Middle aged dating is trash!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, what did you expect?? These single old guys have been thrown back by their wives not because they have redeeming qualities. They are defective. Stay single, join a book club, get a toy for a boyfriend.

So divorced middle age women are damaged and defective too, right?

Yes, of course, many of them are. Women are more likely to initiate divorce though, which leads to there being more undesirable men on the middle aged market.

The divorces are initiated by women who wildly overestimate their value on the dating market. Thus there are at least as many undesirable middle aged women out there, if not more.

Many had affairs and think they are much more desirable than they are on the free market. Getting a high value single guy is a lot different than getting a married guy to bang you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, what did you expect?? These single old guys have been thrown back by their wives not because they have redeeming qualities. They are defective. Stay single, join a book club, get a toy for a boyfriend.

So divorced middle age women are damaged and defective too, right?

Yes, of course, many of them are. Women are more likely to initiate divorce though, which leads to there being more undesirable men on the middle aged market.

The divorces are initiated by women who wildly overestimate their value on the dating market. Thus there are at least as many undesirable middle aged women out there, if not more.

If they are so "high-value" other than being a widow, why are they single?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unless these old men are widows, they are damaged goods that some other women got rid of.

x1000000

And now you get to be a stepmom - a mom to kids you don't even know, and don't even want you. Congratulations?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, what did you expect?? These single old guys have been thrown back by their wives not because they have redeeming qualities. They are defective. Stay single, join a book club, get a toy for a boyfriend.

So divorced middle age women are damaged and defective too, right?

Yes, of course, many of them are. Women are more likely to initiate divorce though, which leads to there being more undesirable men on the middle aged market.

The divorces are initiated by women who wildly overestimate their value on the dating market. Thus there are at least as many undesirable middle aged women out there, if not more.

+1

[Anonymous]

They are all damaged goods, you included. It's your job to sift through the pool to find the less damaged one.

[Anonymous]

After a while, everyone has baggage. People are set in their ways and unwilling to do all the hard work of adapting to a new person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are scaring us that are thinking about ending our marriages.

Hahaha, totally.

But I am a decent guy and make a lot of money so perhaps I will be ok relative to the trash

[Anonymous]

Tall, in shape, mid-50s male. Mid-six figures income.

I did well in the dating pool after divorce. Now settled down with a smart, pretty, athletic woman who is my age.

If you bring something to the table, whether intelligence, looks, financial stability, or a combination, you’ll be fine. If you are still bitter about your divorce, you won’t be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m just here to vent. Newly divorced and I don’t know what’s worst my Helier marriage or what the dating scene has morphed into since I was last on the market. It seems in middle age there are so many left over duds one has to sift through, and it’s exhausting. As soon as I think it’s going somewhere with someone….bam….their horrible characteristic shows itself and I’m made keenly aware why they are single at 50. My latest shit show was a man a man who shared he believes once a girl has her period she is old enough to consent to sex with a grown man, because God gave her a period for a reason. How very awesome and classy.

Sucks to be you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m just here to vent. Newly divorced and I don’t know what’s worst my Helier marriage or what the dating scene has morphed into since I was last on the market. It seems in middle age there are so many left over duds one has to sift through, and it’s exhausting. As soon as I think it’s going somewhere with someone….bam….their horrible characteristic shows itself and I’m made keenly aware why they are single at 50. My latest shit show was a man a man who shared he believes once a girl has her period she is old enough to consent to sex with a grown man, because God gave her a period for a reason. How very awesome and classy.

Wow. Just wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's worked great for me, but I don't date middle aged women.

Who do you date?

[Anonymous]

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Who do you date?

Probably younger than middle aged women

[Anonymous]

It’s a numbers game. And it’s also all about the timing. The dating pool today isn’t going to be the same as in two months from now as people couple up and break up. You’ll learn how to weed out the broken ones. It takes a little practice and a little time. There really are some great single people out there, you just need to sift through to find the one for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tall, in shape, mid-50s male. Mid-six figures income.

I did well in the dating pool after divorce. Now settled down with a smart, pretty, athletic woman who is my age.

If you bring something to the table, whether intelligence, looks, financial stability, or a combination, you’ll be fine. If you are still bitter about your divorce, you won’t be.

This just in: If you are wealthy athletic and intelligent the world is a wonderful place! And it is all due to the magic of not being bitter bootstraps bob.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well, what did you expect?? These single old guys have been thrown back by their wives not because they have redeeming qualities. They are defective. Stay single, join a book club, get a toy for a boyfriend.

So divorced middle age women are damaged and defective too, right?

Yes, of course, many of them are. Women are more likely to initiate divorce though, which leads to there being more undesirable men on the middle aged market.

Men don’t initiate as much because they don’t want to give up everything they’ve worked for over the years to an insufferable undeserving woman.