well, true. but the other way to phrase that is that colleges are looking for the same thing high schools are looking for: the poor kid with potential they can put on the marketing materials, the jock who can win the gold cup and can do the academics, the Richie Rich who can fund the new gym, etc. |
And this is the problem - dated, inaccurate information. Grace is retaining a lot more kids than it used to. It still admits a lot of kids as it roughly doubles in size. But more kids are staying. Which is why it has become more competitive. Though like at many other schools, the new kids who start in 9 actually tend to often be the smartest as they are accepted increasingly for academic achievement and not play date performance how much the parents suck up. Again, for the haters, I am in no way, shape or form saying Grace is TT. Not even close. But it makes a more compelling argument for 2T. Largely depends on how you define it. I am all for critical debate and discussion. The Trevor hater who was getting criticized and deleted was beyond that. There was zero basis in truth and they were universally calling all kids at a school dumb. That is not OK. And it is not true. Anyone who makes blanket statements about a school is not worth listening to. And anyone that hateful should not be here. Good riddance. And regarding St. Ann's. That situation festered and was encouraged by the school and is symptomatic about bigger problems there. It is hard to ignore. Totally agree that any school can end up with a rogue teacher so be careful commenting on someone else. But it went way beyond that. |
A lot of TTs have informal HR procedures, lax oversight, and do gooderism that can lead to hiring criminals. It isn’t specific to St Ann’s. The Trevor poster was a clown. But so was at least one of the schools defenders who cursed and went crazy saying it was TT (his or her posts were taken down). Broader point, getting into a TT and not a school like Grace or Trevor only means the latter was managing yield and knew a top applicant wouldn’t enroll there. It doesn’t mean they are equivalent to TT. |
Regarding St. Ann's: I only mildly fault them for hiring the guy. I more severely fault them for repeatedly ignoring clear signs of problems. And I think it was willful ignorance due to their particular emphasis on progressivism. And to add context: I am a Democrat and not MAGA, so I am not saying this in a Trumpy way. And I think other schools might have done this to some extent also as most private schools in NYC have this mentality in their DNA, but I think it is particularly strong at St. Ann's which made them more susceptible to this happening. And regarding Grace and Trevor (and Packer, Friends, etc). Again. No one is claiming they are equivalent to TT. So please stop. Saying that is enabling the lunatics like Trevor hater as it creates a false narrative that never existed. |
Agree regarding the schools’ DNA. Someone on page 1 of this thread literally said Trevor is TT. Idk if it’s bait or a joke on that poster but it is there. I haven’t seen Grace claimed as TT |
OK. That is one person. No one else has said that. Agree that it is not true. I can say that Trinity is 4T. Doesn't make it right or worth discussing beyond one person refuting it. And I think it was established that the Trevor TT comment was made in jest to mess with the Trevor hater, not out of seriousness. Let's move on. That being said, thank you for replying reasonably. Too many loud mouth jerks here. |
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I also regarding St Anns DNA. but also can't overlook their college placement, even now.
GCS is a solid school, but also very much a full pay place. They dont have the endowment TTs have. They dont have the college placement of 2Ts like Regis or St Ann's or, if we were adding publics, schools like Bronx Science or Hunter. I put GCS on the same tier as Beacon and Poly Prep and Berkeley Carroll. I think that's 3T. And if I wanted to open a can of worms: I'd also put Avenues in this tier. It's a good education with solid college counseling and outcomes. Also pretty much full pay, but it is what it is |
If you are going to be very granular and say 2T is just Regis, St. Ann's, and maybe Riverdale, then I would agree that Grace is 3T. Though if also being that granular, I would likely differentiate it from Berkeley Carroll and make that 4T. If you are doing a broader view of 2T then Grace sneaks in. Agreed that Avenues is an odd duck. Probably agree with you on the tiering. But it draws a different crowd. And I know some people who sent their kid for elementary (particularly those who live downtown for whom it was convenient) and maxed out the language portion then applied out as they felt that that was its primary differentiating factor and the HS was not as good. |
I immediately took that post as sarcasm and the poster later explained that they made a joke following the recent debate about Trevor. |
What’s wrong with HM? |
Having a narrow and granular 2T is better. Those are a cut above the 3Ts you listed. Where would you put St B Buckley St D and AS if you had to categorize them for K-8/9? |
Okay, I'll try. I agree that GCS is getting rising in ranks - just 3-4 years ago they'd take anyone who could pay and was tier 4 - but it's not tier 2. I don't have deep insight into all these schools so this is just my take as a person who has two kids in private high schools in nyc, has been through the application process twice as an unhooked family, and follows college placement somewhat. I'm sure there are glaring errors. (these aren't ranked within tiers) tier 1 Trinity Collegiate Dalton Spence Brearley HM Chapin tier 2 St Ann's Regis Riverdale Fieldstone Marymount Sacred Heart Nightingale tier 3 Loyola GCS Packer Poly Avenues Friends Seminary Tier 4 BFS BC Basis Hewitt Dwight Trevor Calhoun Hackley Lycée UNIS Xavier/Fordham Prep Notre Dame/DA/SVF -- |
+1 to this. Except Riv and Saint Ann’s are more difficult admits for K than their 2T ranking would otherwise suggest. |
| +1 more or less. I base a lot of this on how hard is it to get in even if you're a full pay family. Tier 1 and Tier 2 are hard or very hard (or very very hard) admits. Tier 3 not so much. Tier 4 not at all. |
+1 |