Would you choose a great partner even though sex is mediocre?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:lol this thread is so dumb. You’re great in bed but can’t communicate. You’re submissive but you’re hopping that thang and throwing it in reverse. He won’t get his face all up in that but you’re waxed like a Barbie doll and you smell and taste like peaches’n cream. Right, right.

Did you not read the thread? Where did is say he won’t go down on me? I said he excitedly goes down on me daily. It’s the technique that’s the issue. He’s clumsy. Smelling like peaches wouldn’t be normal. He has told me he likes that my V is clean unlike someone women and that I taste and smell like water. I’ve heard this with other partners too.

You can be sexually submissive and throw it back on his command.

I never said I can’t communicate. I’ve tried to coach him a bit on what I like and he is still clumsy down there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lol this thread is so dumb. You’re great in bed but can’t communicate. You’re submissive but you’re hopping that thang and throwing it in reverse. He won’t get his face all up in that but you’re waxed like a Barbie doll and you smell and taste like peaches’n cream. Right, right.

Did you not read the thread? Where did is say he won’t go down on me? I said he excitedly goes down on me daily. It’s the technique that’s the issue. He’s clumsy. Smelling like peaches wouldn’t be normal. He has told me he likes that my V is clean unlike someone women and that I taste and smell like water. I’ve heard this with other partners too.

You can be sexually submissive and throw it back on his command.

I never said I can’t communicate. I’ve tried to coach him a bit on what I like and he is still clumsy down there.

How do you rate yourself?

[Anonymous]

As a man, I've gotten pretty hot reading this thread. It hits my buttons that some women are able to openly talk about sexuality like the OP.

I think OP sounds like a sweetheart to me. She's here exploring some opinions and many of you are incredibly negative, single minded, and downright rude.

Regarding the lack of satisfying oral for you OP. IDK what would work for him. Probably a little bit of everything from educational porn, being extremely explicit with him, sitting on his face after he rubs and licks around your crotch to warm you up, to taking total control and tie him up and give him orders to be better and each lick he falls short on, you then ping his D hard or pinch his nipples into pain, idk I'm grasping here for you ! Some people are just clueless because they really don't give a shit is my guess.

I can tell you that many married women never get oral. Many men other than myself also. I've had the pleasure of 2 complete releases over 25 yrs with the Mrs. A few other times she'd feebly lick/suck, but it's so gawd awful bad that I can't even keep an erection because I'm at the point I don't even want it from someone that doesn't love me enough to care about what I want over their momentary dislike of the deed. OTOH I eat her like no tomorrow, literally doesn't matter what her V smells like or any fluids including menstrual, always have and always will simply because I'm highly oral and get my greatest pleasure from giving pleasure and P fascinates me to no end that I don't envision ever tiring of. I love my wife wholeheartedly, but my solution over the years have been seeking our lovers that love to release me orally. I was too weak to accept no oral for a lifetime, maybe you'll go down the same path. None of my lovers have ever lessened my love for my wife. She simply chooses not to be my complete lover and therefore I choose to supplement it.
I hope you find a solution for oral ..... but you'd be nutz to throw away a good man over it. I wouldn't trade my wife for an everyday D sucking woman I know that.