How to date a fitness woman?

[Anonymous]

I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

220lbs is a super lame deadlift unless he weighs 100lbs. Don't take my word for it. https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/deadlift/lb

Intermediate deadlift is 1.5x bodyweight. I weigh 160lb and deadlift 400lb and I can safely say that I am not bragging because that is nothing special. I'm just an ordinary middle of the pack guy at the gym. Your yoga buddy is disconnected from reality if he's not embarrassed by his pathetic lift.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t you dating girls your age.

The fitness types are neurotic. You don’t wanna date them.

NP
Most fitness types in their 30s are taken. He does need to find someone younger, but you will need to find them through your network, grad school, or friends- the traditional way.

I'm a fitness type and always have been. I knew what I wanted by early/mid twenties and married at 26. I found DH in grad school, he was a post-doc. Most of my friends married by 30.

If all you have to offer is fitness, unfortunately you're out of luck. These women want smart, funny, fit, good looking, and potential - you don't have to earn big now but you should have bigger goals than a tight ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

220lbs is a super lame deadlift unless he weighs 100lbs. Don't take my word for it. https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/deadlift/lb

Intermediate deadlift is 1.5x bodyweight. I weigh 160lb and deadlift 400lb and I can safely say that I am not bragging because that is nothing special. I'm just an ordinary middle of the pack guy at the gym. Your yoga buddy is disconnected from reality if he's not embarrassed by his pathetic lift.

Well, this type of talk would get you axed from any dating list I might have. You sound like a jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

220lbs is a super lame deadlift unless he weighs 100lbs. Don't take my word for it. https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/deadlift/lb

Intermediate deadlift is 1.5x bodyweight. I weigh 160lb and deadlift 400lb and I can safely say that I am not bragging because that is nothing special. I'm just an ordinary middle of the pack guy at the gym. Your yoga buddy is disconnected from reality if he's not embarrassed by his pathetic lift.

Well, this type of talk would get you axed from any dating list I might have. You sound like a jerk.

Sorry to bring the receipts on your yoga f buddy. Not saying don't sleep with him. Just saying it's a weird flex for him to brag about how bad he is at lifting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

I wrecked my back deadlifting 250 lbs. Between 220 lbs that's nothing for deadlift. I am 5'11, 155 lbs and was deadlifting 250 lbs.

I started doing yoga recently. My instructor is an older lady she has to be 70. However if any woman looks like her at 70, she would be very very happy. This woman looks great. And she still has well shaped buttocks, well defined and and traps at 70. She is my inspiration to keep doing yoga.

I wish I could sleep with her too lol. And I am recently divorced but nah I'll keep it professional. And she is a very nice lady too. But whoever her boyfriend or girlfriend is they surely have one heck of a healthy partner.

And I'll add yoga is amazing. I thought I was flexible. Wrong. Years of weightlifting don't prepare you for yoga. Sure they prepare you for fitness but the flexibility that yoga requires a lot of men don't have it.

[Anonymous]

Yoga IS amazing!!! You can do it men! You won't be flexible like (most) women, but you can be flexible in your own way!! Give it a go!!

[Anonymous]

I once dated a gorgeous fitness-focused woman. She did all sorts of competitions and was basically always moving. Her figure was amazingly sculpted, but that presented a problem. She was always at the gym and didn’t have any other life. Never rarely had time for me.

[Anonymous]

Op here - ended up dating three fitness women this summer and I’m going back to art hoes

Fitness women for the most part are boring

Hot. But so, so boring.

[Anonymous]

"Art hoes" everywhere: "Here comes the out-of-shape broke dude"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Early 30s guy here dating a early-mid 20s girl. She’s great. Beautiful, interesting smart etc. but she’s more the “alternative” type. Vapes, weed, etc.

I on the other hand don’t do those things and work out daily/run/yoga. It’s easy to be hot at 24….but without discipline/a regimen, not so much at 35…so I am concerned about her future.

I’ve tried to go on dates with more “fitness/wellness” types - you know, the Pilates/yoga/run club (some combo of that daily) , more basic….but seem to get no interest from that crowd.

My assumption is while I am fit I’m not fit enough for them or I’m not rich enough for that crowd.

Thoughts?

HUGE RED FLAG.

That's not fitness, that's cope and drug addiction behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
If all you have to offer is fitness, unfortunately you're out of luck. These women want smart, funny, fit, good looking, and potential - you don't have to earn big now but you should have bigger goals than a tight ass.

+1. The women you want are looking for men on thrnfast track to success.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sleeping with my yoga instructor. He's hot. He does Ashtanga and weightlifting. He's deadlifting 220lbs rn, plus got authorised to teach second series a few years ago.

I wrecked my back deadlifting 250 lbs. Between 220 lbs that's nothing for deadlift. I am 5'11, 155 lbs and was deadlifting 250 lbs.

I started doing yoga recently. My instructor is an older lady she has to be 70. However if any woman looks like her at 70, she would be very very happy. This woman looks great. And she still has well shaped buttocks, well defined and and traps at 70. She is my inspiration to keep doing yoga.

I wish I could sleep with her too lol. And I am recently divorced but nah I'll keep it professional. And she is a very nice lady too. But whoever her boyfriend or girlfriend is they surely have one heck of a healthy partner.

And I'll add yoga is amazing. I thought I was flexible. Wrong. Years of weightlifting don't prepare you for yoga. Sure they prepare you for fitness but the flexibility that yoga requires a lot of men don't have it.

I hope when I am 70 people have more impressive things to comment on besides my nicely-shaped ass.

This is why I can't relate to fitness people. I want to know if someone has a wickedly funny sense of humor.

[Anonymous]

I'm a 30 year old woman who vapes (not proud of it) and smokes weed (never plan on quitting that one!). Never considered I would be considered alternative for it lol. I think as long as she enjoys active activities she will be just fine. You're worried about her getting fat or something? I am 10-15lbs overweight but I also had kids. I enjoy hiking and paddle boarding, but you won't find me at the gym.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I once dated a gorgeous fitness-focused woman. She did all sorts of competitions and was basically always moving. Her figure was amazingly sculpted, but that presented a problem. She was always at the gym and didn’t have any other life. Never rarely had time for me.

Good relationships involve 1 or 2 things.

Great sex. Common interests.

If you don't have at least one of those two, then it's tough for the relationship (either sexual or friendship) to last very long.