Hello anti-female propaganda. ^ Maybe you are the one that is old and bitter.
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Maybe she’s the mother or father of a daughter and she doesn’t want her to settle for an old man |
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The unfortunate reality for men is that fit women are in short supply and being fit yourself doesn’t guarantee you’ll be able to date someone else who is fit. Being fit as a guy won’t help you that much if you’re short or not successful.
I have always been the more physically fit person in my relationships… and it’s always caused problems. The women I’ve dated have trouble keeping up. |
Being short is fine, being unsuccessful is not. Fit women are less likely to settle. |
DH does 60 minutes of hot yoga everday, he is far from iffy. I hate yoga, but I definitely enjoy the benefits of him doing it daily. His body is incredible. |
Where does he practice? |
| Everyone at our local cross fit gym ends up marrying each other. Have you tried crossfit? |
I'm 47. 20 BMI, C size tits, cute face, thin. Workout 15 hours a week, and only date within 5 years of my own age. Doing fine, no complaints - I have many options. I was married to a man who was 11 years older for 16 years. No, women don't want older men, particular when he's in his 50s and you are in your late 30s. I didn't want to sleep with exH he was gross. I married my exH exclusively for stability but never loved him. I was in love with my first BF who was 5 years older than me, and that was in my early 20s |
Ignore them. Yoga is really popular with a wide spectrum of guys, especially now. Young, old, sporty, hippy, serious work out types and more. I think athletes know it pairs well with their activities and its gaining popularity for its whole body strengthening. Decades ago it was less popular and the few guys were often new agey or just in need of some pain relief. Its not like that at most studios today, just take a class at one with a more broad appeal and see. |
+1. The comments from the women above say more about their narrow world than anything else. |
It's a weight lifting dude who originally trashed yoga. He was flexing. In reality, personal trainers recommend doing yoga once a week if you do weight lifting. It helps release tension and recover faster |
Have you been to therapy to work on that? It's a shame you used your husband like you did. You might be working through feelings of guilt and remorse for doing that to him. |
Many men do yoga to leer at the women. It is what it is. |
I was in my 20s and under a lot of pressure to marry an "established" man. Yes, I regret it and particular how the divorce affected our child. Hopefully this story will give a hint to men who prefer 10+years younger why women date them |
Not all women are damaged like you were though. |