What would you think of a single, childless, professional man pushing 50?

[Anonymous]

I'd think he didn't want to be married or have kids. And given the miserable people around here he might be on to something.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

PP here. Sweetie, you and all the other desperate beards of the world can enjoy sucking random men's feces off your husband's cocks. If what you describe is true, then my friend's wife is even more stupid than I thought. Either way, it is not my problem. He is a great business contact who has sent me a number of clients over the years and is fun company at times. I couldn't care less what diseases he catches with his anus or how his marriage ends up.

I know a lot of gay men and none of them would be marrying a woman. Ever. Not in the DC area anyway where there's a thriving gay community - there's just no reason for it. And they're gay for s reason - they are not attracted to women. Duh.

Oh! Well, since YOU don't know any closeted gays, I guess they must not exist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd think he didn't want to be married or have kids. And given the miserable people around here he might be on to something.

I think he runs into a lot of women who post on this site worrying about earning potential, pedigree, and wanting to be single above all else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna go with...

He's a bi narcissist with intimacy issues, and, maybe, knows it and isn't going to commit conventionally.

^^THIS.

A tall, very good looking, accomplished man with a high paying, prestigious job who I dated briefly before running in the other direction just got married at age 48. He has a child on the way. And is still regularly having sex with men on the side. I am still friends with him and his wife gives me smug little smiles
and makes comments about how my husband doesn't make enough. I just smile at her and praise her for being the one to "catch" such an amazing man. A slimy bitch like that deserves to be a homosexual's fool. Is that what you deserve, OP? If not, RUN.

Sweetie, you know nothing about their relationship. My guess is that they are "open" and she lets him have his fun. She's smirking because he probably told her how uptight you are and how you couldn't deal with his lifestyle. Meanwhile, she revels in it and enjoys the lifestyle his job affords him.

You each found the person that was right for you. No need to denigrate each other.

PP here. Sweetie, you and all the other desperate beards of the world can enjoy sucking random men's feces off your husband's cocks. If what you describe is true, then my friend's wife is even more stupid than I thought. Either way, it is not my problem. He is a great business contact who has sent me a number of clients over the years and is fun company at times. I couldn't care less what diseases he catches with his anus or how his marriage ends up.

I know a lot of gay men and none of them would be marrying a woman. Ever. Not in the DC area anyway where there's a thriving gay community - there's just no reason for it. And they're gay for s reason - they are not attracted to women. Duh.

Oh! Well, since YOU don't know any closeted gays, I guess they must not exist.

Someone is WAY homophobic. You can't be writing from DC, you just can't be.

[Anonymous]

^Huh? NP but I think you are misreading this poster completely. I am a lesbian, and as a gay person, I think it's easier to tell who is staying in the closet out of fear. It seems like it's a straight thing to just assume everyone else is fully straight and being honest with their sexuality. The gays know better.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like my BIL. Great guy, unfortunately passed away last year. Now I'll never know he didn't meet his perfect woman, but then maybe it's a lucky thing he didn't have dependents. Sigh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd think he didn't want to be married or have kids. And given the miserable people around here he might be on to something.

BUT BUT BUT we got married! That means we're socially desirable! How DARE you accuse us of being miserable! We're doing things the RIGHT WAY!

[Anonymous]

I know a guy, attractive fun and kind, almost 50. He doesn't want kids. He's dated great women but it always ends despite him saying he wants a long-term committed relationship. I think when he gets close to someone he stops seeing them as a lover and sees them as more of a friend, and he wants to go out and fall in love again. He's also just not willing to make all the little compromises you have to make to stay with someone long term.

[Anonymous]

Me 59 , single, straight, retired, enough money, nice house, not much of a family,. Parents were divorced at a young age. This made me think hard when it came to marriage.

To be honest I never found a woman I could trust. The ones I always got involved with were liars and cheaters.