This is why I keep hearing on social media about this or that person leaving law to run his or her own business, bake bread, run delivery errand business, etc. After a few years when associates are expected to bringing in new business, It's a pressure cooker. |
You should be. Still paying off husband's law school loans although at least we're getting near the end. And yes, I know that was bad planning and now we're living with it. I don't understand why people on this board are so mean all the time. Mean and thin-skinned at the same time. Like what's the point of lecturing a total stranger about choices that stranger made ten years ago when you know nothing about their life? To feel superior? And then there's the thin-skinned person chiming on that those other associates weren't really laid off... Sure. They're probably all chose to live on a farm with Old Yeller, Larlo. That's what happened. You're not allowed to tell the truth about biglaw attrition because you might hurt their feelings... but they feel free to give you a snide lecture about your spending. |
Currently the American Bar Association requires colleges to require standardized testing. So it's not really something that schools can consider abandoning. |
This is not what OP is saying. I don't get why parents who can afford it, wouldn't. We will pay for grad school and have no where near OP money but we'll find a way to make it work. Its very hard to get jobs without a masters. |
Whoa, hostile much? It's just bad advice to give that anyone should plan 8 years to pay off loans while in BigLaw. I had lots of friends who decided on that plan while living it up, only to get burned with an early exit. I'd never advise anyone to take that long. And I also had plenty of loans. If you want a pissing contest, I got a JD/PhD with no parental help. Feel better? I still advise law students not to plan on 8 years in BigLaw. That's a risky bet. |
Are you really posting to profess your knowledge of the legal industry based on your husband being a lawyer? There are lots of folks who start as associates in BigLaw with zero intention to make partner. They want to pivot to government or in house rolls. No layoffs involved. They don't want the lifestyle and there is other interesting work outside of BigLaw. New partners often try to convince themselves that they somehow won, when others weren't even in the race and didn't want the prize. Sure, partner comes with a big paycheck, but it also means limited time with your family and takes a big toll on your health.
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It is not very hard to get jobs without masters. Who convinced you of this? |
But you didn't make partner. Otherwise, why would you be so bitter and judgmental? |
Correcting an incorrect assumption that every associate wants to make partner is bitter and judgemental? You want an example? One of my good friends left BigLaw to go to the solicitor's office, then spent some time advising the judiciary committee, and is now on the federal bench. There are lots of paths other than partner. |
But not you. You just raise your kids and lurk on message boards to tell other people they make bad financial choices. |
Nah, I have an awesome in house job. It's just harder to explain why it's awesome while staying anonymous.
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I know plenty of lawyers who left biglaw, btw. Despite not being a lawyer. Some work for the DoJ, it's quite common. Some did clerkships and then got Federal jobs. Also common. Some might also say, that's the easy way out. I believe I expressed envy myself for your generous benefit packages and pensions.
There are plenty of more "small law" jobs that are also fairly chill, plenty of people who question whether biglaw was ever worth it at all. I would say no. |
Well, that does explain all your free time. |
| And, like I said, you didn't make partner. |
Nope, thank goodness. I love seeing my kids and husband. I'm much happier as the client. |