Middle aged dating is trash!

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Dating 4-5 years younger is not noticeable. No one is talking 10-year swings. We look the same age.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Men age so much worse than women I am not sure how you could know. Men won’t even use a mild retinol or some rogaine.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

I go out with younger dates all the time. You don’t notice for a few reasons:

1. Read the comments. We are talking about women 40-55 dating men late 20s to 35. That is just normal “age appropriate” dating for men. Middle aged women might date younger men, but those younger men are almost never in the 18-25 age range. Middle aged men who date younger women don’t hesitate to go under 25. You also don’t tend to see women in their sixties dating at all, while a man that age will still be chasing tail. We’re not talking about equivalent age gaps.

2. Bearing that in mind, a typical forty five year old woman is doing a lot to look good, from working out to maintaining a good skincare regimen to various non surgical or even surgical beauty procedures. A forty five year old woman dating a 30 year old is putting in at least as much effort. Forty five year old men do nothing to enhance their appearance.

2. Middle aged women dating younger men are just enjoying their company. They don’t parade them around for attention or to make themselves look desirable.

So yeah, you’re not going to notice a well kept 45 year old woman out enjoying dinner with her 28 year old date who put on a clean shirt. You will notice a 55 year old man with a beer belly trying to draw attention to the fact that he’s out with a 22 year old who probably spent an hour getting ready.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, what did you expect?? These single old guys have been thrown back by their wives not because they have redeeming qualities. They are defective. Stay single, join a book club, get a toy for a boyfriend.

So divorced middle age women are damaged and defective too, right?

Yes, of course, many of them are. Women are more likely to initiate divorce though, which leads to there being more undesirable men on the middle aged market.

The divorces are initiated by women who wildly overestimate their value on the dating market. Thus there are at least as many undesirable middle aged women out there, if not more.

Women don't initiate divorces because they think they'll do better. They do it because they would rather be single than stay with their ex.

Of course they think they’ll do better. They have such total contempt for their STBXH that they think they can easily do better than him.

This question comes up on DCUM all the time - “thinking about getting divorced, what is the dating market like?” - and other women always chime in with how they’re having lots of great sex with their terrific new boyfriends.

And men remarry because they always thing it’s the ExW fault the marriage fell apart, sex sucked etc. They repeat the same pattern of behavior in a new marriage. The only reason why it would work sometimes is a new wife too dependent on his $, or has to tolerate an old jerk for the kids, or the old jerk is too old to cheat/seek next victim and got fed up himself

And yet every single on one my male friends who divorced in their late 40s or early 50s married a prettier, nicer, younger woman and all those friends are very happy with their second marriages!

Wait till 15 year mark in those marriages. Don’t say “hop” before you jump over the cliff.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

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I’m 40 and the guy I’m dating is 30. I’m not sure if it’s super noticeable. In part because I take very good care of myself. I’m more attractive than all
Of the younger women he’s dated that he’s shown me pictures of. I stay fit, dress well, and take care of my skin. I’m also happy
And carefree which adds youth.

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45. Thin. Lift weights. 5 percent salary but not 1 percent. Zero balding.

So easy to sleep with Georgetown and GW women from the apps.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

This setup makes a lot of sense to me. A middle aged woman wants something light and fun as she isn’t looking for something serious. The guy also wants this and a lot of the women his age are interested in marriage and kids. It’s a win win

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m just here to vent. Newly divorced and I don’t know what’s worst my Helier marriage or what the dating scene has morphed into since I was last on the market. It seems in middle age there are so many left over duds one has to sift through, and it’s exhausting. As soon as I think it’s going somewhere with someone….bam….their horrible characteristic shows itself and I’m made keenly aware why they are single at 50. My latest shit show was a man a man who shared he believes once a girl has her period she is old enough to consent to sex with a grown man, because God gave her a period for a reason. How very awesome and classy.

Men are on a message board somewhere saying the same about you.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

That younger tighter prettier would be interested in marriage and making babies which men don't necessarily want/need. Plus, who told they were "prettier and tighter", even though younger?

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Men age so much worse than women I am not sure how you could know. Men won’t even use a mild retinol or some rogaine.

LOL no women do not age better than men, the women my age on the apps are fat wrinkled bags of suet.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Men age so much worse than women I am not sure how you could know. Men won’t even use a mild retinol or some rogaine.

LOL no women do not age better than men, the women my age on the apps are fat wrinkled bags of suet.

Some of them are 10 pounds of potatoes stuffed into 5 pound bags. Others are just dumpster fires. Mid-50s male.