| Also, please don’t make proclamations about what I need to do to achieve “spiritual growth.” You don’t know me at all. |
You are kidding, right? Maybe not sinful, but Judaism absolutely sees women's bodies, sexuality, and fertility as something to be controlled and managed. https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/modesty-and-sexuality-in-halakhic-literature Though it is not mentioned in the Bible, the laws of modesty in Jewish life have developed into a significant part of modern halakhic practice. Along with a set of rules for men’s behavior, the rules of modesty are designed to restrain men’s sexual urges, even as the obligations largely fall onto women. These rules are meant to ensure that sex occurs in a way the rabbis view as appropriate. In addition to these rules, the rabbis also regulate sex itself, giving men an obligation to have sex. However, opinions differ across different Jewish movements as to whether that sexuality is to be enjoyed or is merely an obligation to be performed. Modesty remains an important topic in Israeli debates about women’s role in society. See also https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/judaism-and-sexuality/ |
Those laws around modesty are only followed by Orthodox Jews. As I have said earlier, I meant to refer only to non-Orthodox Jews. I should have been more specific. |
I asked did your soul tell u that? You have not answered because the answer is no. You don’t like to hear things that don’t go the way you are trying to control them to go. Does trying to control others and the conversations you have with them weave throughout your whole life? (Ego) And how is that working for you |
I posited a statement that is the logical extension of what you wrote. You refuse to engage and are instead going on about soul and ego in an extremely pejorative way. I don’t need to tell you a thing about what my soul says and it’s offensive that you think you know what is happening within my soul, my ego, or anything else. |
So what? Lots of people have lots of regrets in life. That's not a reason to make decisions illegal, or harmful, or life threatening. |
"Duped" does not completely explain it. They are taught (brainwashed) as small children into the rules of Catholicism. It's usually as adults that some catholics realize that they can live a good life without the rules and without fearing hell. Others never buy the rules of the church or the teachings of Jesus, as laid out in the Bible, even as children. But those people are rare. |
Your “statement” is as logical as “what if pigs fly”. You can’t posit something that is impossible. I think you need to go back to catholic 101. You didn’t even know the pope is not infallible nor is Vatican 2. It’s hard to explain graduate level Catholicism when you don’t have the basic 101 information. Best of luck with your spiritual growth. |
I am not very religious but I was raised by an extremely doctrinaire Catholic. The answer is: orthodox Catholics see fertility as a sort of religious sacrament and ritual. the Catholic doctrines on birth control and abortion are based on a notion of life as holy and the moment of conception as a way to see God. This carries over to the entire pregnancy. Conception, pregnancy and birth are worshipped in the story of Mary and the nativity. Fertility is a way to *see God manifest is humans* which is why more effective methods of birth control that use devices and medications are forbidden but the rythym method is OK because it physically “leaves room for God” because the sperm and egg are where they are supposed to be. NONE of this has anything to do with the actual woman or the actual fetus. It’s a religious rite. |
Not all Catholic communities teach dogma as the rule of law. Many teach it as a guide to a better you. Parables vs true stories It seems the most vocal and insane are the ones that get all the attention though. |
Yes, you are right. To Catholics, the suffering for life is exactly what makes it holy. It’s actually a better and more potent religious ritual if the woman suffers. Just like the saints are martyrs. |
Modern day human sacrifices. |
How is my statement impossible? |
what if my soul tells me that women should be able to control their own bodies? |
| Also, please stop talking about my spiritual growth. As I said earlier, it’s extremely condescending. |