| My ILs insisted that the idiot 22 yo baby mama fix herself after mistake #2 (the one they claim to have “planned”) was born |
Go back to 1950. |
| Once your child hits 18, you cannot make them do anything. They’re free to have zero or ten babies immediately, but the consequences of those choices should fall 100% on them with private charities filling in small gaps. |
Yup |
Why? They were housing and paying for these kids they never should have had My almost 50 yo BIL is still there living in that house with the kids (now teens) after their mom basically walked out on them at least 10 years ago |
There is no such thing as a “baby mama,” only a mother, and an adult (18+) is allowed to have kids like any other adult. |
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Oops - my ILs were housing and paying for the kids the idiots never should have had
Sorry, not fully awake yet |
Why do your ILs choose to house and feed them? That’s on them. |
Well, my idiot 30-something-at-the-time BIL who was twice divorced (from the same woman) and bankrupt knocked up a teenager he had only known for a month. The idiots had to live with my ILs and went on to have a second child they couldn’t afford. They never married and she walked out on her kids. I’ll call that sorry excuse for a human what she is. |
Because they are too nice. But their house and perfectly acceptable to ask that the idiots stop reproducing |
I don't think "pro choice" means what you are implying here (unless I am reading it wrong). What do you mean by "support"? Emotionally, sure I support whatever she chooses. Doesn't necessarily mean I am going to raise, or help raise, her child. i *might* but, I have choice too. |
HA ha ha BC fails, ask my unexpected DD. |
NP. You’re extremely judgmental and sound like an idiot yourself. Embarrassed for you. |
You watch someone in your family live several episodes of Jerry springer and see if you are able to remain non judgemental |
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I am pro-legal abortion. I am pro-choice in cases where there is a medical reason for aborting or involves rape/incest. But I think abortion is morally wrong when used as a form of birth control.
But those are MY moral values and I am not the one having an abortion. |