How many people are actually having affairs?

[Anonymous]

Me. But i don't know of anybody else (other than my AP) who are having affairs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Me. But i don't know of anybody else (other than my AP) who are having affairs

Although we are on hold right now because of C19.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I admit, I live in a bubble. Give me a rough estimate. How many couples actually have affairs? Husband or wife? Also, and/or in open marriages.

It’s generally not something people talk or brag about!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For me, it depends on how you define affairs. If you define it as emotional relationship with a physical component...nope. I did have a 99% cyber emotional affair with ex-GF. (We did cybersex but the one time we met in person it was not happening. Her MAGA hat took away all desires).

And if you are talking about 100% physical with no emotions, I plead the fifth.

To me, the affair has to have an emotional component. Otherwise it is nothing more than assisted masturbation.

99%? What happened to the other 1%?

[Anonymous]

Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Me. But i don't know of anybody else (other than my AP) who are having affairs

Now would be a good time to just come clean or at least end it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A red head in North Bethesda has many of them.

Ashley Madison queen. Did she f@ck your husband too ? She’s had at least 3.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Me. But i don't know of anybody else (other than my AP) who are having affairs

Now would be a good time to just come clean or at least end it.

I know that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

This.

So why not provide us with percentage from people you know. At least many women on here have said they don't and that's at least real.

[Anonymous]

Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.

Same goes with men, btw. My husband’s best friend from college was always cheating on his wife. He’s a masochist and he hated if any of his friends were in a happy marriage. He would encourage them to cheat.

Like hangs around like.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

This.

So why not provide us with percentage from people you know. At least many women on here have said they don't and that's at least real.

Again, google your heart away and pick the stat that fits your worldview and reinforces what you want to believe. So even if you take the rediculously low number of 25% of people cheating, then if you know 12 people three of them have or will cheat. If you know 12 couples, double that. If you know 12 people, the chance of all of them being faithful is less than 2%

People don't talk about it. And despite the perception these people have horns and evil oozing from their pores, they actually look like you or your spouse

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

This.

So why not provide us with percentage from people you know. At least many women on here have said they don't and that's at least real.

Again, google your heart away and pick the stat that fits your worldview and reinforces what you want to believe. So even if you take the rediculously low number of 25% of people cheating, then if you know 12 people three of them have or will cheat. If you know 12 couples, double that. If you know 12 people, the chance of all of them being faithful is less than 2%

People don't talk about it. And despite the perception these people have horns and evil oozing from their pores, they actually look like you or your spouse

No the evil is just oozing from their p@ssy and d@cks in the form of stds

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Believe me. You know people who are having them, you just don't know they are. I promise.

This.

So why not provide us with percentage from people you know. At least many women on here have said they don't and that's at least real.

Again, google your heart away and pick the stat that fits your worldview and reinforces what you want to believe. So even if you take the rediculously low number of 25% of people cheating, then if you know 12 people three of them have or will cheat. If you know 12 couples, double that. If you know 12 people, the chance of all of them being faithful is less than 2%

People don't talk about it. And despite the perception these people have horns and evil oozing from their pores, they actually look like you or your spouse

It’s like the other op said. It also is a lot if the morals of people you hang out with.

Divorce rate is 50% and nobody on either side of my family—all the way out extended (cousins, uncles, great grandparents, siblings, nephews)—married ages 27-87 have had a divorce. We have a zero divorce rate.

My husband’s side almost every single family member has had at least one divorce.

So it’s also situational and has a lot to do with who you choose to associate with. All of my husband’s frat brother friends have cheated on their wives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look—whores are friends with whores.

I’m not a whore and neither are any of my friends—childhood, college, work friends, etc.

The married woman that f@cked my husband was on her third affair and she talked about the affair with two of her whore best friends. They compare notes. They are all on Ashley Madison.

If one of my friends came to me and told me they were having an affair (I’m 50- hasn’t happened yet). I would tell them to end it immediately, etc. I know all of my friends’ husbands and kids very well. That sh@t is not right.

So - if you are a whore and brag or try to get moral support from your friends and they give it- they are whores too.

Same goes with men, btw. My husband’s best friend from college was always cheating on his wife. He’s a masochist and he hated if any of his friends were in a happy marriage. He would encourage them to cheat.

Like hangs around like.

This.