I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

OP I think your concern is justified and I hope there's a simple explanation. It doesn't sound like he is trying to dump you and if he is the type to always get back to you when he says he will, of course this is upsetting. Maybe he decided to stay and extra day and since he still doesn't have service, he hasn't bothered charging his phone. Keep us posted!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

She's not chasing him you idiot! She's worried about him because this is totally out of character. WTF is wrong with you!

They've been dating for 6 months. She's chasing him.

My fighter pilot boyfriend (now husband) was calling me each time he landed after just 3 months of dating. It's cruel to make your significant other worry like OP is, and 6 months is NOT too soon.

LOL- of course it's too soon.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he said Sunday but meant Monday?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he said Sunday but meant Monday?

Yup! Maybe he misspoke because of the long weekend!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, at least you know nothing happened on the trip itself. I doubt the uncle would be posting random stuff on FB if something serious had happened to his nephew.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, why did you leave him a voicemail on Saturday night if you knew his cell service wouldn't be working?

The subject of your post is that you hadn't heard from him since Friday night when you knew you wouldn't hear from him until late Sunday in the first place. It's been a day. His phone probably died or got wet is drying out in a bag of rice.

I don't know if he is trying to dump you but you are clingy and obviously a drama queen. Maybe he just needs not to be smothered.

OP here: for the 3738374 time, he has other ways he could contact me though if something happened to his phone! He has a table, he could have texted me from his iPad or emailed me or Facebook messaged me. This is NOT LIKE HIM AT ALL. I am not clingy, I am VERY concerned. He was making a 9+ hour drive back my himself, was going HUNTING all weekend...many things could have happened.

And I left him a voice Mail regarding a getting tickets to a whiskey tour he wanted to do when he came to visit next weekend, not a big deal.

And the title of your post? Because if you post on a Monday that you were supposed to hear from your boyfriend late the night b/f and didn't you'd seem silly.

[Anonymous]

OP, please let us know what happens, whether he just was thoughtless or whether something else is going on.

I think a weekend of hunting and the long drive might be really tiring; maybe he took Monday off from work because he wanted to sleep through the day. But if he doesn't call you on Tuesday I would think things are weird. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Yes, OP please keep us all posted since we hope he is okay.

I understand your worrying about this all, but unfortunately it looks like your hands are tied at the moment.

Just wait and keep hoping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, please let us know what happens, whether he just was thoughtless or whether something else is going on.

I think a weekend of hunting and the long drive might be really tiring; maybe he took Monday off from work because he wanted to sleep through the day. But if he doesn't call you on Tuesday I would think things are weird. Good luck!

OP here: thank you. I will definitely update tomorrow. I'm really hoping I hear from him in the morning and if not, no idea what I'll do. I'm gonna try and get some sleep tonight even though I know it'll be hard but I'll update tomorrow and let everyone know what's going on.

[Anonymous]

9 hrs is a long drive. Maybe he was just exhausted and passed out. Then he went to work.

Not calling you for 1 day really isn't that big of a deal. Sorry.

I also think it is strange that you have no way of contacting anyone he knows besides via facebook. How did you guys meet? Online?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:9 hrs is a long drive. Maybe he was just exhausted and passed out. Then he went to work.

Not calling you for 1 day really isn't that big of a deal. Sorry.

I also think it is strange that you have no way of contacting anyone he knows besides via facebook. How did you guys meet? Online?

Op here: I understand that's a long drive and all that but the fact that he never turned his phone back on is what's concerning me the most. He HAS to have his cellphone on for work so if he was working all day today, it would have been on.

& yes, we met online.

[Anonymous]

Seems like very few of PP's have SAR experience. You better hope the bf isn't in a ditch somewhere.

[Anonymous]

OP, please ignore all of these people saying you're overreacting. You aren't - something is off and you have every reason to be worried. With that being said, the chances of something bad having happened are very slim. I'm betting that he misspoke and was actually up there today too, because of the long weekend. It will be ok.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's someone else's boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Since it's Easter Monday I wouldn't sweat it too much. Probably a misunderstanding about the return date.