child assaulted by another student with no history and no provocation

[Anonymous]

Different school district and elementary not middle school but I know of an incident where a kid got angry and slammed another kid's head against the wall several times. When victim's parents weren't satisfied with the school's response the father started going to school with his child everyday to protect him. I believe the outcome was the school moved the offender to a different class and enlisted the help of staff to keep them apart so the victim felt safer. Not sure what other consequences there were for the offender but the victim's parents did not accept what they considered to be inappropriate action or non-action from admin.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have NO idea what happened, OP. Stop speculating based on what the boy's mom is telling you. There are always many sides to the story.

I am not asking for your advice on what I should be doing. I am asking what can parents do in a given scenario.

Nothing really, the other student (and their parents) will say it was an accident.

What do you think sends kids to the alternative schools in fcps?
Weapons, drugs, and assault. So yeah, something can be done.

Op says it was a joke. Sounds like boys jostling and one is probably bigger than the other. Little guy pushes big guy, big guy pushes back little guy goes flying and bumps his head. Oops it happens. Little guy got an unintentional clock cleaning and leans not to play fight with his big friend.

Call the police what for? What sounds like an accident. Not bullying, no malice.

[Anonymous]

Lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The child’s trauma is deeper than anyone realizes.

Agreed. And many people don’t realize that “concussion” is actually a traumatic brain injury.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The child’s trauma is deeper than anyone realizes.

Agreed. And many people don’t realize that “concussion” is actually a traumatic brain injury.

Well I think the trauma would be worse if the kid knew he landed the other kid in jail which is what seems to be proposed here as a viable
Solution. Police handling school discipline issues is not a great idea. They do not understand developmentally where kids are, they have the ability to tase and use excessive force all the time. The people who are crying call the police want drama and are acting out of emotion rather than thinking through the actual situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have NO idea what happened, OP. Stop speculating based on what the boy's mom is telling you. There are always many sides to the story.

I am not asking for your advice on what I should be doing. I am asking what can parents do in a given scenario.

Nothing really, the other student (and their parents) will say it was an accident.

What do you think sends kids to the alternative schools in fcps?
Weapons, drugs, and assault. So yeah, something can be done.

Op says it was a joke. Sounds like boys jostling and one is probably bigger than the other. Little guy pushes big guy, big guy pushes back little guy goes flying and bumps his head. Oops it happens. Little guy got an unintentional clock cleaning and leans not to play fight with his big friend.

Call the police what for? What sounds like an accident. Not bullying, no malice.

No. She said the kid SAID it was a joke. Kids lie to avoid trouble.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The child’s trauma is deeper than anyone realizes.

Agreed. And many people don’t realize that “concussion” is actually a traumatic brain injury.

Well I think the trauma would be worse if the kid knew he landed the other kid in jail which is what seems to be proposed here as a viable
Solution. Police handling school discipline issues is not a great idea. They do not understand developmentally where kids are, they have the ability to tase and use excessive force all the time. The people who are crying call the police want drama and are acting out of emotion rather than thinking through the actual situation.

No. The police wouldn’t be necessary if the school would take swift action and suspend the violent kid. They won’t, so police it is. And yes, before you bother, pushing a kid from behind hard enough for them to fall and get a concussion IS violence. Stop making excuses. It’s not a good look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The child’s trauma is deeper than anyone realizes.

Agreed. And many people don’t realize that “concussion” is actually a traumatic brain injury.

Well I think the trauma would be worse if the kid knew he landed the other kid in jail which is what seems to be proposed here as a viable
Solution. Police handling school discipline issues is not a great idea. They do not understand developmentally where kids are, they have the ability to tase and use excessive force all the time. The people who are crying call the police want drama and are acting out of emotion rather than thinking through the actual situation.

No. The police wouldn’t be necessary if the school would take swift action and suspend the violent kid. They won’t, so police it is. And yes, before you bother, pushing a kid from behind hard enough for them to fall and get a concussion IS violence. Stop making excuses. It’s not a good look.

“In jail?” Are you 12?

[Anonymous]

Say this happened to you as you were walking down the street minding your own business.

Police would definitely be called and there would he an assault charge.

Same should happen here. Only the punishment is milder because of the age of perpetrator.

[Anonymous]

Queue FCPS talking about the so-called problem of "disparate discipline" because of the uncomfortable fact that certain groups of students seem to commit a wildly disproportionate amount of the misbehavior ...

You get the school district you vote for, folks. sToP tRuMP gO bLuE!!1