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Reply to "If you could go back in time what would you tell your younger self about dating/ relationships?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Date a lot but don't marry until you're at least 30; you just change too much between 18-30. You might still end up with someone okay but if you get married at 23, understand by 30 you will be very different and that can change the dynamic of your relationship. If a guy isn't interested, he isn't. No amount of trying to pretend otherwise or games or whatever will make him care. Just accept it and move on. You will always have a soft spot for your first love. Don't be the person who later ruins it by trying to rekindle that in middle age after marriages and kids and divorces. It won't be the same and it will just make you sad. Don't fall for a fantasy of thinking you will be the young version of you if you're with them again. You won't. You'll still be older you and worse, they are older them. Leave that relationship in the past where it can never be ruined and just be a sweet memory. [/quote]
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