I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a boyfriend of several months after college who did this same thing. I mentioned in passing to someone I worked with that I hadn't heard from my boyfriend in x-number of days and they just said, "...and you still consider him your boyfriend?"

That was a dead-on response. He's just not into you, OP, but he's letting you know in no uncertain terms by this behavior. Consider it a blessing, as you now have permission to get back out there and find the one who is right for you. I've been married to mine for 15 years, now.

That's a bit of a stretch, don't you think? She was talking to him on his way to the trip. I doubt he decided to dump her over the weekend. I know DCUM loves to be negative, but that's a bit much.

[Anonymous]

So has he called you yet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So has he called you yet?

OP here: no he hasn't and his phone is still off as of 15 minutes ago.


His uncle still hasn't read my message however, he "shared" a article on his Facebook wall around 8:30pm tonight so he's been on Facebook but like I said earlier, it said the message went to his "other" inbox so I doubt he will even see it.

To the posters saying clearly he's not into me, you know nothing about our relationship. We are very happy, we talked for an hour on the phone on his drive up there on Friday around 2:30pm, texted a bit later on and then around 7:30pm he texted me telling me his service was getting spotty and to have a good weekend, he'd text me Sunday night when he got back and that he loved me. So no, I highly doubt this was his way of being done with me, especially considering he's supposed to be coming to see me next weekend.

I don't know what my plan is next but if I still haven't heard from him by tomorrow morning, I'm really going to be worried.

[Anonymous]

Have you friend requested the uncle? This way you can message him directly.

[Anonymous]

Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

She's not chasing him you idiot! She's worried about him because this is totally out of character. WTF is wrong with you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

She's not chasing him you idiot! She's worried about him because this is totally out of character. WTF is wrong with you!

They've been dating for 6 months. She's chasing him.

[Anonymous]

OP, why did you leave him a voicemail on Saturday night if you knew his cell service wouldn't be working?

The subject of your post is that you hadn't heard from him since Friday night when you knew you wouldn't hear from him until late Sunday in the first place. It's been a day. His phone probably died or got wet is drying out in a bag of rice.

I don't know if he is trying to dump you but you are clingy and obviously a drama queen. Maybe he just needs not to be smothered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

So if your boyfriend or husband or whatever was 24+ hours late getting in touch with you after being away for a weekend, no part of you would freak out? Especially if it was completely out of character? You must have no emotion at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

She's not chasing him you idiot! She's worried about him because this is totally out of character. WTF is wrong with you!

+1
Some of these posters are just being stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, why did you leave him a voicemail on Saturday night if you knew his cell service wouldn't be working?

The subject of your post is that you hadn't heard from him since Friday night when you knew you wouldn't hear from him until late Sunday in the first place. It's been a day. His phone probably died or got wet is drying out in a bag of rice.

I don't know if he is trying to dump you but you are clingy and obviously a drama queen. Maybe he just needs not to be smothered.

OP here: for the 3738374 time, he has other ways he could contact me though if something happened to his phone! He has a table, he could have texted me from his iPad or emailed me or Facebook messaged me. This is NOT LIKE HIM AT ALL. I am not clingy, I am VERY concerned. He was making a 9+ hour drive back my himself, was going HUNTING all weekend...many things could have happened.

And I left him a voice Mail regarding a getting tickets to a whiskey tour he wanted to do when he came to visit next weekend, not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Okay, at least you know nothing happened on the trip itself. I doubt the uncle would be posting random stuff on FB if something serious had happened to his nephew.

[Anonymous]

Again OP...IF something happened to him, his uncle wouldn't be posting anything on Facebook. RELAX.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't necessarily count on the uncle or others. They could very well be thinking that all is ok bc they haven't heard from OP.

I think her concern is valid. It's out of character for him.

If it was me, I would have made all possible contact points I could at one time and just explained why I was doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop it. You should turn your phone off for 48 hours, get a massage and pedicure and stop chasing him. You're not his wife.

She's not chasing him you idiot! She's worried about him because this is totally out of character. WTF is wrong with you!

They've been dating for 6 months. She's chasing him.

My fighter pilot boyfriend (now husband) was calling me each time he landed after just 3 months of dating. It's cruel to make your significant other worry like OP is, and 6 months is NOT too soon.