How many people are actually having affairs?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.

Same goes with men, btw. My husband’s best friend from college was always cheating on his wife. He’s a masochist and he hated if any of his friends were in a happy marriage. He would encourage them to cheat.

Like hangs around like.


I do agree with this in that we tend to hang out with people who are similar to us and so if we hear often that everyone around me cheats or everyone around me doesn't, it's probably true. There was a pew study that showed that cheating does happen to occur in clusters and so whom you hang out with matters, and that we can't extrapolate our experience to a national statistic.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.

Same goes with men, btw. My husband’s best friend from college was always cheating on his wife. He’s a masochist and he hated if any of his friends were in a happy marriage. He would encourage them to cheat.

Like hangs around like.


+1000000

There is always an exception, but no I don't think most of my friends are having affairs or their husbands.
I also don't buy the whole finance employee thing. I think sometimes single women in those environment kind of blow that up in their heads because they are jealous of the SAHW of the rich partners at the firm and blow that up in their heads to feel superior. I highly doubt almost everyone you know at work is having an affair unless you work in a super sleazy environment. Even if it was happening, YOU wouldn't know about all of them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A red head in North Bethesda has many of them.


Ashley Madison queen. Did she f@ck your husband too ? She’s had at least 3.


Eh, I don't find it funny. I find it sad. Most serial cheating women were sexually abused as kids.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A red head in North Bethesda has many of them.


Ashley Madison queen. Did she f@ck your husband too ? She’s had at least 3.


Eh, I don't find it funny. I find it sad. Most serial cheating women were sexually abused as kids.


Oh come on. Given the number of women that cheat- so not true.

But, carrot top, I love all of your excuses and justifications. Trying every angle out there... Did your husband buy that excuse?
Anonymous
Any woman on Ashley Madison was likely sexually abused too. Woman who are mentally healthy don't go on a site like this, no exceptions.
Anonymous
^ hell no.

They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:^ hell no.

They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair.


Mentally ill, narcissistic, sexually abused- no exceptions. Trust me. EVERY WOMAN ON ASHLEY MADISON IS DEEPLY MENTALLY ILL.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ hell no.

They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair.


Mentally ill, narcissistic, sexually abused- no exceptions. Trust me. EVERY WOMAN ON ASHLEY MADISON IS DEEPLY MENTALLY ILL.


The MEN too. My husband is!! And now has a clinical narcissist official diagnosis.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ hell no.

They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair.


Mentally ill, narcissistic, sexually abused- no exceptions. Trust me. EVERY WOMAN ON ASHLEY MADISON IS DEEPLY MENTALLY ILL.


Come on, only a small percentage sexually abused.

Bad childhood, daddy issues, daddy cheated on mommy, narcissist or borderline parents ok—but not all sexually abused. Be real. Those numbers are low even in general population.
Anonymous
Sometimes a whore is just a whore

No underlying reason.
Anonymous
Like people are going to tell you. Yes, people (pre-COVID lockdowns) were having affairs.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.
Like hangs around like.


What a simplistic way of looking at life.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ hell no.

They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair.


Mentally ill, narcissistic, sexually abused- no exceptions. Trust me. EVERY WOMAN ON ASHLEY MADISON IS DEEPLY MENTALLY ILL.


The MEN too. My husband is!! And now has a clinical narcissist official diagnosis.


++++1

People who cheat are broken and hate themselves. Healthy people with good self esteem don't cheat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.
Like hangs around like.


What a simplistic way of looking at life.



Simplistic? No.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Like people are going to tell you. Yes, people (pre-COVID lockdowns) were having affairs.


Some still are!!! Meeting in hotels mid-day when out running “errands” !!!
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