Do you think most men who travel a lot cheat?

[Anonymous]

There are plenty of women out there who think hooking up on a work trip will lead to a relationship. They get flirty have some drinks and in a delusion think the guy is really into them not realizing that men who cheat have no loyalty and look for the next opportunity in the next town they go to. A friends husband justified it as being out of town and far away. No one would find out until my friend did and the 30 year marriage blew up because her husband didn’t think the cheating would affect the relationship. He saw no harm in sleeping with women when out of town. Crazy

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and travel quite a bit for work. I’m on the road at least two weeks out of the month and its really easy to meet women who are basically doing the same thing. Hotel bars and fitness centers are usually where I’m most likely to meet someone. At a minimum you get to have a nice conversation with someone to pass the time, but often, in can turn into a fun night or few days. I’m often surprised at how approachable women are in the bars at nice hotels (W, etc) as well as the amount of interest I get from women outside my race.

What is your race?

I’m black and pretty tall/muscular. I assumed that most women (especially of other races) would feel threatened or intimidated by me.

I would think that would actually help in terms of hookups!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are plenty of women out there who think hooking up on a work trip will lead to a relationship. They get flirty have some drinks and in a delusion think the guy is really into them not realizing that men who cheat have no loyalty and look for the next opportunity in the next town they go to. A friends husband justified it as being out of town and far away. No one would find out until my friend did and the 30 year marriage blew up because her husband didn’t think the cheating would affect the relationship. He saw no harm in sleeping with women when out of town. Crazy

Sadly this is a weakness I have seen among even the most successful women. Even when faced with a known womanizer a lot of woman still may think that there is a chance that he will settle for me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and travel quite a bit for work. I’m on the road at least two weeks out of the month and its really easy to meet women who are basically doing the same thing. Hotel bars and fitness centers are usually where I’m most likely to meet someone. At a minimum you get to have a nice conversation with someone to pass the time, but often, in can turn into a fun night or few days. I’m often surprised at how approachable women are in the bars at nice hotels (W, etc) as well as the amount of interest I get from women outside my race.

What is your race?

I’m black and pretty tall/muscular. I assumed that most women (especially of other races) would feel threatened or intimidated by me.

I would think that would actually help in terms of hookups!

I have seen some very hot tall and muscular Black men get some incredible 11/10 White or Hispanic women. Black men in general though are very friendly and likable and I think that helps.

[Anonymous]

Do you think men that drive white vehicles cheat? Do you think men that play sports cheat? Do you think men that wear a Rolex cheat? 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, but married women cheat at an equal (possibly greater) percentage as married men.

Women are smarter about their extra-marital affairs than men. Work-travel is the ultimate scenario for undetected cheating.

So it’s logical women will choose the best, least-risky scenario for their infidelity.

Women who travel for work certainly cheat at shockingly high rates.

Have you posted this before, PP? That "statistic" and your whole post sound really familiar. I think you've said all this in other threads about cheating.

Please give the source of your "percentage" and the details for those "shockingly high rates" or your post is meaningless. If it's just something you heard sometime, somewhere, that's no more legit than just typing whatever's in your head. And please don't say, "Go look it up!" The onus is on the person making such a definitive assertion, to give us the source if there is one. Not saying you're lying; just saying, you can't toss around percentages and rates with no sources and no actual percentages or rates. Well, you can, but no one will give it any credit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you think men that drive white vehicles cheat? Do you think men that play sports cheat? Do you think men that wear a Rolex cheat? 🤦‍♂️

BINGO - all men cheat if they want to. Fortunately not all men want to.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think men that drive white vehicles cheat? Do you think men that play sports cheat? Do you think men that wear a Rolex cheat? 🤦‍♂️

BINGO - all men cheat if they want to. Fortunately not all men want to.

Exactly… Get the women pregnant, catch a disease and bring it home, or get caught…? No thanks

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think men that drive white vehicles cheat? Do you think men that play sports cheat? Do you think men that wear a Rolex cheat? 🤦‍♂️

BINGO - all men cheat if they want to. Fortunately not all men want to.

Exactly… Get the women pregnant, catch a disease and bring it home, or get caught…? No thanks

Well you didn’t say no because you love and respect your spouse, so if the risk of getting a woman pregnant is zero, catching a disease low and getting caught low, lots of men will take it if given the opportunity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Given the opportunity?

We know a few men who travel unnecessarily often. There are consultants who travel for work and that is their actual job. Then there are other men who don’t have to travel for their actual job but find conferences or meetings to attend where they don’t necessarily have to attend.

I know my single BIL goes to a lot of these as an excuse to hang out, meet people and network. But for a man with a wife and multiple young kids?

Re: the bold: So, OP, how do you know with such assurance that these men travel "unnecessarily often" and that "they don't necessarily have to attend" events?

I'm asking seriously. Were you told this by one of the people who does the actual travel?

Unless you have heard from them that they are intentionally booking conferences and travel they don't have to do, and it's because they want to cheat...why are you assuming that that's what they intend? Is this your own suspicious mind talking here, or these men, themselves?

I'm not saying you're wrong, but you cannot know for sure if they do travel that YOU, from outside, assume is "unnecessary," but which they might feel is important for the same reasons your single BIL travels -- networking. Even "a man with a wife and multiple young kids" might need to ensure he's seen by his company as doing the networking; getting continuing education if it's that type of event; giving a presentation you don't know about, etc. If your post is based just on your belief that their travel isn't necessary, well, you can't know how important these work events are or aren't, or whether the guys' companies have expectations about their employees being seen at such events. Some bosses really do think their employees should want to go to certain professional events, even if those employees have kids. Oh yeah...and even if those employees are the mothers and not the dads.

Before the usual DCUM "You're a guy, justifying cheating!" nonsense kicks in: I'm a woman, my DH does not travel for his job, but I wouldn't make assumptions about what is necessary or unnecessary for other people's careers, unless they'd directly talked to me about it or I thoroughly understood the details of their job's demands.

Guess my DH should be super suspicious about the four-day weekend I just took to fly to another city for a conference purely for fun. It certainly was unnecessary, so to you, I was looking to cheat, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Yes, reason some have a certain job ( to het away from home)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, reason some have a certain job ( to het away from home)

Lots of type-A married women in the DC area are the same way; what they do on travel? Stays on travel.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Woman here - international development field. Know many WB and IMF families. Yes, husbands and wives sleep with colleagues on travel. There was even a change in travel reimbursement policy as employees took mistresses on corporate account.
I was hit on many times on business trips - by both higher level executive men and women

WB here 15+ years and you’re just making stuff up.

Agree. It ain't like that. Most of the people at both places are pretty nerdy and serious minded.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think men that drive white vehicles cheat? Do you think men that play sports cheat? Do you think men that wear a Rolex cheat? 🤦‍♂️

BINGO - all men cheat if they want to. Fortunately not all men want to.

This is very true. But the reality is that work travel provides opportunity. Most men don’t travel so it isn’t easy to cheat. Work travel makes it very easy