Poor individual training right? |
People are running around overly excited or depressed by their kids U12, U13, U14, U15 etc team's Win or Loss. Yes, your kid's team lost, but your kid played well and is developing strongly. Yes, your kid's team won with only 5 strong players carrying the rest, and your kid isn't one of them. No scout or high level team coach ever said, I'll take them all. They only take the exceptional ones, whether team wins or loses. |
You can say no one SHOULD care about a club team winning games, but the fact is many, many people care about wins. Most coaches care because that’s a primary metric of evaluation to keep their job. Most parents care. Most players care. Most clubs care as a way to enhance their brands. If there weren’t a large market of customers interested in winning, there would be less focus on winning. We don’t have to like it but I don’t see it ever changing. |
Both! Individual needs to work on touch and control. Coach needs to teach how to play under pressure. |
There's a large market of parents/kids who care about the superficial, so they are happy to be on losing teams wearing a MLS Next or ECNL badge 😉 |
I have no skin in the game for Brave, but give my DD's team recently played them, there are 2 or 3 solid players on Brave 09G. The rest are not ECNL caliber. Looks like they are even struggling with subs. I think they had one or two subs. Given Brave has the pipeline with VYS and BRYC, I'm not sure why they have limited players on the team. Could it be the coach? Some of the girls on this team are at best second tier travel team, not ECNL caliber player. Sorry if those OPs feel otherwise. Be honest. ECNL is top level soccer. I wonder if anyone of them get private training or maybe they play another sport as primary and just want to say they play ECNL. On our team, all the girls are committed to playing Soccer year around, private training, and it is their #1 sport. I appreciate the win, but at the same time sympathetic to those players constantly losing. |
You’re a part of this superficial market I assume since not being on “losing teams” is a priority. Pot meet…. |
Make that make sense. Since don't have any kids on either a MLS Next or ECNL team. |
I think they said that everyone from the team last year left because of the coach. That would suggest that 2nd team players got bumped up. Next year the 3rd team will get their chance. |
3 returning players, a couple new players from Loudon ECNL and ECNL RL, one from arlington, one from syc, 3-4 from bryc ecnl rl. 2 solid players, the rest are BAD. They can't get the ball out from the backline. |
I did the math adding the 11s, it won’t help you. Arlington is #1 across the 3 ages with 1 less game played as compared to Brave. |
Kids play hard to win a game and then - forget it. Parents who are not idiot’s understand that what is important consists of (1) is your kid in a good place with a given team/coach? Personalities are meshing okay. No major problems. Team costs are handable. Time commitment is okay. (2) is your kid continuously improving consistent with their ability and their commitment; and (3) is your kid getting opportunities for exposure in order to have a chance to play at the next level.
None of that has anything to do with wins or losses. If your daughter wants to play in college on a big school D1 team then she needs to be playing ECNL for the exposure. It’s regrettable as the costs are high with the ridiculous travel, but that’s price. Do it at u16 and u17 then drop off once your kid is set on a school. But, you aren’t making an ECNL u16 team unless you have really excelled at a lower level, or have come up through the ECNL system. It sucks but it is what it is. Whether or not “team x” beat “team y” is completely irrelevant. Are players learning, and are recruiting coaches watching? No college coach ever said - “Golly, I like Susie. She would be a good fit on my team, but Susie’s team lost to the team from Othertown. Guess I won’t try and recruit Susie.” |
Bravo. But this thread is a rant about a coach that could care less about his team because they aren’t good or winning. Canceling committed tournaments and showcases because they suck is not going to help their development. |
I would add that the coach told our DD that if someone wins a penalty they should never be the one taking the penalty. Something about their heart rate being too high. I’ve never heard of this before. Definitely weird in my book. |
Weird because you obviously never played at any point. This is common. |