If you could go back in time what would you tell your younger self about dating/ relationships?

[Anonymous]

Just because you feel physically aroused, that doesn't mean it would be hypocritical not to have sex with that person. Your body isn't some kind of moral authority.

[Anonymous]

When you are in college and your BF is 1000 miles away you are wasting your life away. Have a local boyfriend and have fun.

[Anonymous]

I would tell myself that most guys in college are only interested in two things - getting drunk and getting laid...in the order. You will feel much better about yourself if you become far more discriminating and stay away from the frat boys. Oh, and the guy you married? You should have dated him as soon as you met him rather than waiting three years and dating a couple of losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would tell myself that most guys in college are only interested in two things - getting drunk and getting laid...in the order. You will feel much better about yourself if you become far more discriminating and stay away from the frat boys. Oh, and the guy you married? You should have dated him as soon as you met him rather than waiting three years and dating a couple of losers.

Why is the getting laid and getting drunk thing a revelation?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t let others shame/talk you into dating interacially if it’s not what you want to do.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Don't marry him.

[Anonymous]

Date a lot but don't marry until you're at least 30; you just change too much between 18-30. You might still end up with someone okay but if you get married at 23, understand by 30 you will be very different and that can change the dynamic of your relationship.

If a guy isn't interested, he isn't. No amount of trying to pretend otherwise or games or whatever will make him care. Just accept it and move on.

You will always have a soft spot for your first love. Don't be the person who later ruins it by trying to rekindle that in middle age after marriages and kids and divorces. It won't be the same and it will just make you sad. Don't fall for a fantasy of thinking you will be the young version of you if you're with them again. You won't. You'll still be older you and worse, they are older them. Leave that relationship in the past where it can never be ruined and just be a sweet memory.

[Anonymous]

Marry an orphan.

[Anonymous]

No regrets. I met my wife in college and liked that she was intelligent but not overbearing, family oriented, had a kind heart and wasn't the type to sleep around. We've been through thick and thin together and still going strong.

[Anonymous]

Even if he’s super duper nice, a low drive guy is never not going to be. It gets more difficult over time.

[Anonymous]

Gemini’s are bipolar.

[Anonymous]

Always wear a cap so you don't get the herp.

[Anonymous]

Sleep with every married woman you can. Wait, I still do!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would tell myself that most guys in college are only interested in two things - getting drunk and getting laid...in the order. You will feel much better about yourself if you become far more discriminating and stay away from the frat boys. Oh, and the guy you married? You should have dated him as soon as you met him rather than waiting three years and dating a couple of losers.

Why is the getting laid and getting drunk thing a revelation?

It was to me as a freshmen 30 years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Marry an orphan.

Um yeah no. That didn't work out so well for my friend.