Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

What a strange outlook

[Anonymous]

No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

[Anonymous]

No way

[Anonymous]

No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

Yikes. Just yikes.

[Anonymous]

So I'm sure you guys are just fine with the neckbeards and religious freaks who say they will only date virgins....right? Because hey they just have a preference, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I'm sure you guys are just fine with the neckbeards and religious freaks who say they will only date virgins....right? Because hey they just have a preference, right?

Can't speak for others, but yes, I am fine with that. I am fine with everyone dating only people they find attractive, for whatever reasons may be personal to them.

If I were in the dating market I would not date a bi man. I would not date a fat man or a man shorter than a certain height, or a man with children, or a who's not the same religion as me, or a man who is a vegetarian or a man who wants to spend every vacation fishing, or a man who likes certain activities in bed that I do not, or men who shave their heads or or or - all sorts of other criteria some of which are more reasonable than others but are all my personal preferences that I and every other person should be allowed to have while dating. What, we should have political reeducation now for who we want to romantically and sexually be with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

you sound like fun.

[Anonymous]

A gay man once told me that bi men are short for “Bi-y the way, I’m gay“. They just take the long route to eventually get to the same place.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.