How many people are actually having affairs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.

Same goes with men, btw. My husband’s best friend from college was always cheating on his wife. He’s a masochist and he hated if any of his friends were in a happy marriage. He would encourage them to cheat.

Like hangs around like.

My your own rational your DH is always cheating on you. Since his his Best Friend does.

[Anonymous]

^Well on someone else since we are divorced now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A red head in North Bethesda has many of them.

Ashley Madison queen. Did she f@ck your husband too ? She’s had at least 3.

Eh, I don't find it funny. I find it sad. Most serial cheating women were sexually abused as kids.

Oh come on. Given the number of women that cheat- so not true.

But, carrot top, I love all of your excuses and justifications. Trying every angle out there... Did your husband buy that excuse?

North Bethesda? You mean “Rockville”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Like people are going to tell you. Yes, people (pre-COVID lockdowns) were having affairs.

Some still are!!! Meeting in hotels mid-day when out running “errands” !!!

At my age, I'd rather have those hours be client-billable. No thanks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Probably half the guys I work with (I work in finance). Everyone in the office knows about them. Most of them travel a lot (not now obviously) so there is a lot of opportunity. They also have a lot of dinners and events so late night opportunities. It amazes me that their wives don’t know but perhaps they put up with it because their husbands earn a lot of money.

The strangest ones are the affairs that have been going on for over 10 years and the wife still doesn’t seem to care. One guy spends a lot of time at his second home with the lawyer girlfriend. Not sure what the wife does when he is with the girlfriend.

My job has left me very suspicious of high income earning men with SAHM wives. It also surprises me how vicious some people get against women having affairs when it seems so prevalent

Just curious: what have you seen for those men with working spouse? Any difference in cheating rates? Also, when you say you work in finance, does this mean finance people in large Corp. or something else?

It isn’t the SAHMs that are home with young toddlers. More the wives that are in their 50s and still not working. The ones with wives that have equivalent careers are more proud and respectful of their partners. If they are doing anything with anyone else, they are hiding it.

I also find it really distasteful when everyone knows the guy is having an affair and then he posts on Instagram photos of himself with his wife and how in love they are. I understand people have affairs but it just seems so strange to do that

I work in investment banking.

[Anonymous]

And to the person saying I am a jealous single woman working in finance. Literally everyone knows about these affairs. This is why I cannot understand how their wives don’t know. I figure they just choose the lifestyle. If my DH is having an affair he is keeping it very secretive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And to the person saying I am a jealous single woman working in finance. Literally everyone knows about these affairs. This is why I cannot understand how their wives don’t know. I figure they just choose the lifestyle. If my DH is having an affair he is keeping it very secretive.

How old are you? And your position at the company? And your income and your DH's income. I have my own guesses. I want to see if I am right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably half the guys I work with (I work in finance). Everyone in the office knows about them. Most of them travel a lot (not now obviously) so there is a lot of opportunity. They also have a lot of dinners and events so late night opportunities. It amazes me that their wives don’t know but perhaps they put up with it because their husbands earn a lot of money.

The strangest ones are the affairs that have been going on for over 10 years and the wife still doesn’t seem to care. One guy spends a lot of time at his second home with the lawyer girlfriend. Not sure what the wife does when he is with the girlfriend.

My job has left me very suspicious of high income earning men with SAHM wives. It also surprises me how vicious some people get against women having affairs when it seems so prevalent

Just curious: what have you seen for those men with working spouse? Any difference in cheating rates? Also, when you say you work in finance, does this mean finance people in large Corp. or something else?

It isn’t the SAHMs that are home with young toddlers. More the wives that are in their 50s and still not working. The ones with wives that have equivalent careers are more proud and respectful of their partners. If they are doing anything with anyone else, they are hiding it.

I also find it really distasteful when everyone knows the guy is having an affair and then he posts on Instagram photos of himself with his wife and how in love they are. I understand people have affairs but it just seems so strange to do that

I work in investment banking.

Yep. That’s the Ashley Madison whore demographic. Lazy 45-50+-year olds that never worked once they had kids. Their kids are teens and/or headed to college.

I will never understand the allure of a peri-menopause or menopausal loser, but when they give away sex for free...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And to the person saying I am a jealous single woman working in finance. Literally everyone knows about these affairs. This is why I cannot understand how their wives don’t know. I figure they just choose the lifestyle. If my DH is having an affair he is keeping it very secretive.

How old are you? And your position at the company? And your income and your DH's income. I have my own guesses. I want to see if I am right.

Not the poster above but similar observations. I have observed these affairs (and dodges passes) for the 15 years I have been there from very junior level to fairly high level. My income varies but it’s mid six figures plus and my DH makes usually 2-3x what I make.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably half the guys I work with (I work in finance). Everyone in the office knows about them. Most of them travel a lot (not now obviously) so there is a lot of opportunity. They also have a lot of dinners and events so late night opportunities. It amazes me that their wives don’t know but perhaps they put up with it because their husbands earn a lot of money.

The strangest ones are the affairs that have been going on for over 10 years and the wife still doesn’t seem to care. One guy spends a lot of time at his second home with the lawyer girlfriend. Not sure what the wife does when he is with the girlfriend.

My job has left me very suspicious of high income earning men with SAHM wives. It also surprises me how vicious some people get against women having affairs when it seems so prevalent

Just curious: what have you seen for those men with working spouse? Any difference in cheating rates? Also, when you say you work in finance, does this mean finance people in large Corp. or something else?

It isn’t the SAHMs that are home with young toddlers. More the wives that are in their 50s and still not working. The ones with wives that have equivalent careers are more proud and respectful of their partners. If they are doing anything with anyone else, they are hiding it.

I also find it really distasteful when everyone knows the guy is having an affair and then he posts on Instagram photos of himself with his wife and how in love they are. I understand people have affairs but it just seems so strange to do that

I work in investment banking.

Yep. That’s the Ashley Madison whore demographic. Lazy 45-50+-year olds that never worked once they had kids. Their kids are teens and/or headed to college.

I will never understand the allure of a peri-menopause or menopausal loser, but when they give away sex for free...

Old sluts are desperate. They don’t expect any $ or gifts. Just show up when my husband and kids leave for school/work and bang me because my husband does not want to. He’s had to support my lazy, complaining @ss while I never got a job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably half the guys I work with (I work in finance). Everyone in the office knows about them. Most of them travel a lot (not now obviously) so there is a lot of opportunity. They also have a lot of dinners and events so late night opportunities. It amazes me that their wives don’t know but perhaps they put up with it because their husbands earn a lot of money.

The strangest ones are the affairs that have been going on for over 10 years and the wife still doesn’t seem to care. One guy spends a lot of time at his second home with the lawyer girlfriend. Not sure what the wife does when he is with the girlfriend.

My job has left me very suspicious of high income earning men with SAHM wives. It also surprises me how vicious some people get against women having affairs when it seems so prevalent

This is the key, SAHM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.
Like hangs around like.

What a simplistic way of looking at life.

Simplistic? No.

NP here. It is simplistic and naive, sorry. If you think that every person in a cheater’s circle of friends is aware/approving, and that every person in a non-cheater’s circle is loyal and trustworthy...I have a bridge to sell you.

[Anonymous]

This thread is dominated by the one woman with the ex husband and the cheating redhead from Rockville.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is dominated by the one woman with the ex husband and the cheating redhead from Rockville.

I don’t know who that is, but I really, really want it to be the lady who destroyed all the Christmas inflatables.

[Anonymous]

People have affairs far less than desperate housewives wants you to think. Men cheat a lot less than the media wants you to believe. Out of 30 friends, only one has cheated on their wife in my circle.