I do agree with this in that we tend to hang out with people who are similar to us and so if we hear often that everyone around me cheats or everyone around me doesn't, it's probably true. There was a pew study that showed that cheating does happen to occur in clusters and so whom you hang out with matters, and that we can't extrapolate our experience to a national statistic. |
+1000000 There is always an exception, but no I don't think most of my friends are having affairs or their husbands. I also don't buy the whole finance employee thing. I think sometimes single women in those environment kind of blow that up in their heads because they are jealous of the SAHW of the rich partners at the firm and blow that up in their heads to feel superior. I highly doubt almost everyone you know at work is having an affair unless you work in a super sleazy environment. Even if it was happening, YOU wouldn't know about all of them. |
Eh, I don't find it funny. I find it sad. Most serial cheating women were sexually abused as kids. |
Oh come on. Given the number of women that cheat- so not true. But, carrot top, I love all of your excuses and justifications. Trying every angle out there... Did your husband buy that excuse? |
| Any woman on Ashley Madison was likely sexually abused too. Woman who are mentally healthy don't go on a site like this, no exceptions. |
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^ hell no.
They are bored ungrateful housewives looking for an exit affair. |
Mentally ill, narcissistic, sexually abused- no exceptions. Trust me. EVERY WOMAN ON ASHLEY MADISON IS DEEPLY MENTALLY ILL. |
The MEN too. My husband is!! And now has a clinical narcissist official diagnosis. |
Come on, only a small percentage sexually abused. Bad childhood, daddy issues, daddy cheated on mommy, narcissist or borderline parents ok—but not all sexually abused. Be real. Those numbers are low even in general population. |
Sometimes a whore is just a whore
No underlying reason. |
| Like people are going to tell you. Yes, people (pre-COVID lockdowns) were having affairs. |
What a simplistic way of looking at life. |
++++1 People who cheat are broken and hate themselves. Healthy people with good self esteem don't cheat. |
Simplistic? No. |
Some still are!!! Meeting in hotels mid-day when out running “errands” !!! |