Middle aged dating is trash!

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Anonymous wrote:When I started dating after my divorce I quickly realized that guys my age wanted to date younger even though I was attractive, fit etc. I had no problem attracting guys 10-15 years older but that was too much for me. So I went younger! My BF is 8 years younger than me but I think most people would guess that we are about the same age. Seeing a 50 year old guy with a 30 year old is creepy, just ego building arm candy.

No one thinks you are the same age.

I know you want to believe all divorced women look trashy. But I have 2 female friends: one of them is in LTR with a man 5 years younger. The second one married a guy who's 14 years younger. You know what? Spouses tend to look same age over time. I wouldn't have told that the 41 y.o. husband is that much younger than his 55 y.o. wife. He looks like a 47 y.o. to me. I was shocked to find out he's that much younger!

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I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

Of course you are better in bed than when you were younger. You are like the old pony at the county fair. Having provided thousands of rides to whoever jumped into your saddle, you are sure footed when traveling the path you have trodded along so many times before.

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I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

Of course you are better in bed than when you were younger. You are like the old pony at the county fair. Having provided thousands of rides to whoever jumped into your saddle, you are sure footed when traveling the path you have trodded along so many times before.

No. Sex is best when you are young. As your body ages sex just is not the same.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

LMAO no you were NOT prettier at 42 than you were at 22. Sorry. It’s all downhill for all women after their early 20s, that’s inescapable biological fact.

it always amazed me how readily men pay for sex. Isn't it offensive and damaging to your own esteem to know that your 22 y.o. girlfriend is basically an expensive paid hooker? You wake up and look in the mirror and then jump into bed: do you really think she's enjoying your smelly breath and the scent of a 55 y.o. man's body? Men after 50 do have a different smell, somewhat sour.

One way or another, every man always pays for sex. Men who are "dating" and not "paying for escorts" - go ahead and track what you spend on dates and divide that by the number of sex acts and you will find the "cost per act" is comparable if not more than the cost for an escort. So, you could say, if you're gonna pay for sex anyway, you might as well pay for it with a young and pretty woman.

But that aside, as an older man who dates 20-something women, I can assure you that the men who are able to do that are not nasty and smelly. You have to be very sexworthy to date much younger women. She is not going to have sex with some smelly flabby dad-bod dude, because she doesn't have to. She's not even going to be around an older guy she doesn't enjoy being around, because, again, she doesn't have to. Women in their 20s have essentially unlimited sexual options. Duh. Therefore, having sex with 20-somethings does not damage my self esteem, it increases it, because it confirms that I am good enough to pull a much younger woman.

Cope and seethe all you like about how she "just wants your money" - the fact is, there are young women who actively prefer older men, though they tend to keep that secret because many other women try to shame them for it.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

LMAO no you were NOT prettier at 42 than you were at 22. Sorry. It’s all downhill for all women after their early 20s, that’s inescapable biological fact.

it always amazed me how readily men pay for sex. Isn't it offensive and damaging to your own esteem to know that your 22 y.o. girlfriend is basically an expensive paid hooker? You wake up and look in the mirror and then jump into bed: do you really think she's enjoying your smelly breath and the scent of a 55 y.o. man's body? Men after 50 do have a different smell, somewhat sour.

One way or another, every man always pays for sex. Men who are "dating" and not "paying for escorts" - go ahead and track what you spend on dates and divide that by the number of sex acts and you will find the "cost per act" is comparable if not more than the cost for an escort. So, you could say, if you're gonna pay for sex anyway, you might as well pay for it with a young and pretty woman.

But that aside, as an older man who dates 20-something women, I can assure you that the men who are able to do that are not nasty and smelly. You have to be very sexworthy to date much younger women. She is not going to have sex with some smelly flabby dad-bod dude, because she doesn't have to. She's not even going to be around an older guy she doesn't enjoy being around, because, again, she doesn't have to. Women in their 20s have essentially unlimited sexual options. Duh. Therefore, having sex with 20-somethings does not damage my self esteem, it increases it, because it confirms that I am good enough to pull a much younger woman.

Cope and seethe all you like about how she "just wants your money" - the fact is, there are young women who actively prefer older men, though they tend to keep that secret because many other women try to shame them for it.

Wishful thinking on your part that 20 y.o. sleeping with you are driven by their desire of a sex with experienced man. There are 35y.. men for that (and I slept with such men in my 20s, which was cool). But a 50+ man is basically a grandfather for 20+ . These are seriously damaged or unpopular with peers girls that sleep with you.

And you are seriously damaged if you think that spending on dates is what you pay for dates. A good looking escort is $5,000 and over per hour. So you are actually "saving" a lot by your logic by dating vs just hired sex.

Anyway, you are one really trashy man upon reading your spreadsheet of dating expenses/sex acts. Hope I never cross my paths with someone like that!

Singed a 40 y.o. divorced woman with 250K income who can pay for her own coffee on dates.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

LMAO no you were NOT prettier at 42 than you were at 22. Sorry. It’s all downhill for all women after their early 20s, that’s inescapable biological fact.

it always amazed me how readily men pay for sex. Isn't it offensive and damaging to your own esteem to know that your 22 y.o. girlfriend is basically an expensive paid hooker? You wake up and look in the mirror and then jump into bed: do you really think she's enjoying your smelly breath and the scent of a 55 y.o. man's body? Men after 50 do have a different smell, somewhat sour.

One way or another, every man always pays for sex. Men who are "dating" and not "paying for escorts" - go ahead and track what you spend on dates and divide that by the number of sex acts and you will find the "cost per act" is comparable if not more than the cost for an escort. So, you could say, if you're gonna pay for sex anyway, you might as well pay for it with a young and pretty woman.

But that aside, as an older man who dates 20-something women, I can assure you that the men who are able to do that are not nasty and smelly. You have to be very sexworthy to date much younger women. She is not going to have sex with some smelly flabby dad-bod dude, because she doesn't have to. She's not even going to be around an older guy she doesn't enjoy being around, because, again, she doesn't have to. Women in their 20s have essentially unlimited sexual options. Duh. Therefore, having sex with 20-somethings does not damage my self esteem, it increases it, because it confirms that I am good enough to pull a much younger woman.

Cope and seethe all you like about how she "just wants your money" - the fact is, there are young women who actively prefer older men, though they tend to keep that secret because many other women try to shame them for it.

Wishful thinking on your part that 20 y.o. sleeping with you are driven by their desire of a sex with experienced man. There are 35y.. men for that (and I slept with such men in my 20s, which was cool). But a 50+ man is basically a grandfather for 20+ . These are seriously damaged or unpopular with peers girls that sleep with you.

And you are seriously damaged if you think that spending on dates is what you pay for dates. A good looking escort is $5,000 and over per hour. So you are actually "saving" a lot by your logic by dating vs just hired sex.

Anyway, you are one really trashy man upon reading your spreadsheet of dating expenses/sex acts. Hope I never cross my paths with someone like that!

Singed a 40 y.o. divorced woman with 250K income who can pay for her own coffee on dates.

Yeah yeah yeah, more coping and seething from bitter old women. "Only damaged young women would sleep with you!" I understand that's what you need to think to mask your raging jealousy of younger women, who are freely making their own choices.

I bet that despite your supposed high income, you still expect men to buy you dinner because reasons.

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

LMAO no you were NOT prettier at 42 than you were at 22. Sorry. It’s all downhill for all women after their early 20s, that’s inescapable biological fact.

it always amazed me how readily men pay for sex. Isn't it offensive and damaging to your own esteem to know that your 22 y.o. girlfriend is basically an expensive paid hooker? You wake up and look in the mirror and then jump into bed: do you really think she's enjoying your smelly breath and the scent of a 55 y.o. man's body? Men after 50 do have a different smell, somewhat sour.

One way or another, every man always pays for sex. Men who are "dating" and not "paying for escorts" - go ahead and track what you spend on dates and divide that by the number of sex acts and you will find the "cost per act" is comparable if not more than the cost for an escort. So, you could say, if you're gonna pay for sex anyway, you might as well pay for it with a young and pretty woman.

But that aside, as an older man who dates 20-something women, I can assure you that the men who are able to do that are not nasty and smelly. You have to be very sexworthy to date much younger women. She is not going to have sex with some smelly flabby dad-bod dude, because she doesn't have to. She's not even going to be around an older guy she doesn't enjoy being around, because, again, she doesn't have to. Women in their 20s have essentially unlimited sexual options. Duh. Therefore, having sex with 20-somethings does not damage my self esteem, it increases it, because it confirms that I am good enough to pull a much younger woman.

Cope and seethe all you like about how she "just wants your money" - the fact is, there are young women who actively prefer older men, though they tend to keep that secret because many other women try to shame them for it.

Wishful thinking on your part that 20 y.o. sleeping with you are driven by their desire of a sex with experienced man. There are 35y.. men for that (and I slept with such men in my 20s, which was cool). But a 50+ man is basically a grandfather for 20+ . These are seriously damaged or unpopular with peers girls that sleep with you.

And you are seriously damaged if you think that spending on dates is what you pay for dates. A good looking escort is $5,000 and over per hour. So you are actually "saving" a lot by your logic by dating vs just hired sex.

Anyway, you are one really trashy man upon reading your spreadsheet of dating expenses/sex acts. Hope I never cross my paths with someone like that!

Singed a 40 y.o. divorced woman with 250K income who can pay for her own coffee on dates.

Yeah yeah yeah, more coping and seething from bitter old women. "Only damaged young women would sleep with you!" I understand that's what you need to think to mask your raging jealousy of younger women, who are freely making their own choices.

I bet that despite your supposed high income, you still expect men to buy you dinner because reasons.

You are the epitome why women here write that middle age dating is trashy. Calculating the costs of sex acts depending on your investments in dinners is beyond trashy. Calling a 41 y.o. woman who is probably younger than you "old" is also pretty trashy, sexist and full of your own shit.
I feel sorry for those 20 y.o. students who are probably from some Eastern European countries and are hungry for your dinners in exchange for sex. And remember: 55 y.o. men stink regardless if they took shower or not, particular during sex.

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A LOT of bitterness here.

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Anonymous wrote:A LOT of bitterness here.

The man above is extremely abusive towards women his age, and completely lacks self-awareness

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Anonymous wrote:To all the old ladies dating the young studs, I have a question. Why don't I ever see you together with your boy toy at a restaurant or club, on a hiking or biking trail, on a boat, or at church? Why when I travel to Las Vegas, Miami, Honolulu or Paris do I only see older men with younger women, and not granny with her young Latin penis?

Because I take my kids on my vacations. I’m secure in myself, I don’t need to prove to the world I’m desirable to 20 year olds. Boy toys are just that - toys. Fun to play with, but my kids or my girlfriends are much better company and get all my vacation time.

The men who parade women as young as their daughters around are always neglectful parents who don’t spend any time with their kids because they’re too busy pretending to be a kid. I’m not like them.

And church? Really? How many old farts do you know who are taking 22 year olds to church?

So what's in it for the guys? How much do you have to pay them?

Sex.

But they can have sex with someone who is younger, prettier, and tighter who doesn't have kids at home.

I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

LMAO no you were NOT prettier at 42 than you were at 22. Sorry. It’s all downhill for all women after their early 20s, that’s inescapable biological fact.

it always amazed me how readily men pay for sex. Isn't it offensive and damaging to your own esteem to know that your 22 y.o. girlfriend is basically an expensive paid hooker? You wake up and look in the mirror and then jump into bed: do you really think she's enjoying your smelly breath and the scent of a 55 y.o. man's body? Men after 50 do have a different smell, somewhat sour.

If it flies, f**ks, or floats, it's cheaper to rent.

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Anonymous wrote:A LOT of bitterness here.

The man above is extremely abusive towards women his age, and completely lacks self-awareness

I think abusive is overstating things, but regardless, there’s not really a problem, is there? No one *has* to date anyone they don’t want to date.

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I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

Of course you are better in bed than when you were younger. You are like the old pony at the county fair. Having provided thousands of rides to whoever jumped into your saddle, you are sure footed when traveling the path you have trodded along so many times before.

No. Sex is best when you are young. As your body ages sex just is not the same.

How old are you? I’m 58 and my sec life hasn’t declined

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Anonymous wrote:A LOT of bitterness here.

The man above is extremely abusive towards women his age, and completely lacks self-awareness

I think abusive is overstating things, but regardless, there’s not really a problem, is there? No one *has* to date anyone they don’t want to date.

I didn’t offer him to date him (god keep me away from these types!). It’s his general views that are highly disrespectful of women. I literally wasn’t born yet when the guy was a 15 yo teenager and he’s calling me “old”! Plus he thinks his sexual abilities are reaffirmed by him sleeping with poor 20 yo girls who would put out for a dinner. It’s cheaper he says than paying for escorts. Stinks human trafficking and even well hidden pedophilia (is he picking 20 year olds who look like teens ??)
It reminds me one guy whom I met at my 22. He was 24 and told me he was only dating “below 18” and that I was “too old”for him . LOL

Just extremes all over !

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Anonymous wrote:A LOT of bitterness here.

The man above is extremely abusive towards women his age, and completely lacks self-awareness

PP. I am a 54 y.o. woman.

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I don't have kids. I hit my pretty peak at 42, I'm a personal trainer, and I'm definitely way better in bed than I was in my twenties and early thirties.

Of course you are better in bed than when you were younger. You are like the old pony at the county fair. Having provided thousands of rides to whoever jumped into your saddle, you are sure footed when traveling the path you have trodded along so many times before.

No. Sex is best when you are young. As your body ages sex just is not the same.

How old are you? I’m 58 and my sec life hasn’t declined

Same. 59, divorced, and a better sex life than during 25 years of marriage.