably the pits. I can see down the road health problems and no partner to help them.

Getting married doesn't guarantee someone will be around to change your bedpan when you get older.

Neither does having kids and grandkids.

Nope, but it certainly increases the chances a lot.

[Anonymous]

My BIL is like this. Really into himself and likes alone time. He would rather cook dinner for himself than for someone else. Nice, relatively outgoing but very selfish. Every once in a while we wonder if he might be gay though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My BIL is like this. Really into himself and likes alone time. He would rather cook dinner for himself than for someone else. Nice, relatively outgoing but very selfish. Every once in a while we wonder if he might be gay though.

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He also likes to vacation by himself. He has a semi serious relationship every few years.