
I don't know that the persona on evermore is supposed to be a teenager, but I did find her to be... boring. Like Taylor Swift if she hadn't made it big so early, basically. I get SO BORED of the songs about the hometown loves and all the descriptions of people breaking up. For real, how many breakup songs has Taylor Swift written. I have been through several terrible breakups and I get the appeal of the breakup song and can even relate to some of hers. But it's the same song over and over with slightly different lyrics and a slightly different tune. It's always some faceless dude who doesn't quite get her and she's not perfect, okay? no one is. And then it's like a list of little details from earlier in their relationship when it was good times but, ho ho ho, here are some details from their breakup and they're similar in a sad way. How many times does Swift have to write this? You know how there are people who will relate absolutely everything back to Harry Potter books, and people get annoyed and eventually it's like, READ ANOTHER BOOK. That's how I feel about Taylor Swift. I want to read another book. I'm tired of this one. |
I do think there is a racial element at work here and a desire to cancel without any fuel for their fire. People fall just short of calling her racist based on her conventional blonde prettiness. The fact that she isn’t vulgar is evidently infuriating because it quietly indicts artists whose entire catalogue and presentation is based on sexual provocation. |
^are based. |
Ok cool and I was pointing out the opposing criticisms. Also wondering about thoughts on the other songs I named. |
I don’t know them that well but they all Seem similarly themed- the writer/speaker is in love or breaking up and has a lot of money. Even if it isn’t Taylor herself the songs are written about the same topic from The same lens: the speaker in the song fell love and then breaks up- no social Commentary, and very heavy in concrete imagery, little to no looking into why or what contributed to the break up or how to work through it. Just “woe is me I miss you.” As an example Maggie rogers, Alaska is a break up song but “cut my hair so I could rock back and forth without thinking of you.” Is a much more mentally healthy and relatable way to describe getting over feelings after a break up. She is clearly processing and moving on and many can relate to getting over someone in this way. “But if I just showed up at your party would you have me?” That is not healthy it is stalker like AND shows zero processing of any feelings just the heart ache from the speaker: even if the speaker isn’t Taylor it is from the perspective of the speaker in the song. You just continually see this one perspective and one dimension in her songs. You are given the setting, the main character and the problem will always be love or money. Done- you aren’t imagining or thinking about what she meant. Speak now: jealous lover insults rival and her family to win back her man on her rivals wedding day (why is it good for young girls to hear this song?) Champaign problems: rich lady breaks heart The American dynasty: rich lady parities a lot because she has money (didn’t Taylor Buy this house or one next to the Kennedy’s or something ?) Cardigan- didn’t know this was a song but I can see this worked well for her cardigan sales. I’m not saying she isn’t a marketing genius. Cardigan is a better choice than Britney’s catholic school girl skirt. Betty: break up as a teenage love experience (either from lesbian or teenage boy perspective) |
Isn’t this kind of like 40yos saying “we just don’t get and don’t like the Beatles” when they were huge?
She’s not trying to speak to us. She’s not trying to capture the essence of what we are experiencing. Middle aged soccer moms playing 90s rap in their suvs in the pickup like are a great target market for home goods and cleaning products, but we aren’t exactly the target demographic for pop culture |
I don’t understand this criticism. I just read and watched the show lessons in chemistry which I really enjoyed. I’m pretty sure the author of that book was never a chemist in the 1950s struggling with sexism in the sciences and then getting a cooking show. But she told the story beautifully and captured some archetypal type themes which I, also not a which I, also not a woman in the 1950s, or in the hard sciences, could relate to beautifully. Which I think is what Taylor does so well. |
I get that but then I also see my boss (a 45+ woman) go crazy over her and get puzzled again. Even in my teenage years I was drawn to artists who sang about how to overcome (not just wallow in) heartbreak and social justice themes. I see it more as she is like an instagram of pop music: she describes one scene/picture jn high detail in each song. So she is a social product of her times that I’m not appreciating. I like more nuance, the ability to imagine different scenarios and think about the larger social and personal implications of the song. That isn’t anything Taylor is offering. I’m sure this could be generational or the fact that I am a first gen white American so I relate differently to American culture in general. Either way, I find her a bit mind numbing and not intriguing. I do find the phenomenon around her very intriguing. |
You are in a way right- I’m posting on the thread but not the poster you are responding to. I just hate Taylor’s themes. “Look What you made me do” is awful to me because we are always responsible for our own behavior Getting revenge on a lover is not ok Stalking a lover is not ok End game is equating a person to figure in a chess board and not the way I would want to choose my life partner nor would I want to be chosen that way Romeo and Juliet died Even her gay pride video all the people are beautiful are “good” o disagree with that as a strategy. I think she has vengeful and hurtful themes to her music. Thanks for helping me see that! |
I don't Taylor's music. It's not for me but it's catchy and i see why lots of people like it. I can't STAND the PR circus she creates around relationship. It's downright ridiculous. |
If you want to criticize TS or anyone, how about not doing it in such a provoking way like this title? Come on. People have a right to their opinions and to not enjoy or be a fan of someone's music/art, but the thing that is so weird about TS is the need to convince others they are WRONG to like her - her lyrics are wrong and if you can relate to them you are wrong and confused and if you find her songs catchy sorry you WRONG. And if you think she is a good marketer or businesswoman you are WRONG. How about just not being a fan? I get that there are a group of rabid Swifties who descend on anyone who posts anything the least bit critical and I'd argue the same point to them - it definitely works both ways, but this wording and some of the arguments against her are just weird. Most people don't like to be told there is a lone poster who is sooo much smarter than us and we will eventually see the light. It's just a bizarre argument. |
Some of this is just being cheeky. Have you actually listened to Look What You Made Me Do or watch her perform? You are taking it really literally. We all have vengeful and negative qualities to us. We all are jealous of people we love and even if we are rooting for them, might have uncomfortable feelings at some point in our life. We struggle with parenting even though most of us would give our lives for our children without a second thought. We think bad thoughts about our spouses at times when they annoy us or piss us off, even though we love them and are in committed marriages. This is just life, the good and the bad, and the simplicity and the complexity of being human. |
It's one thing to just think or sing about it but she's taken it to real life. Look how she's treated Joe. |
DP. I agree that we all have negative emotions or qualities at times, and that exploring that is a ripe subject for art. I actually think Antihero is a great example of this and so relatable specifically because Swift is being so honest about the negative aspects of her own relationships and behaviors. I think we've all felt that way at times, and that song is cathartic because it rings so true. But I actually do think PP has a point about some of the vengeful and hurtful themes in some of Swift's other music. Maybe not Look What You Made Me Do, which I agree is ironic, but Bad Blood and End Game are good examples. Sometimes she's tongue-in-cheek about it, but she's writing about these themes so often. I think one reason it can annoy, and this might not be fair, is that people (correctly) perceive Swift as a very privileged person and there is only so much complaining about "being wronged" that people will take from someone that privileged. Like people embraced Beyonce's Lemonade revenge album because it was her breaking from a lifelong persona as someone who is in charge and doesn't get taken advantage of. Especially coming after some public reports of Jay's infidelity and the elevator video, I think it made people embrace her vulnerability. But it's the only time she's done that. Most of her music is about feeling powerful and confident and in charge, and a longtime spouse cheating feels like a justifiable reason to drop that and just feel hurt or vengeful. But Taylor goes to this well over and over, and she's writing about relationships of just months or a few years, no marriage or kids, or sometimes friendships gone bad. While of course everyone feels hurt and vengeful about romantic and friend breakups sometimes, someone who complains about this stuff a lot starts to sound like they are just blaming others for their problems and failing to do the work on themselves to avoid all this conflict. |