If you could go back in time what would you tell your younger self about dating/ relationships?

[Anonymous]

How do you find the 20% woman? Lots of people change over time, especially with just one partner for years and years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you find the 20% woman? Lots of people change over time, especially with just one partner for years and years.

I'm sure that's often true but not in my case. I've been married 36 years and twice a week is pretty normal in my house. I was a virgin until I was 23 so once I started playing catch up I saw no reason to stop.

[Anonymous]

Do not doubt your reasons for not settling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never have sex on the first date

But if you do…realize you can back track. There’s at least one way you’re compatible, see what else is there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t marry a man with a small penis.

+ 1000. And find out before the wedding!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look out for ADHD inattentive in SO and his family. Even if, especially if, they are mainly book smart.

Yes yes yes.

And find out everything about Asperger's before you get married, so you can decide if you can handle being a special-needs wife and (very likely) a.special-needs mother

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Date a lot of guys to help you figure out what your really looking for. That doesn't mean you have to sleep with everyone of them. Do that selectively and make them work for it.

Good grief.

Yes worst advice. Pick one person by being selective...then sleep together after you both want to date solely.

[Anonymous]

Online dating is a waste of time. Too many loony tunes with daddy issues

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look out for ADHD inattentive in SO and his family. Even if, especially if, they are mainly book smart.

Yes yes yes.

And find out everything about Asperger's before you get married, so you can decide if you can handle being a special-needs wife and (very likely) a.special-needs mother

+1

Kids, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you want to meet nice guys in college hang out in the library and not at frat houses.

x1000

[Anonymous]

Date guys outside of your super small hipster niche in high school and college, even if they aren't "cool" by your friends' standards. In hind sight, i had lots of guys interested in me, hinting at dating etc, and they were smart, good looking nice guys . But they weren't in the artsy scene with me, so i never even considered it. As a consequence, i spent a lot of time single and not having enough dating fun.

[Anonymous]

That living alone is infinitely better than living with a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want to meet nice guys in college hang out in the library and not at frat houses.

x1000

Oh please, not like you would f4ck those library guys, that's why you didn't care to meet guys there.

Hope it was worth it.