I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

I'd be very worried too. First thought is in he's in a ditch somewhere. Second thought is that he dumped you. How much do you really know this guy?

[Anonymous]

I"m sorry, OP. I would also be concerned. Don't listen to others who are telling you to back off. If I were dating someone for 6 months and then I disappeared without contact--in this day and age when its easy to be in contact--I would hope they'd be worried.

Call his workplace today? if no dice, call maine state police.

[Anonymous]

I'd be worried too, but in all honesty it would be more about him being with simeone else, or not being who I thought he was - especially if we met online.

There was actually a thread a little while back started by someone who had learned that their BF of several months had been lying to her about everuthing. The coincidence is that he had told her he had been working on a farm but it was discovered he was still on another online dating website but with a completely different job. So he was a liar.
Then again, that really did seem like a troll post so who knows.

But in my twenties I dated a lot of jerks and my worry is that you don't know your guy as well as you think you do, and/or that he is doing the "fade out".

Regardless, I hope he is okay and that you hear from him soon.

[Anonymous]

Just a side note, I am amazed that people don't realize there are two inbox's on Facebook. In most cases, you can steal an e-mail address from the info portion and e-mail someone that way, which will hit their real e-mail address.

[Anonymous]

Just to add, it's totally understandable to be worried and I think that at this point you should keep doing everything you can to reach him, just in case anything did happen to him.

[Anonymous]

OP any word from him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP any word from him?

OP here: I still have not heard from him and his phone is still off.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP. At this point, I'd go ahead and pull out all the stops -- contact FB friends, job, and if that doesn't work, the police. It may end up being embarrassing, but it's worth the risk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP any word from him?

OP here: I still have not heard from him and his phone is still off.

Damn, I know how worried you are. I think you should drive to his house and see if he's been home. Just so you know he is in fact okay. Or look up the number of some of the farms he makes deliveries to (do you have names?) and call and see if he's been by.

[Anonymous]

Forgot his phone charger calm down.

[Anonymous]

OP, please keep us updated.

And ignore the above PP, who clearly hasn't read your posts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP any word from him?

OP here: I still have not heard from him and his phone is still off.

Damn, I know how worried you are. I think you should drive to his house and see if he's been home. Just so you know he is in fact okay. Or look up the number of some of the farms he makes deliveries to (do you have names?) and call and see if he's been by.

It's a long distance relationship. She's four hrs away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP any word from him?

OP here: I still have not heard from him and his phone is still off.

Damn, I know how worried you are. I think you should drive to his house and see if he's been home. Just so you know he is in fact okay. Or look up the number of some of the farms he makes deliveries to (do you have names?) and call and see if he's been by.

It's a long distance relationship. She's four hrs away.

I know, but I would make the drive.

[Anonymous]

Op, you should "friend" on fb his uncle that he travelled with and ask if he's heard from him. His local family should be the ones to raise the alarm if there really is a problem.

[Anonymous]

Can you make the drive, OP?