Would you choose a great partner even though sex is mediocre?

[Anonymous]

Let me tell ya, sex isn't everything. Sex and lust fade. Know what doesn't? Personality and being compatible. That sticks around for decades (longer if you're lucky).

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

It screams "pillow prince/ss" in a big way, yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Given all you've now said, the fact that you think this is a potential dealbreaker for an otherwise good relationship and good sexual relationship tells me that you are not mature enough. Get some therapy, do some introspection, or cut him loose.

There isn’t. He excitedly eats it nightly for a long time.

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Anonymous wrote:Is the problem that he doesn’t enjoy giving oral? Because that’s not really fixable (assuming no hygiene issues on your part etc.). But if it’s just a matter of technique, that can be taught. Maybe the way he’s doing it drove his previous partner wild.

He enjoys giving oral and no hygiene issue for either of us. He’s just not that good. It’s not terrible but the technique isn’t what I love. Let’s just say he is very clumsy down there and acts like he’s slurping up a bowl of noodles.

Find some lesbo porn videos of them doing it like you'd like, and watch them with him.

Comment how "they know how to do it" when watching. Challenge him with "Think you could do it like that just as good as a lesbian?" and he will be challenged to learn more.

This is weird. I’m not into watching homosexual porn and making him feel like he has to compete with a gay porn star.

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

I’m pretty good in bed. He has given me a lot of compliments. I’m very submissive and adventurous. He gets just about anything he wants. I’m no starfish either. I ride his D a lot as a great upper thigh workout. My oral game is also really good and I can take him all the way in my throat without gagging so there’s that.

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

It screams "pillow prince/ss" in a big way, yes.

I do like pleasure but definitely not. I always give him oral and whatever kind of oral he wants. I’m an active participant in sex by riding his D and throwing it back on the D.

[Anonymous]

Sit on his face and you control the rhythm. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is the problem that he doesn’t enjoy giving oral? Because that’s not really fixable (assuming no hygiene issues on your part etc.). But if it’s just a matter of technique, that can be taught. Maybe the way he’s doing it drove his previous partner wild.

He enjoys giving oral and no hygiene issue for either of us. He’s just not that good. It’s not terrible but the technique isn’t what I love. Let’s just say he is very clumsy down there and acts like he’s slurping up a bowl of noodles.

Find some lesbo porn videos of them doing it like you'd like, and watch them with him.

Comment how "they know how to do it" when watching. Challenge him with "Think you could do it like that just as good as a lesbian?" and he will be challenged to learn more.

This is weird. I’m not into watching homosexual porn and making him feel like he has to compete with a gay porn star.

I agree that the competition idea is weird, but watching some lesbian porn is a perfectly good idea for him to learn

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Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a 50-something woman, pick the good husband and good father. Mediocre sex will not ruin your life but a bad partner will. I am 20 years into a wonderful marriage to a guys who is pretty bad at sex. He is my best friend and a great dad and makes a lot of money. My life is really great. I would not trade one thing about him for better sex.

Good to know. I was leaning towards that because I love him but a couple friends keep telling me to not be with a man who doesn’t sexually satisfy all needs.

He does make a lot of money but I don’t care much about that. What I care about is that he treats me well. I feel comfortable with him, he’s a good person, and I find him so hot. Our values align and I love his personality. He’s also great with communication, financially stable, and I love his family.

Another 50s something woman-he sounds like a keeper, especially if you find him attractive. Play the long game: he sounds great.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

It screams "pillow prince/ss" in a big way, yes.

I do like pleasure but definitely not. I always give him oral and whatever kind of oral he wants. I’m an active participant in sex by riding his D and throwing it back on the D.

What do you mean under "throwing it back on the D?" That's weird. And a lot of men don't like super active riding. It can be actually painful for them. Some prefer grinding motion

You sound unexperienced

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Anonymous wrote:Is it because he’s selfish? Because if he’s selfish that way, he’ll end up being selfish in other ways.

Very giving lover. Sexual intercourse is great. I just wish he was better at giving oral.

Troll.

[Anonymous]

Good work troll!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

It screams "pillow prince/ss" in a big way, yes.

I do like pleasure but definitely not. I always give him oral and whatever kind of oral he wants. I’m an active participant in sex by riding his D and throwing it back on the D.

What do you mean under "throwing it back on the D?" That's weird. And a lot of men don't like super active riding. It can be actually painful for them. Some prefer grinding motion

You sound unexperienced

It’s “ inexperienced and I’m definitely not. Calling me inexperience when you don’t even know what throwing it back means. Let me educate you
Throwing it back means a man in doggy but you’re doing the work. Throwing that a** back on his D.

I do riding and grinding. There are many men who don’t orgasm from grinding. I mix it up with grinding and bouncing. I know how to work my kegel muscles to slowly milk him as I bounce up and down. I know how to spin around on his D and go reverse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good work troll!

I’m not. Sorry you’re such a prude.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Of course if you do marry him all of your friends now know that you think he's bad in bed. That's kind of a burden, don't you think?

Whenever anyone complains about others being bad in bed, everyone knows the person complaining is the real wet blanket in bed. Always.

It's an unspoken universal truth, because it means the complainer has no creativity, or ability to teach.

It screams "pillow prince/ss" in a big way, yes.

I do like pleasure but definitely not. I always give him oral and whatever kind of oral he wants. I’m an active participant in sex by riding his D and throwing it back on the D.

What do you mean under "throwing it back on the D?" That's weird. And a lot of men don't like super active riding. It can be actually painful for them. Some prefer grinding motion

You sound unexperienced

It’s “ inexperienced and I’m definitely not. Calling me inexperience when you don’t even know what throwing it back means. Let me educate you
Throwing it back means a man in doggy but you’re doing the work. Throwing that a** back on his D.

I do riding and grinding. There are many men who don’t orgasm from grinding. I mix it up with grinding and bouncing. I know how to work my kegel muscles to slowly milk him as I bounce up and down. I know how to spin around on his D and go reverse.

You sound very perfunctionary in bed and no emotions. Technicality at the expense of emotional closeness would kill the drive for most over time. Any man at 33 would cum with no issues simply if you are into him.

You are horrible OP he deserves a better woman